Should I buy a car for my brother?

If my parents let me buy a car for my brother, I can help if the economic conditions permit, but if I live a hard life, some of my parents' demands are too much. I can choose to refuse because I have no obligation to help him. If I have the ability to help, if I can't, I will choose to refuse.

As for whether to buy a car for my brother, in my opinion, this is not my obligation, and you simply cannot afford it. I have a family and my property belongs to my husband and wife. If you want to buy a car, I should discuss it with your husband If he agrees, it is no problem to buy it. But buying is mutual affection, and not buying is duty.

If your husband doesn't agree, you shouldn't have any blame. But now that you are aware of this problem, you dare not tell this to the old man. You are in a dilemma, one is your husband's family and the other is your mother's family.

I think in terms of interests, your parents want you to bear these, obviously not from your point of view. If you really don't want to buy a car, from a moral point of view, there is no problem. The key is whether you can get through this in your heart. I can see that you can't bear to see your parents sad or your brother in pain. You're starting to be tolerant.

If you have your own money, I believe you will not hesitate to buy it for your brother. But silly woman, you are so considerate of them, how can they understand your situation? Buying a car is not a small sum, not a 10 thousand car, not a small sum for anyone, and you don't have to bear it at all.

Parents who prefer sons to daughters are the most terrible. They give their daughter the least material and love, but they want her to return most. They are like vampires, eager to suck every drop of blood from their daughters. And the daughter is always soft-hearted, preferring to suffer by herself and be a perfect parent. She undertakes everything by herself, and no one cares about everything she gives.