Lin Pinru's conversation

After 1 1 year, when I watched The Temptation of Going Home again, I was still angry about Hong Shixian's "scum", but I was also wondering what made Hong Shixian change his mind.

I thought about it and found that there may be three reasons. One is Ellie's temptation, and the other is that he can't control himself and has bad conduct, like his own problems.

The first two points are easy to understand, but is the last one strange? If Pinru is clearly a victim in love, how can she still have her problems?

As far as a marriage is concerned, Ellie's temptation represents an irresistible factor in the world of flowers and flowers. Hong Shixian cannot but represent a man's character. Whether it is the former or the latter, it is the woman who has the final say.

Only the last point, women can avoid their own products because their attraction to Hong Shixian is weakened.

As the saying goes, it is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others. Instead of building happiness on whether a man can be reliable, let yourself be strong and learn how to make men care more about you. Many times, women "do" a little, but men love you more.

Be a man

What kind of woman was Lin Pinru before she divorced Hong Shixian? I believe that every friend who has seen the drama will say that Pinru is a good woman, a good wife and a good mother.

Yes, the product is very good. After marrying Hong Shixian, she washed, cooked and cleaned the housework for Hong Shixian. Facing her mother-in-law's difficulties, she chose to endure. Although she hasn't had children for a long time, children still depend on fate.

Be gentle, serve your in-laws, serve your husband and work hard. It can be said that it is too rare for such a woman to be a wife. Therefore, Hong Shixian's last change of heart was even more hateful.

But I must say that Lin Pinru is a qualified wife and a failed woman, because she can't be her own man and doesn't understand men's minds.

In getting along with Hong Shixian, Pinru has always been relieved. Hong Shixian said she was busy. She was sensible and didn't bother. Even if she was wronged, she would rather keep it in her heart than say it. She rarely asks for anything, let alone ask Hong Shixian to leave work and spend some time with herself.

Such Lin Pinru is an obedient and clever woman in Hong Shixian's eyes. Since she doesn't have to do anything by herself, she can love herself so much. Why pay more attention to her?

It can be said that it is Pinru's understanding that makes Hong Shixian accustomed to ignoring her feelings and even betrays her marriage because of the pursuit of excitement.

Don't forget, candy is for crying children. Although being kind and generous is a good thing, women can be willful. You can ask men to spend more time with you, or you can order some small gifts, which will not only make men feel bored, but will satisfy their self-esteem. Because it's a signal that you need him.

Which man doesn't like coolies?

Be yourself

In this play, Lin Pinru's revenge is also a highlight. If we carefully observe Lin Pinru in two periods, we will find that it can successfully retaliate against Hong Shixian and Ellie and make Hong Shixian like her because she is cruel to herself.

At that time, Lin Pinru had exquisite makeup, a successful career and a feminine style. She is mysterious and dazzling. Such a woman has a fatal attraction to men, so Hong Shixian noticed her at a glance.

Compared with his ex-wife, who is plain and honest, empty and beautiful but not well dressed, his eyes will naturally follow the latter. After all, no one can refuse the temptation of light.

You are still alone, but the former makes people give up voluntarily, while the latter is full of pursuit. Isn't it strange? What is the reason? It is the change of women themselves.

Without a job and financial resources, she had to ask others for money for small things, so she began to study again and chose to shine in her career.

In addition, in order to improve her vision and taste, she constantly cultivated her interests, learned swimming, red wine, painting, dancing, driving, playing golf ... and even learned to use her appearance to enhance her charm.

In short, she began to torment herself constantly, and finally turned herself into a successful and charming woman.

Such Lin Pinru, even if he doesn't take the initiative to attract men's attention, will not lack suitors around him.

Being yourself is not a way for women to mess around, but a way for men to learn to be dazzling and love themselves more.

Zhang Ailing once said that a woman in love can't control herself. Yes, once a woman is in love, she will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and even lose her sense of proportion in many things. However, please remember that if love wants to last, then both sides must be evenly matched, and it is not advisable to wait passively for men's pity forever. Happiness will not wait. I won.

Therefore, learning to be a "coolie" and a man can satisfy men's self-esteem and their desire for protection; Being yourself not only makes you more attractive, but also adds freshness. Take the initiative in your own hands and be a smart woman.