Finally, the teacher's words reassured me: "Isn't your sister a primary school teacher? Send him to her school. Your son will need more attention, and you will be less troubled." My sister's school is

Finally, the teacher's words reassured me: "Isn't your sister a primary school teacher? Send him to her school. Your son will need more attention, and you will be less troubled." My sister's school is not the best. , but it does not mean that the teacher will be bad. So I sent them there. Considering the transportation, I chose a semi-nursery class. I had lunch and dinner at the school and was picked up at 7pm. Before school started, I took my son to visit the school. My son was very happy when he went to school for the first time. The tall teaching building, the big playground, everything is fresh and full of attraction. I can see the longing in my son's eyes. ?But going to school isn’t just fun. Before sending her to school, she was given safety education, discipline education, respect for teachers, mutual help and love education, etc., over and over again, and she felt like she was about to become "Xiang Lin's Wife". After more than a month, I had all sorts of tastes, sour, sweet, bitter and spicy. My son has become darker and thinner, but he has grown taller and is more sensible. It's very hard for a child in half-day care. He eats two meals in the cafeteria, doesn't have a break at lunch, and has to sit until 7 o'clock in the evening. However, a regular life has cultivated his son's awareness of taking care of himself and observing discipline. In order to ensure my son's nutrition, I prepare nutritious and varied breakfast for him at home every morning. I never dare to be sloppy. When I come back in the evening, I also prepare snacks such as milk bread. In terms of study, in addition to face-to-face communication with the teacher, reading the teacher’s blog online every day is a required course for me. At the beginning, my son was very active in class, had difficulty concentrating, was careless in exams, was playful and restless, and even became so angry that the teacher "couldn't get off the stage". But under the teacher's patience and dignity, and after tears and smiles time and time again, my son gradually became sensible. What surprised me the most was that my son, who was always neglectful, actually scored double hundred in the last exam. Now, my son is gradually beginning to adapt to primary school life, although he will still have new problems and pressures in the future. But I am no longer panicked, because I, as a mother, am also growing up. Parents’ personal experience: Children no longer resist going to school. Jin Danhui: My son has been in primary school for more than a month. Every day when I see him carrying a schoolbag and wearing a little yellow hat and going to school decently, I always feel strange: How come in the blink of an eye, that little crying baby is already a primary school student? My son is not the kind of child who has strong communication skills and attracts attention. He is naughty, active, fragile and sensitive, and somewhat stubborn. What bothered me the most was that he was resistant to going to school from the beginning. I think this was probably because he was not good at sociability. He always expressed his nervousness by constantly asking questions: Will he be at school all day? What to learn? What should I do if I can't write... I conducted a lot of persuasive education and used every method I could think of to increase his interest in going to school, but he still said to me: "Mom, I'm worried!" My son didn't go well when he first started school. , manifested as not paying attention in class and not being able to write Pinyin as required. I was very anxious, but I felt that developing good study habits and finding suitable study methods were more important, so I asked my son to do his homework after school every day and check it after I got home. During the inspection, I tried my best to praise him, and at the same time strictly followed the teacher's requirements to listen to the recording, read Pinyin, etc. Sure enough, my son's grades quickly caught up. Moreover, he would also give me questions according to the question types in the book. I was very happy. Sometimes I answered a few questions deliberately wrong, but my son would always find out and proudly tell me that I made a mistake and order me to correct it. He also started discussing problems with me, such as children borrowing water to drink, who ate slowly, etc. This surprised and delighted me, indicating that he began to pay attention to his classmates. More than 20 days after school started, he told me that he had made two friends and named them; in order to stop a child from always borrowing water from him, he thought of many ways... His progress was obvious. In order to encourage him, I I made a performance record book with items such as eating, helping, homework, school, sleeping, etc. If he performed well, he would put a five-pointed star on it and insist on recording his happy and unhappy things every day. For a while, my son was discussing with me how to avoid being criticized by the teacher.Some parents are unwilling to listen to their children, which not only blocks their children's mouths, but also closes their children's hearts. Collapse