Inspirational talk: people's hearts are not conquered by force, but by love and tolerance.

1, wide is fierce, fierce is wide, and politics is harmonious. -"Confucius' Family Language"

Tolerance is not tolerating mistakes and weakness, but being strong and brave. —— China Zhou Xiangchao

3. Tolerant people make others happy, and they are also happy; The villain makes others suffer, and he also suffers. anonymous

4, retreat to the highlands, and let the three points be peaceful. -Couplets

5. I choose tolerance over meanness. Because tolerance loses only the past, and meanness loses the future. anonymous

6. The human heart is not conquered by force, but by love and tolerance. -Spinoza (Russia)

7. If you don't think twice, you will regret it. People can be patient and carefree. ─ [Ming] Feng Menglong's "Awakening the World"

8. It's better to be able to argue than to tolerate slander. I'm insulted, too. It's better to prevent it than not to prevent it. -Master Hongyi's "Don't record the motto"

9. Blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself. anonymous

10, there are many occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment may be achieved through forgiveness. Sidney. Smith (last name)

1 1, the will is as strong as iron, and the measurement is as big as the sea. Mao Zedong

12, remember, worry is irrelevant. -China proverb

13, the noblest revenge is tolerance. Hugo

14, treat people gently and generously, and let each other live a cheerful and happy life. Perhaps this is the most important thing. -Kōnosuke Matsushita.

15, a great man has two hearts: one is bleeding; The other heart is tolerant. Gibran

Inspirational Encyclopedia: Living is not to win sympathy with tears, but to win applause with sweat.

Life is too short to wake up with regrets every day.

I would rather be confident than be blindly pessimistic.

Living is not to win sympathy with tears, but to win applause with sweat.

If you want to have more, don't pin your hopes on others.

5. Don't envy other people's scenery, but have the ability to create brilliance.

6. Only when people have dreams can they have the motivation to move forward.

As long as you face the sun, you will feel very happy.

8, even if you are black and blue, you must live beautifully.

9. Don't say no until you try!

10, your life is in your hands, always remember.

1 1, it is better to burn than to linger.

12, don't let dreams become dreams, become dreams.

13. Every blocked road has an exit.

14, no effort, no future.

15, life needs a gap so that the sun can shine in.

Happy Sentence: Happiness depends not on luck, but on management.

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As a senior single person, she has been single for five or six years and is often asked about various marriage and love issues. From time to time, my friends and family will urge me to find the other half to get married, and even the taxi waitress who meets by chance will worry about me.

Every time I talk to each other about this topic, they will say, "Oh, by the way, I won't get married until I get married. You see, how nice it is to be like you. "

But in the end, they will add: "We should find one."

Many people have left me messages on the Internet, asking me whether I am happier being single or married. In my opinion, this comparison is actually unnecessary. We always try to prove that we are on the right team, so that we can gain a foothold.

My answer is: "If you feel satisfied and happy, in fact, you don't care about comparing with others, or comparing with another different state."

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I want to mention my two female friends, who are both married.

One was originally a photographer, had his own studio, was famous in the circle, and earned a good income. As a result, her husband had to be transferred overseas for work reasons. Naturally, the girl couldn't bear to part with the little world she had worked so hard for, but in the end she gritted her teeth and closed the studio and went abroad with her husband.

We met once before we left, and she said, "People say they envy me, you know? I panicked. I don't know what will happen when I go out. Everything starts from scratch, and I really like my previous state. "

The girl went abroad in 20xx, and in a blink of an eye, it was almost five years. During this period, she gave birth to two little daughters, and her interest shifted from photo shooting and commercial films to children's photography. I asked her, still open a studio? She can't talk about it, but she does children's photography courses online, teaches mothers how to take pictures of their babies, and does some overseas purchasing of children's products.

My other girlfriend, who runs a copyright agency in Beijing with her partner, got married in 20xx and separated from her husband, who is in Hangzhou. Whenever someone asks her why, she is extremely calm: "There is no reason, he likes to be in his hometown of Hangzhou, and I like Beijing."

It's that simple? It's that simple.

Why should I tell these two stories?

Because in daily life, everyone has to face choices, as if there is always one hurdle after another on the road to happiness. But think about it carefully, what is the real sign behind happiness? Perhaps it is not that we have chosen the right path, but that you should calmly give up another option and actively manage the options you have already made.

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When we are on the road to happiness, we will feel surrounded and blocked. After all, we are obsessed with "the possibility that we have given up" and deeply regret it. However, we always feel that what we choose is not perfect.

For example, we think that husband and wife should be together, and how wonderful it is to live together ... but the girlfriend replied: "As an adult, the ideal state should not be adhesion, but to be comfortable and make the other person comfortable, rather than the other person having to give up in order to satisfy one party."

She said that what we should control is our desire to be 100% satisfied. This is a gesture that a mature person should have.

Everyone's life and daily life are not a preset program. Interestingly, we set ourselves various strict standards in this impermanence, such as how to measure happiness, how to measure success, how to measure whether a person loves himself or not, and how to measure whether a person lives well or not ... Because of these strict standards, we often feel that we are not up to standard.

What I want to say is that instead of setting so many standards to judge yourself and others, it is better to stand a little further and tear down all these rules and regulations. Everyone follows his own heart to make choices and learn to respect others' choices.

If so, I think we will complain less and apologize less. Especially when we try to ask for more, what we should not ignore is how to balance what we can't get.

I think this is the real sign of happiness.

Living is not to win pity by tears, but to win applause by sweat.

If you try your best, you will stay away from failure.

There is nothing we can't beat unless we don't want to win.

When you are helpless, you can see through many people.

Don't forget yourself when you are sad, and move on.

How can you win or lose if you don't know the depth of the water?

I am not afraid of anything, and I am afraid that I will not live up to expectations.

Living is not to win pity by tears, but to win applause by sweat.

When there is no one to rely on, you have to live on your own. Don't be cowardly!

If you can persist in what others can't, you will have what others can't have.

If you don't bow your head, the crown will fall, and if you don't cry, the bitch will laugh.

Don't lose your dreams easily, and don't choose comfort at the age when you can bear hardships most.

If you procrastinate, you must have capital, otherwise, the way you procrastinate is called batting practice.

No one is right or wrong in love, because there is no standard to measure.

It is the greatest sorrow in life to ask for something, give up, and get something without stinting.