Should I help my son buy a house? A letter from this mother exploded the circle of friends.

I remember seeing this chicken soup in 19 10. Tell me my opinion.

Suppose this letter was written on 20 10, and her child is 25 years old and was born on 1985. It was still early to have children at that time. Suppose the parents of the child get married on 1984, and the unit is still in the room at 1984, right? Did you buy that house yourself? A boy, who graduated from university at the age of 22, has a stable job. Suppose he has worked for three years and saved more than 200 thousand. How is this big brother? But 200 thousand is in town. Do you want to buy a kitchenette or a small bathroom?

Seriously, when you complain that your child's performance is disappointing, think about whether you can afford the monthly salary 100 or even 200 times when you have been working for three years. It is true that you had a house at that time, not because you were more capable than your children, but because it was easy to get along at that time. Other people's children may be more promising, but in the 1980 s, there were also people who went into business to buy luxury cars and villas. Why are you not someone else's child in the eyes of his grandfather? At this time, you should emphasize your reasons again.

Don't give your child unrealistic hopes and look at the reality. Isn't it practical for your child to urge you to buy when the house price rises sharply? Now that the house price has not dropped, should we look at it when we sigh? Besides, isn't your child going to buy a house for your grandson in the future? The reality now is that most young people can hardly afford housing prices, which is caused by the times. In this case, everyone should take responsibility for the next generation, just as you and your children will do now in 20 years, and no one should find any reason to shirk responsibility. If you can't afford it, you can't afford it. After all, your son is your son and can't eat you. But when he was busy running for his house and your grandson's house, he was so tired that he described himself as thin and lazy, while other people's parents prepared several suites for their children. Please feel a little guilty, because our life is not easy.