Are girls really happy? I hope someone around 50 can tell me.

Let's say some people I know: they live well, but they are not confident. The older they get, the more afraid they are.

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An old couple in their hometown have four daughters and no son. The eldest married the village next door, the second married the town, the third married the city next door, and the fourth married Guangdong.

The old couple were the only ones I met when I was a child who didn't have to work in the fields. They planted some land and vegetables with the help of their boss and the second couple. The third child will bring a lot of things back for the Chinese New Year. Their family always has a lot of food that we have never seen before. Old four usually doesn't come back until the Spring Festival, but he usually gives money. The two old people eat well and dress well, and wander around the village every day, doing nothing. Who wants to chat with them? After a few words, they said: it's not good to have a daughter. If you don't have a son, you will die.

Of course we think they are melodramatic.

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In my generation, many of our families are two daughters. I don't know about other places. Our small place itself has the custom of providing for the aged by daughters. That is, if parents can still work, they will bring their children to their sons to earn money. If they lose their ability to work, their daughters will be taken away. When they are dying or dying, they will be transported to their son's home, where they will die and have a funeral. Therefore, the local people can only accept the marriage of one son and one sister, the property belongs to the son and the pension belongs to the daughter.

People like us, who have only two girls at home, usually plan ahead and are not interested in recruiting a son-in-law. For example, I am the eldest daughter of my family. When I get married, I can only accept a two-hour drive, and my sister will be a little more free. However, in fact, most sisters are mixed. If you take your sister out, her starting point will be higher, and her general family conditions will be better than her. Then the two sisters asked the old man to help take care of the children. Later, when they were old, it was logical for everyone to live together.

After I graduate, I will provide education for my sister, so we don't need money from home. Let's begin to repay our parents after my sister graduates. I don't like paying attention to details. I usually buy a big one for my family every year, such as a TV refrigerator. My sister is more careful. My parents bought clothes and shoes, shampoo, laundry detergent, detergent and all kinds of food and drink from Taobao. My parents live a life that everyone in the village envies. At that time, my father worked as a coolie on the construction site, and when he had a job, he went up the mountain to find bluegrass. His good friend and son are both throwing stones at the stone factory.

My sister and I are pregnant. When our mother-in-law was born, she said she would bring it when she was born, and they didn't care if she was pregnant. My parents help us take care of our children. We pay for food, accommodation, travel and medical care, and deposit 40 thousand yuan in their card every year.

My parents are not really happy. They have always been afraid that my husband and my brother-in-law will cheat. When I was a child, my mother raised me as a boy. Now she often asks me to take care of myself and let my husband not want me. They may think that my sister and I don't earn enough money, and that children are dragging us down and will worry about our future, so they have never felt safe.

The house in our hometown has been unoccupied for more than five years, and they go back to see and repair it every year. In fact, my sister bought them a house for the aged, which is about 100 square meter in one of my buildings. Theoretically, staying with us is good, but I have no confidence.

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Mother-in-law has found a new wife, and they are particularly unworthy. My mother-in-law looks very old, sensitive and difficult to get along with. That uncle looks tall and handsome, in his early fifties, but in fact he is already sixty-two. He has only one daughter, and we all think that he likes my mother-in-law because she has two sons, who are very nice and promising.

Last year 10. 1 I went home and advised me to have a second child. He suggested that I have a son. He said something that moved me very much.

He said that he only has one daughter, and he is well raised, and the child has a bright future. Now I open a mobile phone shop in Guangdong and take care of him. His daughter will buy food, clothing, shelter and give him money, just like my family.

He has only one daughter, so the pressure is not great. When he was young, he worked as a security guard in a hotel and never worked in the fields. My heart is always unstable when I am old. He said that girls are girls after all, so don't carry things too much. The sons of other old people are not around, but when their sons come back, they will feel very confident.

I asked him, you are with my mother-in-law now. She has two sons. Do you think she has confidence? He said that my mother-in-law's son and brother don't contact home when they are fine, and they only look for her when they encounter difficulties. My mother-in-law is someone else. She will do whatever she is asked to do. She is being tortured to death. He said that his daughter loved him too much and wanted to take care of him. He hasn't decided yet.

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I only have one daughter. I'm not old enough to know what will happen in the future.

