The opportunity was given to others to regret.

The opportunity was given to others to regret

The opportunity was given to others to regret. We all know that the opportunity is hard to come by. In our life, we can't make some choices, and we don't know what the future development will be like. The following opportunities are given to others to regret. The opportunity was given to others and they regretted it. 1

Things have already happened, so we must not wait. But it can be made up. Work hard. If you are capable and down-to-earth, it is only a matter of time before the deputy director will still be yours.

About the philosophical story: Give the opportunity to others

An American woman once said to Lincoln, "Mr. President, you must give me an order to entrust my son with the rank of colonel. Sir, I am not asking for mercy, but I have the right to do so, and I deserve it. Sir, my grandfather fought in Lexington; My father fought in New Orleans; My uncle was the only soldier who didn't escape in the battle of Brasburg; My husband died in Monterrey. "

Lincoln was embarrassed. He thought about it and said sincerely to the woman, "Madam, I think your family has done enough to serve the country. Now it's time to give this opportunity to others."

Truth:

In the face of this man whose whole family has worked hard but relied on his merits to be an official, it is really unreasonable to refuse solemnly; And if promised to her, and does not conform to the system, Lincoln finally solved the problem satisfactorily by coincidence. Not only refused each other, but also avoided hurting the gas.

Give others a chance. Philosophical story

In the cold winter, a steamed bread seller and a cotton-padded clothes seller went to a ruined temple to avoid the wind and snow. It's getting late, the steamed bread seller is very cold, and the cotton-padded clothes seller is very hungry, but they all believe that the other party will want something from themselves, so no one will speak first.

After a while, the steamed bread seller said, "Have a steamed bread." The cotton-padded clothes seller said, "Put on a cotton-padded clothes."

After a while, the steamed bread seller said, "Have another steamed bread." The cotton-padded clothes seller said, "Wear another cotton-padded clothes."

In this way, the steamed bread sellers eat steamed bread one by one, while the cotton-padded clothes sellers wear cotton-padded clothes one by one, and no one wants to ask each other for help. In the end, the steamed bread seller froze to death, and the cotton-padded clothes seller starved to death.

if people respect me, I will respect others; If people love me, I will love; If people ask me, I will ask; If people give it to me, I will give it to others. It is such a philosophy of life that those who sell steamed bread and cotton-padded clothes pursue.

the result of self-appreciation, must be self-enclosed; Giving others a way is also giving yourself a way; Giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance. I gave the opportunity to others and regretted it. 2

Will you give something you can't bear to others? Philosophical story

I always thought I was a generous person because I like to give things to others.

I bought new clothes, wore them several times or didn't wear them at all, and gave them to my cousin if I didn't like them. I received many toys and ornaments at Christmas and birthday parties. Pick out my favorite and give the rest away. Many relatives and friends around me have accepted my small gifts. They must like and thank me, I think.

Father doesn't think so. In his view, this is ostensibly generous, but in fact it is stingy.

I don't think so.

One day, my father took me to visit his boss. They used to be friends.

The boss's enthusiasm is a little more reserved. Father chatted with him for a while and then got up to leave. He turned to his wife and said, "Bring them some apples from home." Father politely declined, but they insisted on giving it.

When I got home, my father and I opened the box and found some crumpled apples which were bigger than duck eggs. I couldn't help shouting, "What a piece of shit! No one wants to throw it away! "

"Yes, what a piece of shit! You should always remember this sentence. This is what you get when you give something you don't like and don't need to others! " My face turned red with a brush. I think of the used clothes, toys and ornaments I gave to others before. When they came home and opened them, they must have said the same thing.

Father said, "These apples tell us at least two things: First, they were given by others, and if they were bought by themselves, they wouldn't have been kept for so long. Second, this is what they can't eat, and it's a pity to throw it away. They just gave it to us by the way and wanted us to thank them, but the result was just the opposite. "

My father looked at me and continued, "Remember, don't treat others as fools. He will know the value of this thing as well as you. Either don't send it, or give it to others what you think is the best, favorite and most reluctant. "

what my father said in those days has benefited me for life. Now, I don't give anything to others casually. The opportunity made others regret it. 3

Give others another chance story

Michael Critelli is one of the most dazzling star CEOs in American business circles. He has served in Binnengbao for more than 1 years and expanded the company's business several times. Michael believes that all this is due to his own personality, that is, he is always willing to give others another chance.

Michael often uses two examples to illustrate his work style: once, Binnengbao Company wanted to recruit several employees, and he personally took the lead as an examiner. When talking about the sense of responsibility, he cited the story of "washing the toilet so that the water in it can be drunk" in the Japanese workplace as an example, asking everyone to be responsible, patient and careful in their work. Just when everyone nodded yes, a young man wanted to take back his resume and quit the application.

The young man replied, "Everything in the world has its own function, with different functions and different requirements. In fact, cleaning the toilet only needs to remove dirt and odor. If the water in the toilet is washed to be drinkable, it is equivalent to cleaning a handful of firewood with the standard of skill. Needless to say, it is a waste of time for no reason. Too long cleaning process will also affect the normal use of the toilet, so I think that as long as,

Michael felt that the young man had an idea and a position, so he officially hired the young man. A few years later, he became one of the best employees in the company.

On another occasion, the company wanted to invest in an important project. Michael selected the best cooperator by bidding, and finally set his eyes on a powerful company and decided to meet with John, the boss of that company, to discuss specific matters.

One afternoon, Michael called the other party and asked him to come to his office for an interview in half an hour. I waited for more than an hour before Mr. John came in. He was short and fat, his eyes were red and swollen, he was wearing a gray suit, he didn't wear a tie around his neck, his blond hair was like overgrown weeds, and his lips had a sparse beard. He looked haggard. Mr. John blushed and said to Michael, "You are Mr. Michael, my name is John ..." At the same time, his mouth was full of alcohol.

Michael was unhappy for a while, and he was trying to find a reason to send him out. Of course, the intention of cooperation would be terminated, but he thought again, "If he doesn't have any real talent, how can he manage his company so well?" Michael decided to have a chat with him.

It turns out that Mr. John has been busy with his work for the last 32 hours, just went home to rest an hour ago, and drank a little wine before going to sleep as soon as possible. I didn't expect Michael to call him at this time. Unfortunately, his proposal was still in the company, so he got up in a hurry and went back to the company to get it ...

Michael was moved on the spot. Faced with such a hardworking and responsible boss, what reason did he have to refuse or give up cooperation with him? Their cooperation was a complete success, and both sides stepped onto a higher level!

"Giving others one more chance is actually giving yourself one more chance, which is particularly important whether managing the company or being human!" Michael Critelli often shares his success with others in this way.