65-year-old mother-in-law's voice: cooking 10 people, washing 30 bowls, I don't like excitement that much. what do you think?

In daily life, what we see is that children are separated from their parents for a long time. After children have their own lives, the most they can do is to go home and get together with their parents on holidays, and maybe there will be fewer such days after marriage.

For many women, although they will try to maintain a good relationship with their mother-in-law after marriage, basically, women will not want to live with their mother-in-law.

After all, there is no blood relationship. Mother-daughter relationship is impossible. It is better to stay away from it and avoid contradictions.

Perhaps many people will think that under such circumstances, the mother-in-law will definitely feel wronged, and which parent does not want to live with the child. Besides, my son, who has worked so hard to raise, lives with other women and hasn't seen him for several times. Isn't it a loss?

However, for some mother-in-law, the in the mind may not think so.

Lin is 65 years old. Although I am a little old, my body is still strong.

On weekdays, she lives with her wife, just living her own life every day. Shopping in the morning, visiting the park, and dancing with people in the community after cleaning up in the afternoon, the days are still at leisure.

She has two sons and a daughter, and two grandchildren. Children often let her live with them so that she can take care of them when she has time. After all, she is too far away to take care of them.

Every time I heard this, Lin quickly refused, preferring to take care of herself rather than live with the children.

In the past, this idea was not so strong at all, because last Mid-Autumn Festival, my children took their grandchildren home to spend the holiday with them.

When the family is together for the holidays, parents are naturally very happy and feel very lively. But after staying for two days, Lin couldn't stand it.

I feel this way because every day after my children come back, Lin does cleaning, shopping and cooking. Although there are sons, daughters and daughters, no one helps them. The 65-year-old mother-in-law is busy in the kitchen alone, and it is also very hard.

When his wife saw his sad face, she said to her, "It's so lively at home that they are all back at last. Don't look sad. "

Lin just said, "I don't like the excitement of cooking for 10 people and washing 30 bowls every day."

Yes, children go home to reunite, originally to make their parents happy, but cooking for so many people every day seems simple, but it is actually very hard.

A man in his sixties, whose wife came home, didn't help at all. I'm afraid there are more grievances and hardships in this excitement.

As children, we always think that our parents want to see us and have a family reunion, but we ignore the hard work when we are with our parents.

If a family goes home, they can help their parents, share housework and relieve their hardship, instead of simply going home and waiting for dinner. This excitement is really warm.

If you don't consider your parents' hard work and go home and do nothing, your parents will naturally serve you. This kind of reunion is nothing more than a so-called leisure time for your children.

Lulu has been married for five years, and when she is with her mother-in-law, it is only a few days.

But it is these days that my mother-in-law has made an excellent impression on her, and everyone praises her. Moreover, her mother-in-law likes her coming home very much, and she cares more about her than her son.

In recent years, Lulu will take the initiative to help her mother-in-law do housework every time she goes home, understand her mother-in-law's hard work, and will not sit still.

Lulu's understanding and filial piety also won her mother-in-law's recognition and concern, and their mutual understanding and concern also made her relationship with her mother-in-law very good.

Some women want to get along well with their mother-in-law when they get married, but in the end they just pretend.

Women think that their temporary performance can be cared and respected by their mother-in-law, but this little thought has long been seen through by her mother-in-law.

You think your mother-in-law doesn't care about you and is criticizing you. In fact, you are just guarding your mother-in-law. Since you are not sincere to your mother-in-law, how can you ask her to be sincere to you?

The so-called sincerity can only be exchanged for sincerity. No one in this world will be nice to you for no reason, and no one will be sincere to you because of your hypocrisy, just wait until the day you see it clearly.

Daughter-in-law, although married to you, is your husband. He should love you, love you and protect you. Even if there is a dispute with her mother-in-law, it should be properly maintained by her husband.

But don't be too selfish. After all, it's your mother-in-law, not your enemy. Your relationship should be like family.

When we don't live together at ordinary times, it is filial to make a phone call and simply say hello and care about it.

But when you go home, you should pay more attention to your mother-in-law's health, understand her hard work, and help her when you have the ability. You won't be too tired, and your mother-in-law won't be too hard.

Help each other in life, and the relationship will naturally kiss. When a family spends holidays together, it will be considered as a real reunion. Your mother-in-law is busy in the kitchen instead of watching TV and chatting in the living room.

If you have something to do together and you have a good time together, this is the real excitement.