Hello, a neighbor of my family's hospital moved back to Henan from Xinjiang farm. The man has a job and gave birth to five daughters, but no boys. The children grew up one by one. Among them, the third daughter is very beautiful and capable. After marriage, she often subsidizes her parents, bringing boxes of fruits and fish to her parents and giving them lucky money. The youngest daughter is rebellious in adolescence, not tall, but dressed strangely. Our neighbor heard that her parents kept her at home and beat and scolded her. Strangely, most of these girls are boys after marriage. Two boys were born in my hometown, and the younger one has been following my grandparents. It is said that this grandson will inherit the family business, provide retirement for her grandparents and raise them like his own grandson. These girls all have jobs, and the old couple have a good life. Families are often bustling and happy. Families with daughters also have advantages. No one is to be outdone compared with filial piety. Two of the sons-in-law are rich and take good care of their families.

Another man is a senior middle school teacher in the county. He gave birth to five daughters in a row, but no boys. There is a homestead in this county. After five daughters got married, his three sons-in-law were directors of a local factory. Whenever the mother-in-law has something important to entertain guests, the third son-in-law leads them to book a hotel. The most significant thing is that he asked his sisters to spend some money to build six floors in his mother-in-law's old house, and each of the five sisters had one floor (two suites) and the family got along well, which was related to a good family style. Who says girls are unhappy at home? People have a good life.

Of course. As you said, girls are cautious, thinking about their parents everywhere, and grateful hearts are always lingering in their hearts, afraid to forget, for fear that children will want to keep them.

Girls never want to ask their parents for it. They have a soft heart. With children at home, they can better understand the hard work and sweat of their mothers in raising their children. Pay more attention to your parents.

The four daughters of my uncle's family take care of their mother in every possible way, and care for their mother is countless. The old man twisted his waist, and the four daughters took turns nursing and went to the top three hospitals for treatment. There is always a daughter around to cook for her and clean the house. There is always a daughter with you all the year round. Thanks to her four daughters, the old lady is eighty-six, still strong and walks like the wind. Why not let people envy their daughters? Happiness is like spring breeze, which melts rain and moistens things silently.

It seems that the son's family is full of money, but in fact it is his parents who are sad. All glitz is hidden behind the ups and downs. Attend the wedding with my son's family. People know common sense and are equal to men and women. When a daughter gets married, she can also make a scene. The economy allows men and women. Vanity only represents the so-called face, and face is worthless.

Happiness has nothing to do with having a boy or a girl.

The key depends on how parents educate and whether children know how to be filial. The key to success is to see your parents. I have met illiterate parents, but how many children I have taught are college students and doctoral students.

I've also seen my parents teach in universities, but their children are in prison. If parents themselves don't have the correct three views, it is difficult for children to be honest.

There is a neighbor in our hometown, and there seems to be four or five sons in the family, who are as poor as a church mouse. Several sons dropped out of school at a young age and went out to work. At that time, neighbors looked down on her family and said that the sons must be single for life.

More than 20 years have passed, and now those sons are doing well. I will go home during the Spring Festival next year. The sons are all driving good cars, and the houses in their hometown are all decorated.

Other people's parents have worked hard to earn money for their sons and get a wife, but they may not get a good one in the end. Only his sons work hard by themselves, and now they give their parents tens of thousands of pocket money every year.

The children I have met are especially filial, and they are often inherited. When their children were young, these old people set an example, filial to their parents, and let their children see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts. Filial piety is hereditary.

Happiness or not, whether children are filial, actually has nothing to do with boys and girls. It has something to do with family style and parents' words and deeds.

Happiness is not happiness, which is a personal feeling. Whether it is a son or a daughter, older children should have their own lives. I am my own daughter. My daughter is very good-looking, in good health and studying well. Now I'm married, have my own children, two children. I watched my third generation grow up day by day and was very happy.

Your parents are really sensible. A family with only one daughter must have good economic conditions. If the economic conditions are good, you can buy a house close to your children, and your children can also choose to be close to their parents. They are afraid of poor economic conditions and their son-in-law's bad temper, and they are unwilling to raise two old people. Daughter will be very angry and passive. I also hope that my daughter will be successful. There is only one daughter in my family, and now we are less than thirty. Let's work hard.

I don't envy people who have sons. A big family with sons has many contradictions.

Whether it is a son or a daughter, you must have a good future and your parents will live better. It's worthless and useless.

Giving birth to boys and girls is a physiological phenomenon for both men and women. It is independent of human will. It is against the family planning policy to change the law that both boys and girls are born naturally into scientific instruments. China's family planning policy in the last century was that a couple only had one child. Coupled with the implementation of the policy of farmers' land distribution to households at that time. Because the popularization of agricultural machinery was not enough at that time. In addition, farmers lost the support of people's communes. Heavy manual agriculture must be done by men. So at that time, rural farmers took having boys and girls as their goal and direction. It has caused the disaster of more than 30 million men and women in rural areas of China. Birth balance is ecological balance. No matter how many men and women there are, it will cause social disaster.

