Let the wife take care of the money. Will such a man really be honest outside? Why?

How husband and wife deal with finance is a science.

The wife's control over a man's money greatly limits his spending power in society. But as for "honesty", I think what you said should be whether you can be honest in the relationship between men and women.

I think controlling money is a way, but it is more important to control your heart.

1. Can you manage all the money at home? In this society, people really can't move without money.

I think we all had a similar experience, that is, when I was a child, I saw some students secretly saving pocket money for school meals given by their parents, preferring to eat steamed bread or only white rice at noon in order to buy snacks or toys with the money saved.

Will this plot change when people grow up? Probably not! It just changed from "snacks" and "toys" to other needs, such as "integrity" as you said.

Even if the pocket money given to him every day is counted clearly, isn't there a saying of "private money"

Therefore, I think that the single "blocking" method of simply controlling the economy may not be effective. Couples still have to rely on "persuasion" to maintain their relationship.

Second, about trust and mutual trust, it sounds like an ideal state. But in my opinion, couples must have mutual trust if they want to get along well for life.

Of course, trust is not spoken. It can have many principles.

The first thing should be emotional communication. Benign emotional interaction is the best lubricant for monotonous life.

In fact, it takes three chapters. Know in advance what is the bottom line in marriage, and what will happen if you violate it, such as "dishonesty". Let your husband know how you feel about this matter and let him know clearly that this may be an untouchable high-voltage line in your marriage.

Finally, the economic agreement. Who cares about the money and how to distribute it? It's best to be democratic and give the other party a little freedom, but let the other party understand that to maintain the normal operation of a family, someone must always be a good shopkeeper economically. Let the other person realize that managing income is actually taking care of the accounts for the family, rather than simply strictly controlling him financially. After all, people are rebellious and self-defeating.

Third, about the "dishonesty" of men, in fact, the better the man, the higher the possibility of being tempted after marriage, and the same is true for excellent women.

What really guarantees a person's loyalty to his family and partner is his personality and the degree of attention he attaches to this family.

Regarding character, look at luck; There are two things you can do about paying attention to your family:

You should make yourself better and make continuous progress. Only in this way can you remain attractive to him. You should always exchange ideas and opinions. Living together as husband and wife is like doing business together. Only when people unite can business flourish. End is the next issue of Reading in My Leisure Time. Welcome to pay attention.