How to refuse relatives to want to foster children in my home?

In modern society, relatives can no longer be particularly important human resources, and many times friends play a huge role in our lives. So for relatives who are not so familiar, if you want to put your child in foster care at home and want to refuse, I think you can use the following three ways.

The first way: fading. You can euphemistically express your intention to travel frequently, or you are too busy to take care of your children. The other party wants to foster their children in their own homes, and more importantly, they want to look after them. If you always say that you don't have enough time, on the one hand, you can make them feel incompetent, on the other hand, you may make them feel their intentions, so give up this behavior.

The second way: directly refuse. Since all relatives want to raise children, they have never considered your difficulties. Then you don't need to consider his difficulties, and direct rejection is the best choice. It is important that people care about each other. They don't think of others, and there is no need to be polite. In addition, direct refusal can also let the other person see his attitude, so that he will rarely bother you in his later life.

The third way: help relatives find a better foster family. Because I really don't want to raise children, and my ability is limited, my relatives' children must also be fostered. Then you can contact other relatives and friends through the internet and forward the children of relatives to other people's homes. On the one hand, you can solve your own difficulties, on the other hand, you can help your loved ones solve their troubles, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.