As the saying goes, "Three mistakes in a bowl, three mistakes in wealth", is it reasonable?

Rural proverbs come from the life experience of ancient people, but they are of great help to future generations when applied to modern people's lives. Especially in rural areas, some proverbs are widely used, such as the rural proverbs of 24 solar terms, the rural proverbs of being a man, and the rural proverbs of teaching people to be a man. It can be said that some rural proverbs also make people less detours. Today, let's talk about how to be a man in the countryside. For example, in rural areas, this sentence says, "There are three mistakes in the bowl, three mistakes in money and three mistakes in debt." What does this mean and what does it teach us?

Literally speaking, there are three faults in the bowl, that is, eating the wrong bowl and drinking the wrong cup, but our ancestors expressed their profound meaning. For example, if someone goes to work in a factory and resigns if he can't do it well, he will say, "I can't finish your work, so let someone else do it!" " "So, here, the" end bowl "here means doing business or working. As the saying goes, "the world is full of benefits, and the world is full of benefits." A gentleman loves money, so what is "three mistakes in one bowl"?

Unstable bowls cannot be served;

What kind of bowl is unstable? For example, if two people do business in partnership, doing business is bound to be risky, not only by enthusiasm, but also by foresight. If most people think that this business is unsustainable and unstable, but you think that this business is OK and will continue to do it, then there is a great chance of risks.

Although, on the whole, the truth is often in the hands of a few people, on the whole, how many real minorities are there? For example, Ma Yun and others, but who can have his mind? Therefore, when most people think this bowl is unstable, we'd better not.

Relatives' bowls cannot be served;

As the saying goes, "If you starve to death, you will not enter your husband's field, and if you die in poverty, you will not enter your relatives' door. "Although it is a sentence left by our ancestors, it contains a lot of truth. So why can't relatives' bowls be served?

There is actually a subtle relationship. For example, a relative is the boss, and when he hires you, he will definitely think that you come to work here, which means that I will take care of you and must be 100% loyal, because this is a relative relationship. You are negligent in your work. Although relatives won't say it clearly, they are secretly upset because relatives and bosses can't yell at him like that to ordinary employees. However, you must not be happy when your relatives and bosses yell at you. Over time, it will form a fuse of contradictions, so it is best not to carry relatives' bowls.

A bowl of uneven water can't be served;

This kind of situation often happens in rural areas. Some brothers often fight to support the elderly, but the reason for the fight is that the elderly used to be "eccentric" to them. For example, in the past, the old man was good to the boss and bad to the second child. But on the whole, the old people also have a great responsibility for this matter. If the old people treat their children with the attitude of "a bowl of water is flat", it is estimated that the latter things will not happen. Therefore, especially after entering middle age, a bowl of water is still flat.

What does "money has three lost" mean?

Ill-gotten wealth is not available;

A gentleman loves money well. Why? Although money is desirable, it is also upright to make money. You shouldn't steal, cheat, gamble, be greedy or earn ill-gotten gains. If someone ignores these opportunities to make money, don't think that others don't know. In fact, they already know, and so do you! There is no windtight wall in the world. One day, those who make this ill-gotten wealth will always be punished by law and reported by the world.

You can't make money if you break the road;

In the same business, although peers are enemies, it is impossible to do things too well with competitors when doing business. As the saying goes, God never shuts one door but he opens another. If you take your peers to compete for the "most desperate", it is estimated that your business will not last long, and "dogs will bite when they are anxious, and rabbits will jump over the wall when they are anxious." If you cut off other people's money, the consequences will not be as optimistic as you think, and this person will always lose.

You can't make a windfall:

There is an old saying: "wealth is a tiger going down the mountain, and anger is the root of trouble." Although wealth is a symbol of wealth and everyone's dream, it should be clean in terms of wealth, especially when some unexpected wealth comes. For example, an ordinary person has a windfall for various reasons (demolition or other reasons), so this person thinks that this windfall is easy and will soon join the gambling industry, and this windfall will soon be gone.