Is it right or wrong for teenagers to be addicted to the Internet?

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1. Don’t surf the Internet aimlessly. Set yourself Internet time and clear goals.

Two, try to surf the Internet in public places, so as to prevent virtual space poisoning caused by surfing the Internet in private spaces.

3. Delete online games on your computer, leaving only software tools for work and study.

4. Exercise regularly, don’t sit in front of the computer all the time, let alone eat in front of the computer.

5. Find other interesting things to do to eliminate the emptiness caused by not being online.

After the two programs of the "Contemporary Education" column "Ten Hours of Enlightenment" and "Soul Collision" were broadcast, the audience responded strongly. The film focuses on Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University, and his philosophy on educating children. and methods have also been unanimously recognized by parents and friends. In order to help more parents solve the problems encountered in the growth of their children, the "Contemporary Education" column and the cctv.com education channel invited invitations from 18:30-20:00 on November 15 Professor Tao was a guest on the CCTV website and communicated online with parents and children.

Opening remarks: Tao Hongkai, visiting professor of Central China Normal University: Hello everyone, my name is Tao Hongkai. I entered the Foreign Languages ??Department of Central China Normal University in 1964 to study English and graduated in 1968. After the Cultural Revolution, I took the History of Central China Normal University. He is the first graduate student of Professor Zhang Kaiyuan. In 1984, he was invited by the University of Michigan to visit the United States for further study. In 1989, he settled in New York and engaged in comparative research on Chinese and American culture and education and the practice of quality education. In the spring of 2002, he retired from the United States and returned to the United States. When I went to my hometown of Wuhan, I was hired by Central China Normal University and walked into the beautiful campus of my alma mater for the third time to carry out quality education. In early May this year, the Wuhan Evening News published a front-page article titled "Who Can Save My Daughter?" It was a mother asking for help from the society, hoping that someone could help her daughter get rid of Internet addiction and return to the right track of life. I thought it was an isolated case, so I offered to help and saved her. This rescue operation was launched accordingly.

glorious66: Professor Tao, you are my only hope to save my son. Since your appearance, you have brought a glimmer of hope to my life. How can I contact you?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Where are you from?

ER31: Professor Tao: Hello! I am the mother of a child in Baotou City, Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region. The child was in the prime of his youth and accidentally came into contact with online games. He was trapped in it for three years and skipped classes and dropped out of school. In 2003, he was dismissed from a provincial key high school. He then re-entered high school. In the second year of high school, because I couldn't adjust well, I was addicted and couldn't extricate myself. It has been more than 20 days since I went to school, and I will be out of school for the second time soon! An outstanding student who once won the National Prize in Mathematics, Physics and Chemistry is now about to wander out of society due to addiction to the Internet! I heard that Professor Tao established a volunteer team to “save Internet addicts” and successfully helped nearly a hundred students. I would like to ask Professor Tao: Can my child get one-on-one help from the volunteer team? If possible, I will take my children to Wuhan to receive help.

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Now I am giving lectures in major cities across the country to cultivate volunteer teams in various places. I have been to Shijiazhuang, Changsha, Qingdao, Tianjin, Zhengzhou, and Beijing. My next stop will be Hefei, Nanjing, Jinan, Yinchuan, Harbin and other places. I hope you can report this situation to your local relevant units or media, and then contact me. I am willing to arrange time for free to train volunteers at your place and solve local problems. My phone number is: 027-88232259. Please call me patiently.

Woodpeckers fly and fly: How can we give full play to the beneficial role of the Internet? Please give me some advice from Professor Tao

Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University: I think computers and the Internet are symbols of our new era. If people in the new era don't understand computers and the Internet, they won't be able to do anything. accomplished. But be aware that computers and the Internet are tools, not toys. People who use computers are smart people, but people who just play with computers are not wise enough.

