Mother-in-law took it out on her sister-in-law

Neighbor Li quarreled every day during the Chinese New Year, because there was only a wall between them, and the villagers quarreled loudly, so we could hear them clearly. At this time, my mother-in-law will say: this little daughter-in-law is not sweet, and she can't blame her mother-in-law for being eccentric. I always smile and don't answer the words, because I don't quite agree with my mother-in-law. Text | Hu Xiaoguai, Figure | Network

In fact, the contradiction between Wang Juan and her mother-in-law existed from the beginning, but in the final analysis, it was because of things like house and money. My mother-in-law thinks she is not biased. Kannika nimtragol thinks her mother-in-law is partial and has been quarrelling for many years. Her mother-in-law is old. Seeing that there will be more and more money disputes in the future, she wants to make it clear this time.

Li Kai and Wang Juan are college romances, and their relationship has always been good. Because their hometown is the same city, like most people, they are not worried about any contradictions in their marriage. They wanted to get married after graduation, but Wang Juan's parents didn't agree to this marriage at first, because Li Kai had a brother. After her mother inquired, she still knew that the prospective mother-in-law was partial to her eldest son.

But we all know that people who are immersed in love can't listen to these words. Wang Juan insisted on getting married, but her parents beat their daughter and reluctantly agreed. After the wedding, Mr. and Mrs. Wang Juan went to Shanghai. As they promised, they are going to take root here and make a career. After he got married, Li Kai's mother told him that I would follow your brother and the old house at home would be yours. I don't expect you to take care of your young couple, give me living expenses, and give more, and I won't waste your lives.

Li Kai paused and agreed, but Wang Juan was a little unhappy. She feels that even if she is far away from home, she can't take care of the elderly, but giving living expenses is also a way to take care of them. Why should all the old houses at home be given to the eldest son? Besides, does my mother-in-law really need their care at all in the future? But because she just got married, she didn't say anything to her mother-in-law. She didn't promise or say anything bad. On the way to Shanghai, she chatted with Li Kai all the way and felt that her mother-in-law was partial.

To be honest, there is no absolute fairness between parents and children, or between brothers and sisters. Since we are relatives, not strangers, we have mutual affection. This kind of mutual affection is that when you encounter something, you can be a little tolerant and compromise. As long as it is not a matter of principle, don't care too much. Although Wang Juan complained, she tried to give her living expenses every month, which didn't stop Li Kai from going back to his hometown to see his mother often.

In the first few years when they came to work in Shanghai, their mother-in-law was still in good health. It happens that she has a capable job in the village, and her mother-in-law is a hardworking person. In the long run, I also made a lot of money in a few years. Wang Juan naturally knew about it. She felt that she had given her living expenses. Usually, my husband also goes back to see her mother-in-law, and the money earned by her mother-in-law can naturally be divided. She thinks she is fair and doesn't want much, but her mother-in-law refuses to give it. My mother-in-law took the money and added her savings over the years to sell the old house and build a new one.

Wang Juan didn't like it, saying that his old house was given to his eldest brother, which was already very strange. Now it's a new house, or two rooms, naturally one for each of the two sons. She said: Grandma, you can't be so partial. Are all your sons. You can't make money and spend it on a son. But my mother-in-law said that I live with them and bought this house myself. What can I do for you? If you are unhappy, divorce my son and find someone who can give you a house.

My mother-in-law said at that time that if kannika nimtragol had a sweet mouth and said more nice things, maybe her mother-in-law could give her some. But I think, Wang Juan, even if her mouth is sweet, her mother-in-law will not think of her. Because after all, the mother-in-law loves her eldest son dearly. From the bottom of her heart, she felt that her eldest son's family had suffered a loss in taking care of her and had to make compensation.

She doesn't care whether it is difficult for her youngest son and his wife to live outside, and she can't delay a day's living expenses every month. She also makes excuses to ask for money from time to time. Even if her youngest son wanted to borrow money to buy a house and was almost rich, she said she had no money, but turned around and built a new building. The youngest daughter-in-law said she couldn't take her children to work. She hopes that her mother-in-law can help with the children for a year or two, but she doesn't want to say that she helps her eldest son with housework. In a word, it is impossible for kannika nimtragol to ask her mother-in-law for help.

The mother-in-law always leaves home with her youngest son and can't take care of her. But at least the good living expenses have never been less. On holidays, we also give out red envelopes and buy gifts, and we don't care about you at all. You don't need a pair I don't expect you in the future, so I don't expect me to help you now. Are you so sure that your eldest son and his wife will be nice to you in the future?

Actually, Wang Juan's mother-in-law says that Kannika nimtragol has no conscience every day, and she talks too much. The eldest son and his wife also agree with this reason. They can't afford the living expenses. A family of three stuttered with the old man's, and then asked the younger brother to pay more for living. With such an attitude, he can't hold his younger brother responsible after his mother gets old. It is estimated that it is not impossible to give money, but to give money and manage it.

This quarrel illustrates the problem. Because the old man was ill in hospital, Li Kai paid half of the money. Later, the nurse gave a few hundred less because he had no money at the moment. His sister-in-law didn't like it, so he insisted. Li Kai's mother also helped her eldest daughter-in-law. The result was known by Wang Juan. Hearing this, Wang Juan got angry. Even if the medical expenses are shared equally, how can the nursing staff ask her for money?

She said: mother-in-law, as you said at the beginning, your brother and sister-in-law took care of you, so they gave them their house, and you also posted your savings to them. Then shouldn't your eldest son and his wife take care of you in the hospital? Why do you need a nurse? Please don't ask my family for money. If you want me to give this money, I will get half of this house, all of which are your sons. You can't be so partial.

Hearing this, the mother-in-law sneered: I am just eccentric. What can you do? You have to pay, either you give it or I call your company. Anyway, it's so noisy. After quarreling for several days, no one would compromise. In fact, if one of the two brothers takes a step back and plays a round, it will be over. But no one said anything, I guess my heart felt right.

This time, I didn't smile as usual, so I didn't answer the phone This time, I told my mother-in-law: In fact, this matter has nothing to do with whether Wang Juan is sweet or not. In the final analysis, it is Li Kai's problem. He should know his wife. No matter how Wang Juan complained, when did she not give money? What she wants is nothing more than an attitude of the old man, even if you think you can't get it. Then give it if you want, and then take your wife with you. Think about it later and take care of your little family.

Don't expect your wife to fight for your interests. After all, she can't compare with what you say. Don't think that your brother doesn't care. After all, your brother cares about you first. Our parents are partial to us, and we can't help it. We still have to live well and comfortably on our own. But sometimes, we have to let the other side know that your concession is based on friendship, so don't give it foolishly and let the other side take it for granted.