Have you ever been cheated by a friend? What's going on here?

1. Lend money. For example, friends borrow money and don't pay it back, or exaggerate the income in investment projects to trick investment, resulting in economic losses. This is a rather painful experience.

2. Emotional. Some friends will use each other's feelings or sincerity to achieve a certain goal and then leave. For example, being used in the process of falling in love or getting married will cause deep psychological trauma.

3. The promise has not been fulfilled. Friends often make certain promises or guarantees to each other, but in the end they fail to honor them, embarrassing each other or sacrificing at critical moments. This will make people doubt people and commitment.

4. Secret communication. Exposing each other's secrets or spreading some private topics will make people feel betrayed and humiliated. Many people have had this experience.

5. Discard after use. Some friends care about you, mainly hoping to get benefits or benefits from you. When the other party's goal is achieved, it will drift away and finally be abandoned. This behavior makes people feel that they are tools.

Therefore, people will inevitably encounter certain utilization and betrayal in the social process, which is also a lesson that needs to be vigilant and honed in getting along. When you are deeply hurt by your friends, you need to make necessary self-repair besides feeling angry and painful. Then after the washing of time, we can get rid of the inner haze and re-tolerate and trust.