Being good at using computers and the Internet will help you succeed. If you are just addicted to computer online games or chatting, it will lead to your failure. The above is my advice.

xiaocao029: Professor Tao: Hello! After watching the two programs "Ten Hours of Enlightenment" and "Soul Collision" in the "Contemporary Education" column, I have been trying to contact you. It's great to see you as a guest on the CCTV website today. I want to ask you for advice.

My child (male) is 18 years old, a senior in high school, and is studying in the best four-star school in our county. But since I entered this school, my grades have never been better and I am always at the bottom of the class. He was supposed to take the college entrance examination last year, but because of his poor grades, we asked him to take a break from school and re-study (he went to another school for a month and then returned to the original school), which meant he didn't have a break at home. Some of his former classmates have already been admitted to college, and some are repeating their studies. Logically, he should study hard and get admitted to a key school, but things went against the grain. The total score of the five subjects of the college entrance examination in this midterm exam was only 372. This score cannot even get into the second grade in Jiangsu. Professor, what do we do? We talked to him, but he ignored us. We wrote him a letter and put it on his desk, but he tore it up and put it in the wastebasket. I also often contacted the teacher and asked him to talk to him, but he was silent in front of the teacher. He is said to be lukewarm and has no passion at all. So far, it is difficult for us to enter his inner world and tell us about his psychology. He only has lofty goals (the college entrance examination goal is "Wuhan University", and "Wuhan University" requires more than 600 points to enroll in Jiangsu), lacks practical actions to endure hardship, and is too playful. He does not finish the homework assigned by the teacher, and playing is more important. I like surfing the Internet and playing basketball. Last semester, I missed self-study several times at night and spent time in the Internet cafe. This semester, I went to the Internet cafe during my Sunday afternoon break. I told him not to go but he refused to listen. He said he was going to school. Finally, I found him in the Internet cafe. There was an hour's break every afternoon between class and evening self-study. He would play basketball for an hour and skip meals. He would buy some snacks after the evening self-study get out of class. He also paid attention to his body shape and would take a look in front of the mirror every day. In order to avoid fear of I am fat, I eat very little, and I don’t listen to what I say. If I do this for a long time, my stomach shrinks, and I only eat one or two meals for lunch. Every evening self-study get out of class always ends about 6-7 minutes later than others. There is a female classmate who is his road friend, and he takes a long way back to accompany her. One time, the two of them actually went to have late-night snacks and arrived home more than 40 minutes late. When they talked to him, he slapped the table and said, "Isn't it just that I got a bad grade?" What do you think we should do in this situation to improve his academic performance? Please give me some advice, thank you very much!

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: I will arrive in Nanjing around the 23rd and will train volunteers in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province to help you solve local problems. Please pay attention to the report of "Nanjing Morning News".

Shui Dong Linglan: When will you come to Jinan? Looking forward to meeting you soon!

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor of Central China Normal University: Hello, Shuidong Linglan, I have accepted the invitation from the "Quancheng Night Talk" column of Jinan TV Station and will soon go to Jinan to train local volunteers and give a report. meeting. Please pay attention to this column and we will communicate in person.

mathematics521: I am from Harbin, and a friend of mine is addicted to the Internet. I really don’t want him to be like this, and I really want to help him, but I don’t know what to do.

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Hello, I have accepted the invitation from Harbin's "News Evening News" and will give a lecture in Harbin in early December and train local volunteers. Please pay attention to this newspaper and we will communicate in person.

glorious66: Can you come to Hohhot? I am willing to pay all expenses.

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: What surprises me is that Inner Mongolia has called me many calls for help. I once told them clearly that I hope you can organize and communicate through relevant local institutions or media. Contact me. I will arrange time to go to your place to hold relevant reports and train local volunteers.

This is the best way at present, because there are too many people looking for me, and I can only rely on the power of society and the attention of the whole society to solve this problem together.

Shui Dong Linglan: Do you have any requirements for volunteers?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: I think that as such a volunteer, you first need to have a good sense of social responsibility, true love and long-lasting patience. Of course, some cultural and professional foundations are also required, such as teaching experience or administrative work experience. Of course, it is best to have a foundation in psychology or even a psychological counselor qualification certificate.

