I don’t want to worry about missing you anymore, but these are all things I don’t want to do, I can’t do it

1. In the deepest despair, you encounter the most beautiful scenery. --- Jimmy

2. Because of you, I have been serious, I have changed, I have worked hard, I have been sad. I am stupid, and I am stupid for you; I feel pain, and I feel pain for you; late at night, you It’s a habitual memory of mine. I don’t want to struggle with the past anymore, I don’t want to work hard for the past anymore, I don’t want to worry about longing anymore, but these are all things I don’t want to do, I can’t do it

Three , time goes by, I have been alone for so long, but I have returned to my original appearance.

4. The rain has not stopped yet. I can't say it's annoying, because everyone has emotions and desires, not to mention this is a world? It wants to cry, what can I do to resist it, or what can I do to stop it? I can't break up the clouds and let the sunshine in, right? Not to mention that I don’t have this ability, even if I do, what rights do I have to stop it?

5. In this world, don’t rely too much on others, because even your shadow will leave you in the dark. Along the way, we bid farewell to one part of the past and enter the next part of the scenery. The road is extending, the scenery is changing, and there is no eternity in life. When we go far and look back, many things have been blurred, many people have forgotten, and only a few people and things are related to us and involve our happiness and happiness.

6. Before him, she thought that love was thousands of miles away from her. After him, she gradually believed that love had already passed her by. ---Sheng Li "A Person's Joy and Sorrow"

7. You can't see the pain I bear in my heart, nor the scars in my heart. You can only sort out your own scars and sort out your own scars. Sort out your wounds and face reality with a quiet heart.

8. The relationship between people is sometimes like a sweater. When knitting, every stitch is careful, and when it is taken apart, it only needs to be pulled gently. Maybe it is just a joke, maybe it is unintentional. A small misunderstanding, all the emotions will never be seen again! Friendships don’t matter, the most important thing is to be with each other through thick and thin; no matter how long the relationship lasts, the most important thing is to respond to every request.

9. The flowers are falling and the water is flowing. The ice and snow are everywhere every day, and the desolation is everywhere. The gears of fate have already turned, and they are wandering in the world. Do not argue with others, nor do you feel ashamed.

10. Don’t be surprised by favor or disgrace, watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; have no intention of leaving or leaving, watch the clouds roll and relax in the sky. ---Hong Yingming's "Cai Gen Tan"

11. No one can be pure all the way to the end, but you must remember and don't forget your original self.

12. Without detachment, one can only belong to the turbid world. Without self-cultivation, it will eventually lead to the withering season. Life, or unfinished repentance. The soul can undoubtedly sublimate everything. Breathe the sunshine, drink the rain and dew, the flowers in the deep valley are always so simple and pure.

13. Dreams are indeed beautiful, but I am always with you in your dreams.

14. The tight hold in the past was in vain. Letting go now is just to save the future. The eyes looking into the distance are no longer for anyone, but only for the dream that is full of ups and downs in life, waiting for a lifetime of love.

15. There is no need for ever-changing vows, only a lifetime of silence; no need for a luxurious candlelight dinner, just two people, a table of simple meals; no need for a villa, facing the The sea is warm and the flowers are blooming in spring. All you need is a small house, floor-to-ceiling windows, and one meter of sunshine. You don't need bright and beautiful roses, you just need to give me a broad shoulder. This is love, plain but happy; this is love, simple and happy.

16. The past events in this world are painful to remember when mentioned. A few years later, they are just a memory. Some pains can be overcome with patience, some troubles can be solved with patience, some words cannot be said anymore if one endures it, some love cannot be loved anymore if one endures it, and some people do not want to wait anymore if one endures it.

17. Life is endless and lonely. Love is endless in lonely life, loneliness is the eternal theme of love. I am alone with my shadow. It said it had something private to say to me. It said it missed you very much^ It turns out that my shadow and I were both thinking of you.

18. Sometimes, I hope that I will grow up quickly, but when I grow up, I find that I have lost my childhood; when I am single, I begin to envy the sweetness of my lover; when I am in love, I miss the freedom of being single. Many things always feel good when they are not obtained. After getting them, we begin to understand: we are also losing when we get them.

19. The whole city is shrouded in damp rain, the sky is gray, and there is no sunshine for a long time, which makes people feel inexplicably depressed. I often feel the urge to cry when walking on the street. .