Let me answer this question.

I think there is a girl who is really happy. I have always had five aunts, two of whom are two girls in each family. Among the other three aunts, there is a boy at home. Judging from the present living conditions and various aspects, these two families with two cousins are really happy.

One of them is an aunt. Her family and mine are in the same city. Two cousins, one is in business and the other works in a hospital. Every time the seasons change, or on holidays, when Uncle menstruation celebrates his birthday, the two daughters discuss it in a friendly way and buy this and that for their parents respectively. My sister and I discuss to let my parents travel 1 twice a year. Usually catch up with the weekend, the two sisters also discuss taking their brother-in-law and children back to their parents' home for the weekend. They are happy and have no conflicts.

Two cousins of another aunt's family are in Jiangsu, and now my aunt and uncle have lived with one of them. Because the winter in the north is colder, it is more convenient for children to take care of their parents in the south, because after all, they are getting older and living in their daughter's house, and there is nothing to spend. The daughter is in charge of food, clothing, housing and transportation, and the two daughters have done a good job in business and quantity. In recent years, the retirement wages of aunts and uncles have basically not changed. And look at the photos, you are fat, healthy, look good, dress fashionable and feel very happy.

It's not the same with boys. One of my aunts gave her retirement card to her son. At work, she feels that the conditions at home are the best. Among us, now she feels that they are all scrimping and saving money to buy a house and a car for their son and serve their grandchildren. Then when I see that I can't change a few clothes all the year round, I still feel distressed, so I feel that there are still girls who are relatively happier.

I am not 50 years old, but my uncle is 60 years old this year. Their family is two daughters!

My uncle and my father are twins, and our two families have always been close! My cousin and I are like brothers and sisters!

As a matter of fact, there are boys and twins in my uncle's family. . It may be because of poor medical conditions, or it may be too poor to eat! They're all sick and gone! My father said the way to the village hospital was not there. .

My two cousins both worked in this city after graduation, and then got married and had children! Both parents-in-law are close to their parents' home, both within 20 minutes' drive.

After they got married, my uncle and his wife went to work in Beijing! At that time, I did some very simple work in the hotel, and the scale was relatively large. It is said that there were many stars and foreign guests! There are many employees, and hotels often organize employees to perform some programs! My uncle can read music, play the flute and win some prizes since he was a child.

During this period, my two cousins traveled to Beijing with the whole family! My uncle usually hangs out in Beijing in his spare time! My uncle also specially asked me to go, saying that when they were in Beijing, we would travel together, have a place to live and get acquainted everywhere.

At the same time, other people in our village are still busy farming, and they all go to the construction site when they are busy. Everyone envies my uncle's life: both girls are married and have no burden.

In recent years, my hometown has developed well, the city has expanded greatly, the national highway has been repaired, and our brothers and sisters have also bought cars and houses in the urban area, and the days are getting better and better! Cousin goes back once or twice a week with food (both brothers-in-law are very filial). In addition to the original building, a new one has been built at home! Live as well as others.

Some people are born girls and are very happy.

My sister is seventy years old. She gave birth to three girls. Now, the boss is forty years old, and the second and third are both in their thirties. Every child bought a house in Yongchuan New Town, and every family gave birth to a son and a daughter. The grandchildren are very happy.

At that time, my sister wanted a boy so badly that she gave birth to three daughters. I didn't have a son, and my sister was still a little lost.

As the children grew up, all three girls were smart, and they all found their satisfactory partners, forming three warm little families. My sister's face is always full of smiles.

Every holiday, the three daughters are busy in the kitchen. The boss is the chef, giving orders, the second is the handyman, and the third is the chopping block worker. A clear division of labor, three or four tables of rich hospitality meals, especially for relatives and friends envy and praise. It's good to have a daughter!

The daughters are particularly caring and closely unite around the second sister. On holidays and weekends, more than a dozen people in the second sister's house have dinner, which is very lively.

My second sister lives in the suburb of Yongchuan, which is very popular. I also like to play. The second sister is hospitable, kind and generous, and her neighbors like to visit her home. I often go to her neighbor's house to chat with my second sister and feel the simple folk customs. I feel happy too.

Now, I have regarded my second sister's daughter as my own. I want to say, it's good to have a daughter!