Peace of Mind: Professor Tao Hongkai, do you think it is easy for children to quit Internet addiction? What do you think is the best approach?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Many people think this is a difficult thing. In fact, nothing is difficult in the world, as long as there are people who are determined. Tonight at 9:45 pm, CCTV's "News Investigation" column premiered a program about me helping a child to fight Internet addiction. This child was a member of the "News Investigation" team. They first communicated with him and then brought him to me. Problem solved on the spot. From this program, you can see that the problem of quitting Internet addiction is both difficult and solvable. I hope you can find some answers from this show.

Wandering around the world: Teenagers are addicted to the Internet. Most of them are obsessed with online games, especially violent martial arts games, which are very harmful to teenagers. How should our country strengthen the development and utilization of network resources to provide teenagers with more information? How many healthy and beneficial spiritual and cultural products?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: I just came back from the United States and discovered that domestic teenagers are addicted to the Internet and obsessed with online games, especially martial arts and violent games, which have serious adverse effects on minors. Feeling very sad. I am now traveling across the country giving lectures and training volunteers, hoping to save every child who is addicted to the Internet. At the same time, I also strongly appeal to relevant units to truly enforce the law, truly manage Internet cafes in various places, and truly not let underage children indulge in online games in Internet cafes. At the same time, I also hope that all relevant employees with conscience will not violate relevant policies just for the pursuit of money, causing teenagers to become addicted to online games and destroying families; I also hope that all relevant employees with conscience will develop more products that are beneficial to the physical and mental health of teenagers. Online resources that help young people learn, thereby helping our country’s minors have a healthy growth environment, so that the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation can truly be realized. At the same time, I hope that every parent, every conscientious educator and relevant practitioners will join me in calling for better ways to help our country solve the problem of educating minors.

ER31: If a child is so addicted and unable to extricate himself, it is obvious that someone has given him advice and he will wake up from a dream. Can he wake up from his confusion without the help of outsiders? How long will it take?

Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University: From the cases I have contacted, some children also feel bored after playing games online for a long time, and they can gradually get lost and return. It is a pity that in most cases, the help of external factors is indeed needed. As for how long it takes, it depends on the individual. The internal and external factors of each case are different. We cannot generalize, we can only be specific. A detailed analysis of the situation.

Roaming around the world: Hello Professor Tao Hongkai, thank you for your attention to youth online education, which has given us parents hope in the midst of confusion. Please tell us more about how we, as parents, can educate at home. In the process, we must meet the basic requirements of being “responsible, caring, and patient”? Thanks!

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: As a parent, of course you should have a sense of responsibility, and this sense of responsibility means never giving up. I have heard many parents say in despair that I was ready to give up a long time ago. I tried all methods to no avail, so I had no choice but to give up. I definitely don’t think that this parent really used all the methods. He just used all the methods he thought. There must be more effective methods that he did not use, so the child did not change.

Therefore, I hope that every parent will never give up their responsibility for their children. I believe that every child can change. There is no such thing as bad education for children, only incorrect methods. As for love, I find that many parents always use material and money to express love, thus materializing and pecuniary the parent-child relationship. This is wrong. We must use real emotions to build parent-child relationships. This is real "love". As for patience, it is closely related to responsibility and love. If you truly have a sense of responsibility and love, you will never give up and you will have lasting patience.

soilsea: Is Internet addiction a psychological problem?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor of Central China Normal University: Everyone has some problems more or less, but psychology is still a relatively new industry in our country, due to some influences from traditional Chinese culture , many people are very taboo about the fact that they have psychological problems. Therefore, generally speaking, I do not classify Internet addiction as a psychological problem in order to help people with Internet addiction not resist assistance. In fact, it does not matter whether Internet addiction is a psychological problem. The key is that we need to find the root cause of their Internet addiction and help them solve it. I hope that parents will not seek medical treatment in a hurry and label their children "you have psychological problems" casually, which will lead to their children's resentment and increase the difficulty of solving the problem. Moreover, I have also found from a large number of cases that some immature psychological counseling practitioners charge irresponsibly and prescribe medicines indiscriminately. Not only do they not solve the problem, but they make the child's problems more serious. These painful lessons deserve parents’ vigilance. I hope that all socially responsible psychological counseling practitioners will be truly responsible for every Internet addict who seeks help. Not only does it charge a fee, but more importantly, it truly helps them get rid of addiction healthily, return to a healthy life path, and find a healthy self.

hylxy: What should high school students pay attention to when studying to surf the Internet appropriately?

