Universal circle of friends, tell me, what is the concept of a person who cares about children? If you don't like it, just listen to the comments

Haggle over every ounce is determined by a person's personality, and different experiences and family backgrounds naturally have different views and actions. So everyone has their own interests, there is no need to force others to get rid of the habit of haggling over every ounce. The key is how to live in harmony with people who haggle over every ounce. Now that we know that someone is the haggle type, we are more understanding and tolerant. In fact, it is because of all kinds of people that the world we live in has become so colorful, and we should thank them! But what needs special attention is that people who haggle over every ounce often hold grudges, and they think they are victims. They catch you "mistreating" him (her), see you once, and hold grudges for life. "You are my eternal pain." Here is a key word: bear grudges. Therefore, be careful when dealing with people who haggle over every ounce, or you will inadvertently offend him (her) and even become an enemy. Once he (she) hates you, no matter how you communicate with him (her), it is difficult to gain his (her) understanding and trust again, and you can't live in harmony. Therefore, in addition to being tolerant of people who haggle over every ounce, we should be cautious everywhere, so that he (she) can be careful and try not to offend him (her) because of contradictions. After all, one more friend is better than one more enemy, not only for yourself, but also for others! In addition, haggle over every ounce has two meanings for different situations: praise and criticism. For example, in terms of learning progress and due diligence, I think it is very desirable to haggle over every ounce. For another example, it is also of great practical significance to haggle over every ounce in the process of hard work to accumulate wealth. After all, many rich people get rich by haggling over every ounce and opportunities. They know that wealth is hard to come by. When you get along with people who haggle over every ounce, you should be more careful and pay attention to the way of communication, otherwise it will not only make the other party bear grudges, but also hurt yourself. I think men should be able to afford it, put it down and learn to forget it. There are always some criticisms and opinions between superiors and subordinates. If you treat them as fools and haggle over every ounce, you are sorry for yourself. In fact, criticism and opinions depend on which angle you look at them. On the other hand, criticism and opinions truly reflect the care and love for others. You should thank those who criticize you and give you advice. Imagine that if you don't hear criticism and opinions at all, it is very dangerous, because others simply regard you as nonexistent and can ignore you. Wrong is wrong, rotten is hopeless, and it will be too late. Therefore, I personally appreciate and thank those who give me advice and opinions in person. Because everyone has different perspectives, different personalities, different cultural attainments and different ways of doing things, it is inevitable that some suggestions and opinions will not be recognized and accepted by you, but even so, you should respect and thank those who give you advice and help you. Only by carefully creating this good atmosphere will there be good people around you who will always care about you and help you. In another sense, criticism and opinions will make you realize your own shortcomings, constantly improve yourself and stimulate your enterprising consciousness. Even if there are criticisms and opinions that may be inconsistent with objective facts, most of them are well-intentioned. We should thank and encourage this kind of care and love. Even some criticisms and opinions are deliberately difficult, so what's the harm? Just as they urge you to torture you, you should thank those who torture you. In fact, what matters is not what you suffered, but what you got after being tortured. It is not difficult to accept torture. How to make good use of torture is the real difficulty. Torture makes people progress. Therefore, when a person who haggles over every ounce keeps turning over old scores, understand them and tolerate others. One day, he (she) will understand what you have done to him and eliminate misunderstandings and barriers. In fact, I also hope that people who are particularly calculating can realize that they have this problem and adjust themselves bit by bit. Even if they feel uncomfortable, they should think twice before acting. We should not only find ways to relieve our psychological pressure, but also consider whether the other party can accept it. At the same time, I also hope that people who are particularly haggle over every ounce will not mistake the humility and tolerance of others for guilt or even constant threats, which is even more wrong.