My husband is 3 1 year old this year. He is very frugal. Now that he has a family and children, he works harder to make money. He thinks he should make more money while he is young and grow old later.

Your husband's idea is still good, because thrift is a virtue after all, but if you are too frugal, you will be wronged.

Your husband is so frugal because he finds it hard to make money. Besides, in today's society, money is really needed everywhere, and it takes one or two hundred to go to the hospital with a slight cold. So his worry is normal. Moreover, he is worried that his parents are ill, which shows that your husband is a very responsible man. If such a man doesn't even consider your parents' future safety, but spends nothing for your present happiness, do you think he is good?

Your father's family conditions should also be better, and his ideas must be different from yours. Because he has reached this age, what is there to think about at this age? Of course you can eat, sleep and consume. But you are different. You still have a few decades. Your children will have to spend money when they grow up. Money must be earned, but if a wife doesn't know how to keep a house, how much money she earns can't be saved all day.

You and your husband are the ones who want to live a lifetime. There are some things you have to weigh yourself slowly. You can talk to him slowly. When you need to spend money, you can explain the reasons to him. For example, if you really need something, it will be useful. I don't think your husband is so unreasonable. It is normal that your husband disapproves of things that are unnecessary and purely for face.