Husband is sitting at the door playing with his mobile phone.

Three views generally refer to world outlook, values and outlook on life.

It is difficult for people with different views to really understand each other, because thinking is not on a channel at all.

You share your happiness with each other, and they think you are showing off.

When you talk to someone, they think you are complaining on purpose.

When you are tolerant, the other person thinks that you are deliberately perfunctory.

It's not terrible not to merge the three views. The terrible thing is that the other party forces you to agree with him, which is terrible.

Everyone is unique.

If we are together and want to change ourselves, then we are not ourselves.

Living like this will be very tiring.

Three views disagree? Why did you get together in the first place?

At the beginning of the choice, it is often because of external visible factors such as appearance, family and economic strength.

What about the other three views? It is not something that can be achieved in a short time.

It's been a long time.

Without a certain amount of time, it is difficult to understand a person's three views.

If you don't observe a person closely and really get along for a while, your understanding of others will always stay on the surface and in your imagination.

When I see a handsome guy, I always feel that the other person must have a good temper and be very easy to get along with.

Once you have a better impression of each other, you will feel that each other is good everywhere.

Of course, if you see something you don't like in the other person, you will find the other person unpleasant.

If you see a boy in dirty clothes, you will think that he is a lazy and sloppy man. Such a man is unreliable.

You're not in the mood to get to know him anymore.

Actually, what you see is not necessarily the truth.

Maybe the other person just went to shoot a small video and dressed up like this on purpose. You see the worst image before the other person can change clothes.

Maybe the other party is the owner of a construction site and it's so dirty. Maybe he just did something for his subordinates and didn't have time to change clothes when he came back, just because you saw him.

We often judge a person by his first impression.

The first impression is mostly appearance.

When planning communication, most of the decisive factors also come from external image.

Before you really get to know each other, you see what they want you to see, and your understanding of each other will only stay on the surface.

This is why many people are very sweet at first in love, but they have many contradictions in a short time, and even finally break up.

It's not that the eyes were poor at the beginning, but that the other party hid it too well.

After getting along for a while, the other person can't hide anymore, and then you find that the other person is not as good as you think.

Disagreement between the three views is often discovered after getting along for a period of time.

Some people, who haven't been together long, are married, or even flash married.

If you are lucky, you will encounter three views and naturally live in peace.

If you are unlucky, you will find that you have different views after marriage, and such a marriage will be very uncomfortable.

What should I do if I encounter three different views in my marriage?

Is it to endure or resolutely separate?

If you have no children and you are still young, it is better to separate as soon as possible.

This is good for both of us.