Yelang people: I think so. Nowadays, high school students are under a lot of pressure to study. Appropriate access to the Internet can allow students to learn more new knowledge, but they should not study too much and relax appropriately

Tao Hong, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University Kai: I think the answer from the Yelang person netizen has some truth, but the current problem is that due to the influence of today's China's only-child parenting, exam-oriented education in schools and unhealthy social culture, a large number of teenagers, especially high school and junior high school students, have poor self-control. Poor, it is often easy to become addicted when surfing the Internet. And I found that the current trend in schools is that during recess or before and after class, students mostly talk about how to play games and who is good at it, which seriously affects their learning. Some high school students start using the Internet to relax, which eventually leads to them becoming addicted to online games and neglecting their studies. It is very distressing for parents and has even become a serious social problem. This deserves our vigilance.

Peace of Mind: Professor Tao Hongkai, what is the success rate among the Internet addicted children you have rescued? Are there any rebounds among successful ones?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: I can say that as long as my parents can really cooperate with me, the success rate can be 99%. It is an inevitable phenomenon to succeed and then rebound, so every time I talk, I have to do a lot of follow-up solidification work. Therefore, the workload is getting bigger and bigger, so at the moment I think the best way is to mobilize the whole society to pay attention to this issue. The patriotic poet Lu You once wrote two poems about plum blossoms: "Where can one turn into a hundred billions, one plum blossom tree and one blooming man?" I also hope that through training activities in various places, more volunteers will appear to join me in this work. It is not only the conversation that saves people again and again, but more importantly, a lot of follow-up solidification work. Chinese people who are interested in doing this kind of work, let us work hard together.

Peace of mind: Is it wrong for some teachers to say that children who use the Internet have "psychological problems" and need to see a psychiatrist? Teachers have a bad attitude towards children who are addicted to the Internet. Is this also a factor that causes children to be tired of studying?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Generally speaking, I don’t agree with casually describing children’s Internet access as a psychological problem, because psychology is still a relatively new topic in our country.

Generally, Chinese people easily equate psychological problems with mental or neurological problems, causing them psychological aversion. Therefore, it is best not to label children with "psychological problems" casually, which will cause the child to develop severe resistance and hinder help for him. "Teachers have no good face towards Internet-addicted children" is absolutely wrong and an irresponsible performance. As a contemporary teacher, you should teach and educate people. When a child has a problem, we as teachers also have a responsibility. We should help him with a sense of responsibility, love and patience, instead of being "dishonorable" to him and causing the child's resentment. As a result, you get deeper into online games and cannot extricate yourself. Therefore, I hope that all teachers will not only teach, but also educate people, and help children overcome Internet addiction and return to a correct learning life. Otherwise, it will cause children to be tired of studying, and even play truant or drop out of school. This is an undesirable consequence that I don't want to see.

soilsea: Wouldn’t it be better to cultivate volunteers among youth, which can eliminate some unnecessary problems. Such as the generation gap. . . . . Wait, Professor Tao, what do you think?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Of course I hope so, and I have already done so. The Internet-addicted children I helped in the early stages (from May to July this year) not only got rid of Internet addiction and returned to school, but they also became my volunteers and helped their classmates and friends around them. The effect of this will certainly be very good.

CFTV: The Internet is the trend of social development. If you quit the Internet addiction, there may be something that will become addictive again, just like the development of the original game consoles to the current Internet! What does the professor think?

Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University: The most fundamental way to solve this problem is to reform today's exam-oriented education and truly promote scientific quality education, thereby improving the quality of the entire Chinese nation and improving people's quality. Thinking ability, self-control ability and self-balance ability. In this way, the problem of Internet addiction is easily solved. We must not have cyberphobia. The Internet is the symbol of our new era. The new era is the high-tech era and the information age. I sincerely hope that everyone can treat the Internet correctly, learn to use the Internet, and improve their own quality. Then, there is hope for improving the quality of the entire Chinese nation.

wangyang512: Hello, Professor Tao, I am very eager to contact you now. Please give us guidance to these passionate young people.

Visiting Professor of Central China Normal University Tao Hongkai: If you want to be recognized by society, you must have social effectiveness, that is, you must be able to truly help people solve the problems that need to be solved. If you want to help children who are addicted to the Internet, you can attend the training courses I hold in various places and master the correct methods to solve the problem. Your public welfare website will naturally be recognized by society, just like me now.

glorious66: If the child is not awakened, how can parents make the child awaken?

Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University: The key to children's failure to awaken is for parents to truly wake up first, that is, to find out the problem within themselves and analyze the reasons why their children have not awakened and what are the root causes. Judging from my large number of cases, the main root cause lies in unhealthy and unscientific family education. Therefore, if parents want their children to awaken, they must first keep pace with the times, learn to improve their own quality, learn to discover their own problems, and face their own problems sincerely. Only by constantly improving yourself can you improve your children. If you are willing, you can participate in the parent training classes I will hold in various places in the future. Please pay attention to the relevant reports in "China Women's News" and "Family Weekly". I have been to many cities. Next I will go to Hefei, Nanjing, Jinan, Zhuhai, Yinchuan, Harbin, Chengdu and other places. Please pay attention to media reports from various places.

ER31: Thank you very much for Professor Tao’s reply! If you are willing to come to Baotou City to train volunteers, I will contact the relevant departments to actively contact you.

But my child urgently needs your help and guidance as soon as possible, otherwise it will be difficult for him to complete high school after missing school for the second time! This request of mine is causing trouble to you, but I am indeed very anxious!

Tao Hongkai, a visiting professor at Central China Normal University: First of all, I thank you for your response to me, but you really shouldn’t be anxious, because there will be emotional contagion between parents and children. If you are anxious, the child will be more upset. Dryness, which is extremely detrimental to solving children's problems. I hope you can face reality rationally, handle the parent-child relationship with your child calmly, and take this as the first step to solve the problem. Next, if I have the opportunity to go to Baotou, I will try my best to arrange time to solve the problem face to face with you. Thanks.

lzs81: Sorry, how can I see the details?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: You can search for "Professor Tao Hongkai" with a search engine, and all the detailed information about me will come out, or you can go to www.cnhan.com , or Greenet (www.greenet.net.com), as well as the Central China Normal University website for a column about Professor Tao Hongkai’s actions to save Internet addiction.

Wen Qieya: Professor Tao, it’s almost over. Are you really ignoring me?

Tao Hongkai, visiting professor at Central China Normal University: Because there are too many questions to answer, I can only try my best. Which city are you in? You can search for my information and itinerary online. If possible, I am willing to help you face to face.

Concluding remarks: Tao Hongkai, visiting professor of Central China Normal University: I am very grateful to CCTV.com for paying attention to this social issue. This is also the support for my action to save Internet addiction. At the same time, I would also like to take this opportunity to thank CCTV’s 10 “Contemporary Education” columns, the news channel’s “News Living Room” column, and CCTV’s 1 “News Investigation” column for paying attention to this issue. As well as the support of my action from the media across the country, I believe that with the attention of the whole society, this problem will be solved well. I hope that every parent will not despair and not give up on saving their children. Let’s all work together. Participate in this action to help these children get rid of Internet addiction and return to the right path in life. In this way, the great rejuvenation of our entire Chinese nation will be more promising.

(Source: CCTV International)

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