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1. Many people know that "parents are bad", but few people understand that "children are bad"

The generation gap is just a warning, not necessarily a fact. Parents regard the generation gap as a possible obstacle and try to eliminate it. This is the correct attitude. You shouldn't use the generation gap as an excuse to cover up your negligence.

Love has no conditions, but marriage has conditions.

Married couples should understand that "men and women have the same rights, but different qualities".

5. The educational goal is "only when there is dependence in independence can we cooperate with others; There is independence in dependence, so that you will not lose yourself. "

6. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, which seems to require parents to become saints. In fact, "inherit the wind" is just an imperative sentence, which represents high expectations for parents. Even if we interpret it as a declarative sentence, we should stand in the child's position, not based on the parents' views.

7. Don't be a "god parent" or a "ghost parent", be a "human parent"

8. The best way is to gradually reduce the concept of "absolute" and broaden the perspective of "relative" with the growth of children's age, so as to broaden their horizons.

9. Parents should understand that it is inevitable to mislead their children in education. The more teachers there are, the more difficult it is to deal with them. Unless you are willing to take your child as a victim, you can't make a fuss, or you must judge the teacher in the end. It is best to report to the school through normal channels and ask for improvement. At the same time, it is the best policy to seize the opportunity, cultivate children's ability to resist stress and turn the crisis into a turning point.

10. Children are human all their lives. The most correct and effective eugenics is that parents help their children and make people happy. Doing things is not an end in itself. The real purpose of life is to do things well and do people well.

1 1. The teachings of sages are the inheritance of life wisdom.

12. Material support is called mouth support, which belongs to filial piety; Spiritual support is called cultivating the mind, which is filial piety.

13. Filial piety uses physical strength, middle filial piety uses brains, and great filial piety is always filial, that is, no matter whether parents are alive or not, they can take their parents to heart and never dare to humiliate them all their lives.

14. True love comes from the deep heart, and it can't be forced at all, let alone conveyed in words. Children will soon learn to feel their parents' love from their expressions, voices, eyes, breathing and every move.

15. Parents' parenting attitude has a very close influence on children's self-awareness.

16. Teaching children to develop the good habit of "don't deceive themselves" is the key foundation for a sound personality in life.

17. The best way to cultivate a child's honest habit is to satisfy his curiosity.

18. The main activity of mental development is not watching or listening, but thinking rather than thinking, because the difference between taking an exam and thinking lies in carelessness and intention.

19. The most important thing in life is the happiness of life.

20. Parent-child relationship is the result, and family education is the reason.

2 1. People who can read can understand the meaning between the lines and realize the real intention outside the words. People who can't read read a lot, and their heads are full, but they are confused and confused. It can be said that the more they read, the more confused they become.

22. It is better to succeed late than early; Failure early is better than failure late. It is not luck for a person to succeed prematurely. Because many things are afraid to try, which may kill your true talent.