The mother-in-law took away her son’s salary card and learned that her daughter-in-law’s salary had quadrupled. What did she do immediately?

Falling in love is a matter between two people, but getting married is a matter between two families.

After a woman gets married, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not as close as the relationship with her biological mother.

If you encounter a meddling mother-in-law, life will be even more difficult. But as a daughter-in-law, even if her mother-in-law is old and disrespectful, she still has to make concessions. After all, she cannot get the reputation of being unfilial.

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Xiaolu’s parents are both teachers. Although the family is in good condition, the whole family is frugal. Other women like to buy cosmetics and clothes, but Xiaolu doesn't care. For her, the clothes are enough, and cosmetics are also dispensable.

When her mother-in-law saw her for the first time, she liked her appearance very much. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, this kind of woman is the first choice to live at home.

After getting married, Xiaolu did not disappoint her mother-in-law. The Xiaolu couple usually have no expenses except for food. I saved a car in three years.

Buying a car was originally a good thing, but my mother-in-law felt something was wrong. She began to calculate how much money her daughter-in-law had paid and how much money her son had paid.

That day, the mother-in-law called her son aside and asked him: "How much did you both spend to buy the car this time?"

Luo Kun told his mother, "Me too I don’t know. I gave my salary card to Xiaolu, and she swiped it directly. I don’t know how much each of us paid. Besides, mom, we are both married, why do we do this?”

But the mother-in-law said to her son: "Silly son, you don't know that this little deer wants to use money to supplement her parents' family. Why are you so stupid that you gave her your salary card? Listen to your mother and ask for your salary card. Mom "I'll keep it for you."

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Luo Kun thought his mother was right. After returning home, he said to Xiaolu: "Daughter-in-law, can you give me my salary card?" As a grown man, I have to ask you for money all day long, and others will laugh at me when they find out.”

Xiaolu thought her husband was right, so she gave him her salary card. But once the salary card is given, each family will have to manage their own expenses.

After getting his salary card back, Luo Kun gave it directly to his mother and asked her to help look after it. My salary card has been with my mother for several years. In fact, Luo Kun also wanted to get the card back, but he didn't know how to talk to his mother.

On this day, the mother-in-law said to her son again: "Son, mom went to the bank yesterday. Mom has saved money for you in the past few years, and now there are 250,000 in the card."

Luo Kun said to his mother: "Mom, what do you mean by holding on to my little salary? Do you know? Xiaolu's salary has increased four times, and now it is 20,000, which is seven or eight thousand more than me. "

When the mother-in-law heard this, she asked her son: "Why didn't you tell me earlier? I will return your salary card to your wife tomorrow."

Luo Kun didn't understand being a mother. Why did he want to return the card to his wife again, so he asked her: "Why return it to her and not to me?" Can we use it together? His monthly salary is seven to eight thousand more than you, so you can’t lose if you put your salary card with her. Your wife is not willing to buy anything, so just ask her for the money if you want to buy it.” /p>

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The next day, the mother-in-law took the initiative to take her son’s salary card and handed it to her daughter-in-law: Wife, this is my son’s salary card. I am thinking that you are also sensible. I was afraid that he would spend money indiscriminately, so I kept his salary card for him. Now I can leave it to you, so I can rest assured.

The moment Xiaolu got the card from her mother-in-law, she suddenly understood why her husband took the card away a few years ago. At first she thought her husband really found it inconvenient, but now that she thought about it, she realized that they were afraid that she was greedy for money.

Although she has a soft personality and is easy to talk to, she is not a fool. When her mother-in-law did this, she was obviously on guard against her. I have been married for many years, but my mother-in-law still doesn't treat me as a member of the family. At the same time, she felt that her mother-in-law must have other ideas when she took the initiative to return the card.

After Luo Kun arrived home, Xiaolu asked her husband: "Husband, your mother gave me your salary card. Why did your mother suddenly give it to me? I'll give it back."

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When Luo Kun heard that his wife said she wanted to return it, his expression changed. He quickly said: "Originally, you were responsible for my salary card. At that time, my mother insisted on it, and there was nothing I could do. Your understanding understands me. ”

Xiao Lu: “Let me tell you the truth today. I can guess a little bit about what your mother wants to do.” How many years have we been married, why are you still so worried about me? The most important thing between husband and wife is sincerity. If you can't do it, I don't think we two have anything to say. I won't ask for your salary card, you can keep it yourself. But don’t make any decisions about my salary. "

The most important thing between husband and wife is trust, but Luo Kun did not give Xiaolu enough trust. As soon as his mother said that Xiaolu might send money to his parents' house, he asked for his salary card. Mother He also asked Luo Kun to spend Xiaolu's money, and he readily agreed.

From beginning to end, it was them who had bad intentions, and Xiaolu didn't know it. As a son, Luo Kun was qualified as a husband. , but he is not qualified. As for the mother-in-law, she does not want to let her son and daughter-in-law live well, and thinks about money all day long. She is not a qualified mother-in-law at all.

Thanks to Xiaolu for being a smart person, if Xiaolu was not smart enough. , it is very likely that everything will be lost in the end. No matter how you treat your wife or your daughter-in-law, you should not have this attitude. Since we are a family, why do you have so many messy thoughts?