My nursing mother-in-law cooks chicken soup for me every day, and when she comes into the kitchen to see what she eats, I become angry from embarrassment. Why?

The most difficult relationship in China is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Two strange women become relatives because of the same man, but because most people can't understand each other, women are more of inner feelings. Over time, many contradictions will arise, and if they don't give in to each other, they will intensify. Of course, there are many enlightened mother-in-law in society now, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not as stiff as it was in previous years. Originally, I had no feelings for my mother-in-law, because since I married my husband, I have been living in the wedding room prepared later, and I have little contact with my mother-in-law. But because my mother-in-law has to take care of me during confinement, her mother-in-law still gives me chicken soup every day. At first, I thought it was good. Until one day I accidentally saw what my mother-in-law was eating in the kitchen. I was angry with embarrassment. Do you know what she is eating?

1, the root of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law I always thought that my mother-in-law and I didn't have any contradictions and didn't live together very much. Because my mother-in-law has two sons, I married my younger brother, who got married earlier and has a three-year-old son. Therefore, the mother-in-law needs to take care of her grandson there, which is usually seen during the Chinese New Year holiday. Moreover, seeing her mother-in-law at ordinary times has a particularly good impression on her, and she is very diligent and busy every New Year holiday. If my mother-in-law is dissatisfied with anything, it is that she is stingy, but it is understandable that her generation is more diligent and thrifty.

My mother-in-law often says that we spend a lot of money, and every time she comes to our house, she will say that I won't live, but I am used to it. Because I don't live together, I don't refute every time I listen, and my mother-in-law feels boring and doesn't say anything. My first child is a daughter. My husband and I are very happy and think our daughter is very good. My husband, in particular, has always wanted to have a daughter. Because there are boys at home, he always thinks that there is a girl who is very cute. However, I can clearly feel that my parents-in-law are not very happy. Old people are a bit patriarchal. When they were in the hospital, they didn't hold their daughters very much. My father-in-law felt that it was inconvenient for him to stay in the hospital, so he took a look and went back to his brother. Although I was a little dissatisfied with their attitude, my husband was very kind to me and happy when I just gave birth to my daughter, so I didn't care much.

It happened because my own mother came to the hospital to take care of me for a few days, but my mother also had a job. She went to work after I left the hospital. It is normal for my mother-in-law to wait for the next month on our side, so my husband asked her to take care of me. My mother-in-law also promised to come and cook for me every day and go to my brother's place to cook for my grandson after dinner. I never intended to let my mother-in-law take care of the children, so I didn't care too much. I think it's good for her to cook for us. Then I discussed with my husband and asked a reliable nanny to take care of the children during confinement so that my husband and I could have a good rest.

At first, I thought it was good. My mother thinks that I need more supplements in the next month, so she goes to my acquaintance who keeps animals and asks him to send us an old hen and earth eggs every day, which are all things for raising people. My mother-in-law also cooks chicken soup for me every day, but every time I feel that my mother-in-law cooks chicken soup, it tastes very weak and gives me very little chicken, but I always don't like chicken, thinking that my mother-in-law takes care of me and deliberately picks it out.

3. The truth is clear because the nanny we hired is my mother's relative. It's safer to take care of children or acquaintances, and she has been taking care of children and is very good at it. One day, she couldn't help it, saying that my mother had introduced me to take care of my children. She was really angry when she saw my mother-in-law I was at a loss, because I had hardly been in the kitchen, so I had no idea what had happened. Our home is a small duplex, the kitchen is on the first floor and the room is on the second floor. I basically have activities with my baby on the second floor. My mother-in-law cooks for me every day, and I have never been in the kitchen.

The nanny sister came over that day and said, I can't help it. Your mother-in-law takes a little chicken to make soup for you every day, puts a lot of water for you to drink three meals a day, and takes the rest of the chicken away. I went downstairs just now, and she was drinking chicken soup. After drinking, she added boiling water to it. Your mother invited me to take care of your mother. I shouldn't say this for the sake of your family harmony, but I really can't stand it. ? As soon as I get angry, I go down to the kitchen on the first floor to argue with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law actually told me that I don't need to make up for it for the next month, and she also gave me chicken soup every day. I still don't get it. Be grateful. Take the rest of the chicken back to make up for my grandson, who is still young and needs nutrition. They are all family members, reprimanding me for not caring so much. I was so angry that I kicked my mother-in-law out of the house, and she never had to come again.