20. Late autumn walks slowly, late for my reincarnation. The drizzle falls for a moment and a half, enveloping my deep dreams. The rest of yesterday is regretful, the drizzle has dried up the tears, and there is nowhere to write. Late autumn, late autumn is not too late, I am lazy, the drizzle and wind have gone, return to my original intention, and give me a clear dream. But I am watching the wheat field that is half sparse with rain in late autumn. When the next sycamore leaf dances again, I also pick up my old dream. Old dreams are cold, a pillow clutters my eyes in the late autumn, the rain is sparse, patting the window, my late autumn rain is half-combed away from my dream of yesterday.

21. Time is a medicine. If you master it well, it is the antidote. If you squander it wantonly, it is the poison.

22. Walking alone in the long silent street, memories replayed one after another. I told myself to face it bravely, even if my heart is broken, it will be perfect. Thinking of the scene of holding hands with you, tears have already turned into rain and poured down all over the sky. When I returned to the place where we met, I realized how much I didn’t know about you. I thought that if I love deeply, I won’t be afraid of sadness, but I prefer to let my heart turn into snow, making your pain deeper and colder. Say a short sentence. I just want to be myself and don’t want to leave again

I can’t understand one The person you love with all your heart is the one who hurts you the most

I don’t want to force you, so since you don’t love me, let’s break up!

After many years, seeing you again makes me feel uncomfortable.

Even if the world ends, I will keep smiling.

Transfer the warmth of one person to the chest of another.

I can no longer tell whether you are friendship or missed love.

Every time, I am so stupid that I indulge in memories again and again.

The moment you turned around and left, my heart was dead

I just want to be myself and don’t want to leave anymore

All lovesickness is devastated , staying together for a long night under that lonely lamp and light wine

Really, what if I lose you and win the world

For whom did I cry wantonly! You are the one who blew into me The sand in his eyes blurred his eyes.

If my life were a movie, you would be the advertisement that pops up.

When I look at other people’s stories, the tears I shed are indeed my own.

A person who cannot achieve harmony with himself may have to reach compromises with others.

What is happiness? It means hiding your sadness and smiling at everyone.

Boil acacia red beans into porridge. Just for you to look back.

Don’t think how important you are in other people’s world, maybe it’s just a casual acquaintance.

You already know what you know. If you don’t know, you don’t need to know!

H wants you to be happier and happy forever.

Because I don’t understand what a lifetime is, it’s easy to swear by a lifetime.

I love you not for who you are, but for who I can be in front of you.

The fragrance of flowers that season warms the heart and touches the heartstrings

Loneliness and emptiness cling to the wounded heart full of holes.

Sister is not a TV, so don’t stare at her all the time.

If you fall in love with someone else, please don't tell me. I'm not as brave as you think.

One of the two people will always leave first in various ways.

I am not afraid of Singles’ Day, but I am afraid that the person I like will not celebrate Singles’ Day.

You can’t go back to the past, just like you can never have what you lost.

At the moment when you want to give up, think about why you persisted to get here in the first place. When you reach my age, you no longer want to please anyone.

When you reach my age, you no longer want to please anyone.

In the past, I always wanted to be considerate of everything and everyone liked me. Now I understand that I am not RMB, so I cannot satisfy everyone. If you are good to me, I will be twice as good to you; if you are false to me, I don’t need to worry about you anymore. Live a free and easy life, don't be bound by the eyes of outsiders.

At my age, I understand that it’s not about having too many friends but having the best.

In the past, I always put a lot of energy into making friends and always wanted to get to know everyone well. Now I understand that a cart of potatoes is not as good as a luminous pearl. No matter how many fair-weather friends you have, it's all in vain. Normally prosperous and peaceful, some people show their true colors in times of storm. Only when you need a helping hand can you understand people's hearts.

At my age, I no longer pursue empty enjoyment.

When I was young, I always liked excitement and flashy things. Now I understand that ordinary companionship is the most valuable, and life is the most enjoyable when it is simple. Peace of mind and no worries, this kind of life is the most comfortable and rare.

At my age, I know that a healthy body is the most important thing.

In the past, I always liked to drink and talk and have fun as much as possible. Always staying up late, always coveting quick talk, and eating too much food that is harmful to the body. Now I understand that a good body is the foundation for you to enjoy happiness. Eat more healthy whole grains. The most natural things are the most nourishing. It’s time to start taking good care of your stomach.

At my age, it is too old to talk about love and too early to talk about death.

The people I loved in the past are gradually forgotten, and the entanglements that I had in the past are gradually blurred. Those inexplicable love, hate, and hatred will slowly go with the wind. Sometimes letting others go is also letting yourself go. People come and go; love fades away. These are just a part of life, and letting go is also a kind of tenderness.

At my age, my heart is tired and my love is deep.

