My 3-year-old son dragged a cherry to the supermarket and was scolded for being uneducated. His mother's behavior is commendable.

Taking children to the supermarket is a science. In the face of children's curiosity, treasure moms can be said to be heartbroken. Many children want what they like when they go to the supermarket. If their mother doesn't buy it, they will stay crying. Some children even can't help but pick up tempting fruits or delicious snacks to taste, thus causing trouble.

Two days ago, Wen Wen took her 3-year-old son to the supermarket and stopped to choose when passing by the fruit area.

When carefully selecting, Wen Wen suddenly heard the supermarket staff shouting in the direction of himself and his son: "You can't taste cherries. The words on the sign are so big that you can't see them? "

Wen Wen looked down and found that his son had picked a cherry and was eating it in his mouth. The juice was spilled on his hands and mouth. Seeing that everyone around him was looking at him, the son obviously didn't realize what had happened. On the contrary, he looked at Wenwen doubtfully, but his mouth movement still didn't stop.

Without waiting for Wenwen to react, the supermarket staff then began to scold: "Can't you see that fruit can't be tasted?" It's really uncultured. "

Wen Wen is usually short-tempered. The staff in the supermarket called her son uneducated. According to her previous temper, it broke out long ago, but she held back her temper and sincerely apologized: "I'm really sorry!" The child is too young to read and doesn't know that things in the supermarket can't be eaten casually. It is also my fault that I didn't tell him beforehand. Tell you what, I'll choose some cherries, and the one the children eat will be a gift. Do you think so? "

When supermarket employees saw Wenwen's sincere attitude, they realized that what they had just said was somewhat inappropriate, so they quickly said, "The main reason is that cherries are too expensive, and we are just working. If we don't look good, the manager will be scolded and deducted. "

Wenwen didn't get angry after hearing this. After expressing his understanding, he said to his son, "Baby, come and say sorry to your aunt. Remember that everything in the supermarket belongs to others in the future. We can't just eat without paying, ok? "

Although my son was scared by what the supermarket staff just said, after listening to his mother's words, he nodded again and again and apologized seriously.

The supermarket staff couldn't help praising the little guy for being cute and polite when they saw him being so obedient. Other people passing by the supermarket also gave Wen Wen an admiring look.

1, control your emotions and don't quarrel in front of the children.

Parents should understand that quarreling can't solve the problem, and may even escalate the contradiction. What could have been solved by apologizing will only bring endless trouble in the end. When there is a fierce quarrel between the two sides, they are likely to say some ugly words, which will easily scare the young hearts of children.

In addition, parents are role models for children to learn. Parents' words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children. If children are treated like this in the future, it will undoubtedly have a negative impact.

Don't scold the child loudly.

Some parents will yell at their children when they find their children stealing in the supermarket, and put all the responsibility on them.

Parents have never thought that children simply don't know that things in the supermarket can't be eaten casually. This kind of treatment will only hit the child's psychology and is very unfavorable to the child's growth.

Take this opportunity to educate children to distinguish right from wrong.

In the face of the scolding of the supermarket staff, Wen Wen did not strike back for a moment, but sincerely apologized, which undoubtedly set a good example for the children. After returning to China, it is undoubtedly a good opportunity to educate children by explaining things clearly and letting them understand right and wrong. There are three specific reasons:

First, this incident itself is the fault of Wenwen and his son. Wenwen didn't tell his son in advance that things in the supermarket can't be eaten casually, and his son made a mistake unconsciously;

Second, there is nothing wrong with supermarket employees to stop others from eating casually. Although there is something wrong with the way of speaking, it is their duty;

Third, Wen Wen never quarreled in front of the children for a moment, because it would easily bring bad influence to his son and hurt his young heart.

Today's interactive topic: Parents, do you agree with Wen Wen's practice? How would you handle such a thing? Welcome to share in the comments section below!