I met her a long time ago, but since we parted, the little girl saw her father off at the railway station. Do you have a similar experience?

After the Spring Festival holiday, some parents have to go out temporarily to fight with their young children. Being together for only a few days in a year naturally becomes the biggest part of children. On February 10, the sixth day in Spring Festival travel rush, a 9-year-old girl and her father came to Fuzhou Railway Station in Jiangxi Province. At the door, the daughter hugged her father tightly, put her face on his chest and said with tears on her face, "Dad lied, I don't want you to go."

The girl's father said the holiday was over. He has been with his daughter for less than 10 days and is going to work in Fujian again. I feel very sad to see his daughter crying so sadly. I want to stay at home with her, too, but I have to go out to work to support my family.

At the time of boarding, my father coaxed and dragged my crying daughter to the car parked in the square to see her off.

Arrived in the car, the father broke his daughter's hand, pushed her into the car, cried even more, and then slammed the door behind him.

Father walked quickly into the station and looked back from time to time. Netizens said that every time I see such news, I feel very uncomfortable! However, this phenomenon has been happening in recent years, affecting our hearts for a time. On the one hand, left-behind children need the company of their parents; On the other hand, their parents have to support their families, and their lives are almost always unhappy. Parents are looking forward to going out to work and giving their children as much company as possible.

My parents are poor in the world. If I have a choice, I don't believe that so many parents will leave their homes to work. Most of them are not helpful to leave their hometown to work. You need to consider the problem from your own situation. Looking at the photos of lovely children, how can parents not feel sad and distressed? They are still so young, and it is time for their parents and relatives to be together. Father's love is their best gift.

These left-behind children are also angels. It is the living conditions that force parents to go out to work. Not only in China, but also in developed countries, there is the problem of left-behind children, which is a global problem. Due to the uneven distribution of economic development, people in poor areas have to work in more developed areas to earn money to support their families. After becoming parents, faced with the situation that there are old people and small people, the local income can not meet the needs of daily life, so they have to abandon their families and houses to work elsewhere.

When parents have the idea of going out to work to earn money, they will not think so much about their children, because their parents have a weak consciousness and think that it is enough for their children to live with the elderly. Someone's watching anyway. It is precisely because of the parents' consciousness that children gradually have some irreversible psychological defects, which are lifelong. Without parents in front of them, some children will have psychological problems of one kind or another, and some people think that the word psychology can be said to be a mountain out of a molehill. In fact, many, as we usually say, rebellious, hyperactive and irritable, are certain psychological problems. Just ignored by many people.

Why are there such psychological problems? First of all, parents should ask themselves. Parents are children's enlightenment, and children will live with their parents, all of which are conscious imitations. If parents behave properly, I believe children will not be bad when they grow up. If parents go out to work, the rest are grandparents and others who take care of the children, which leads to the silence of the children and no suitable people to exchange and chat. As time goes on, the situation is unpredictable.

So, if life is ok, hurry back and grow up with your children. Children grow up quickly, as if they all grew up inadvertently. Don't regret what you did in the future. Take care of the children even if you don't go out to work. You can't spoil them too much. I hope parents all over the world can educate their children well.