My boyfriend said he wouldn't marry me. How should I handle this relationship?

Boyfriend's family is not good to her, should this relationship be maintained?

Boyfriend's family is not good to her, should this relationship be maintained?

Talking about girls in their twenties

For girls in their twenties, it may be awkward.

I just graduated at this age, and my salary is not much, and my family's expectations are high.

At the same time, for a girl in her twenties, there is a problem facing reality, that is, feelings. Perhaps for a girl in her twenties, feelings are not like a teenage cardamom girl who just blushes and has a desire for love buried in her eyes.

For girls in their twenties, when it comes to feelings, they may have more personal experiences, both sweet and bitter. Recently, Xiaowan (a pseudonym) also encountered this problem.

Xiaowan is twenty-five years old this year. She graduated from college for more than a year. She has a boyfriend Xiaodong (a pseudonym) who has been dating since college. In the year of graduation, my boyfriend and his family were forced to go on blind dates, so they confessed to their families that they had already met someone.

After Xiaodong's family learned of the girl's existence, they still expressed their desire to see Xiaowan. On the first day, who wants to meet, Grandpa Xiaodong has been dark, and the meeting ended in discord.

"Your family doesn't like me?" Xiaowan asked with trepidation. She is afraid to hear the answer now and doesn't want to know it.

"No, they ... they just don't think you are tall enough, and then the conditions at home are not very good." Xiaodong faltered and said, "My grandfather is actually feudal, as long as I love you."

"Our family background is similar, but my parents survived and their family began to dislike me. You said that my parents worked hard to raise me, and I was priceless to my parents. Even for my parents, I don't want to wronged myself. " Xiaowan cried and told me that she was less than 1.55 meters tall, which has always been her inferiority complex. Suddenly, she said it from her boyfriend's mouth, as if she had punched herself hard. She thinks it makes her sad, and even if she gets married in the future, she can't get along well with them.

"I don't know whether to leave him now. I love him very much, but I can't face his family. " Xiaowan's eyes were filled with tears.

When I heard your story about Xiaowan, blx started to make trouble again. This matter has been on Bian Xiao's mind. Today, I want to mention the following points through Xiaowan's story.

Inherit the wind, who doesn't want their children to have a perfect partner, we can understand your feelings, but the set of values in your heart may be playing mandarin duck, so please look at the advantages of others.

For Xiaodong, marriage is between two families. It is important to consider both parents when getting married. If you really love, try to convince your family, instead of saying, "My grandfather is actually very feudal, as long as I love you."

For Xiao Wan, love is not only sweet, but also bitter. Just like the fire of Sansheng Stone III some time ago, immortals have to come down to grab it, not to mention us mortals, come on ~ ~