Because I have walked through a muddy road, I understand the value of true love better. Because I have seen the hardships of life, I understand that plainness is true. No matter how fancy your life is, it will never be enough to overcome your inner exhaustion. Learn to be kind to yourself and learn to live a lighter life. Only you know best whether you are living well or not.

You only have one heart, don’t be too tired; you only live once, you must learn to live for yourself. I don’t want to make a living, I want to live

Introduction: Throughout life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something for yourself to cherish, for you to yearn for, for you to protect, for which you are willing to live. Even something that you are willing to sacrifice for, this is value. Love is a religion, and it costs more to believe in it than any other religion.

1. You understand that human life is neither as good nor as bad as people think. —— Maupassant

2. Reading to the end is to make us more tolerant and understand how complicated the world is. ——Liang Wendao "I Read"

3. People who cannot realize their dreams have one common thing, that is, they want something but are unwilling to pay for it. ——Tuanhe Guangji

4. Nobility is not the kind of simple beauty, but the detachment after understanding all things, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathy. ——Yu Hua "Alive"

5. Do you think people can get feelings for free. No. Even the best, most self-sacrificing feelings don’t come to you for free. Oddly enough, that's what makes it beautiful. —— Oscar Wilde

6. Born as a human being, he will inevitably do a few stupid things and wrong things. Eat the fruit you shouldn’t eat and love the people who aren’t worthy of love. But he has his own balance in his heart, and he is unwilling to confuse right and wrong, and ignore the good and the bad to defend himself. He understands that what you should do is not necessarily what you love to do. This division of self, the divergence of knowledge and action, produces tragedy when it is tense, and turns into irony when it is loose. ——Qian Zhongshu

7. Not every effort will be rewarded, but efforts must be made for every harvest. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition. ——Zhang Ailing

8. When I was 16 years old, I went to Ali, Tibet to serve as a soldier. Facing the vast land for 11 years, I repeatedly questioned the meaning of life. The harsh conditions also made me think of committing suicide, but every time Looking up at the stars for the first time and squeezing my intact body, I understand that if you persevere in adversity, never think that you have no way out. You are still you. As long as your spirit does not collapse, your body can follow you forward. ——Bi Shumin

9. Your burden will become a gift, and your suffering will light up your way.

——Tagore

10. At the age of thirty, a person should know himself like the palm of his hand. He should know exactly what his shortcomings and advantages are, and he should know how far he can go. Being able to foresee who you will become in the future and, more importantly, accept it all. —— Camus

11. A person’s life may burn or decay. I cannot decay, I am willing to burn! ——Ostrovsky

12. Fate with certain people is like a flower that blooms in the night and cannot see the sun. It will wither silently before dawn and will never bloom again. It is a love affair between moonlight and shadow. After leaving that part of the city, we still have to continue on our way. Life is so full of illusions. There is always hope and there is always no hope. ——Annie Baby's "Lotus"

13. May you have enough patience to take responsibility and a simple heart enough to believe. Please believe: no matter what, life is reasonable. ——Rilke

14. Everyone who is born into this world must have a position that is most suitable for him, just waiting for him to claim it one day. Whether a position is the most suitable for him or not, he should ask his life and soul to see if they feel happy. ——Zhou Guoping "The Most Suitable Position"

15. Once you stop wanting something, you will get it. I think this is an absolute and unchanging truth. ——"The Philosophy of Andy Warhol"

16. From the past to the present, I have always envied and admired those who are good at socializing and socializing. I have never been able to learn or feel uncomfortable. Make yourself feel guilty. Thinking about it now, it seems that this is not bad, at least it is much better than finding that only a tired, lonely and empty self is left at the moment when the crowd has dispersed, the lights are dim, and the cups and plates are scattered. ——Wu Nianzhen

17. The heart is like a vast maze, thousands of miles away, in which there is no boat that can ferry people across, and other than crossing by oneself, there is nothing others can do to help. ——Sanmao

18. I have experienced a lot. Now, I seem to understand what happiness is: living a quiet and secluded life, doing simple and useful good deeds to people as much as possible, and doing a good job. A really useful job and finally rest, enjoy nature, read a book, listen to music and love the people around you. This is my interpretation of happiness. ——Jon Krakauer, "Wild Survival"

19. A person's true happiness is not to stay in the light. Stare at the light from a distance and run towards it. Only in that time of selflessness can you find the true fulfillment of life. ——Tadao Ando

20. When people are in contact with each other, what can be described is only a partial view, one or two human relationships. What can be said is not the deepest loneliness. ——Jian Yu

21. Silence is the most perfect way to express contempt. ——Bernard Shaw

22. I am probably a bird, full of vigilance and not easy to stay, so I keep flying. ——Lin Huiyin

23. Life is a ball of desires. If desires are not satisfied, it will be painful, and if they are satisfied, it will be boring. Life swings between pain and boredom. —— Schopenhauer

24. Nobility is not the kind of simple beauty, but the detachment after understanding all things, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathy. ——Yu Hua "Living"

25. Like everyone else in the world, what I expose to the world are only public opinions that have been trimmed, perfumed, and carefully beautified. Private opinions are carefully and intelligently veiled. ——Mark Twain

26. How many of you are like me, sitting in a space of less than ten square meters, looking at the splendor of ninety-five thousand kilometers in the book. Or maybe you are like me, with a heart wider than 95,000 kilometers, but sitting on a chair less than one square meter. ——Ishida Yusuke "If you don't go, you will die"

27. Throughout life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something for yourself to cherish, for you to yearn for, for you to protect, for which you are willing to live. Once you have it, something you are even willing to sacrifice for, this is value. ——Wang Meng

28. Some people live a peaceful life without a fixed abode, while some people live on the run in luxurious houses for the rest of their lives. There are many people who are worried about pursuing wealth or are so busy that they forget to live. After working hard all your life, you will still be unhappy in the end, but your life has passed.

——Khenpo Si Arongbo, "The Way of Silence"

29. Without love, human life is unimaginable. Love! It turns desolation into prosperity, mediocrity into greatness; it makes the dead resurrect and the living shine. Even though love is endless suffering, endless torture, as severe as ice, and as burning as fire, love is always so natural to mentally and physically healthy men and women, and at the same time it makes us feel novel, mysterious and incredible. ——Lu Yao's "Ordinary World"

30. Beauty, youth, wealth, and even love itself cannot make those who are deeply favored by God free from anxiety and pain, nor can they keep away sorrow. They avoid losing the things they love most. Because, in life, some rain is bound to fall, and some days are bound to be dark, sad, and desolate. ——Louisa May Alcott, "Little Women"

31. If the process from desire to satisfaction to new desire proceeds quickly, you will be happy; if it proceeds slowly, you will be happy. , it causes pain; if it pauses, it means boredom. What is even more frightening is that it can make life rigid and manifest itself as fatal depression. So the will always knows what it desires now, what it desires here, but never what it desires at all. ——Schopenhauer "The World as Will and Representation"

32. The drama of life is unhealthy. People like us who grew up in urban culture always see pictures of the sea first and then see the sea; we read love novels first and then know about love; our experience of life is often second-round, with the help of artificial drama. So it's hard to draw a line between life and the drama of life. ——Zhang Ailing's "Children's Words Are Unbridled"

33. What you can't do is your own business. When you dream back at midnight, you can recall it as you like, but in front of others and behind others, what do I want you to pretend to be? It doesn't look like it happened. You can do it, we can all do it, this is how everyone survives. ——Yishu "Bridge of Sighs"

34. I know that love is a job that requires groping in the dark, and you will definitely get your hands dirty. If you hesitate, nothing fun will ever happen. At the same time, you have to find the right distance between you and others. Too close and they will defeat you; too far and they will abandon you. ——Hanif Qureshi "Intimacy"

35. It is precisely because we are cold by nature that we need to keep each other warm, we need to look into each other's eyes and talk, and we need to sleep next to each other late at night The snuggle of a warm body, a familiar turning movement and the smell of the mouth, we need a shoulder to lean on when we cry, because humans have always been fragile animals that need communication. ——Li Ge "Loving you is a luxurious consumption behavior"

36. To heal one person, another person is needed. Once a secret is told, the accompanying pain will be forgotten. ——Li Fanali's "Happiness in Istanbul"

37. I didn't understand at that time, and I didn't understand that sooner or later I might hurt someone and give her a serious injury that cannot be healed. In some cases, the very existence of one person harms another. ——Haruki Murakami, "South of the Border and West of the Sun"

38. Love is a religion, and it is more expensive to believe in it than to believe in any other religion. It is fleeting and like a naughty child, it has to break something when it passes by. ——Balzac

39. How great it would be if one day, I work not for survival, but just for fun. But when a person has a lot of money, he will have other desires and other pressures. So I said to myself, don’t envy others, do your best first. ——Lu Qiu Luwei's "Walking Rose"

40. I don't want to make a living, I want to live. ——Wilde

Editor’s note: I know that love is a job that requires groping in the dark, and you will definitely get your hands dirty. If you hesitate, nothing fun will ever happen. At the same time, you have to find the right distance between you and others. Too close and they will defeat you; too far and they will abandon you.