Mother-in-law sneaked into the room every night to cover Ma Bao's man with a quilt. Daughter-in-law was frightened and asked for a divorce. Is that so?

Many people spit on the Internet, and it's really hard to get married now. Especially women, it is more difficult in marriage. Because this society demands too much of women.

If a woman is busy with her career after marriage, people around her will accuse her of ignoring her family; If you are a housewife, you will be laughed at for not being independent enough. It can be said that it is in a dilemma and I don't know how to choose. After all, there are too few women who can balance career and family.

However, society demands too little of men in marriage. In many people's minds, men just need to make money. The phrase "men earn money to support their families outside" has become an excuse for many married men. It is precisely because more and more people have this idea that a very bad phenomenon is derived: widowed marriage.

What is a widowed marriage? Simply put, it is a description that describes the unsatisfactory marriage life. Generally speaking, one spouse is indifferent to the family and ignores family obligations. Although there is no nominal widowhood, married life is like widowhood.

This kind of marriage is mostly described by women, which also shows that most men have not fulfilled their due responsibilities in marriage.

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In fact, this phenomenon can be said to be inevitable, because there has been a clear expression of family division of labor in China since ancient times: men are in charge of the outside, and women are in charge of the inside.

It is precisely because of this concept that most people in our country believe that men should earn money to support their families and women should take care of their families. Over time, he has evolved into a man who can ignore everything at home and only need to make money. Women, on the other hand, find it difficult to take care of their families, and sometimes even have to earn money to support their families.

Another reason for the formation of widowed marriage is that men lack a sense of responsibility and don't realize what they should do in marriage. Most of these men have no opinions and lack a sense of responsibility. Many horse-haired men are like this.

I found that if a man is a mother, this marriage will be 100% widowed.

That's why there is a saying that "marry a man but not his mother", because if a woman marries her mother, her married life will definitely not be happy.

And I also found that in Ma Baonan's marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is bound to be contradictory. Both are inevitable.

So men can be said to be a nightmare in every woman's heart, but because they are hidden deeply, many times women can't find them without in-depth observation. So many women have married Ma Baonan by mistake.

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Marrying Ma Baonan is like facing an unweaned child. Their irresponsibility and irresponsibility will drive every woman crazy. The first reaction to anything is to ask his mother, believing that no woman can stand such a man.

Reader Xiao Lu recently divorced, and she couldn't get over it for a long time. She always shudders at the thought of life in her last marriage. She admitted that she never thought how terrible it would be to marry a man with a mother-in-law!

Lu Xiao is 28 years old, and her last marriage lasted for more than a year. She was only 26 when she got married. After two years of long-distance running, she finally married her boyfriend Abin.

Lu Xiao and Abin were originally high school classmates. At that time, Abin was an obedient boy with good academic performance, but Lu Xiao and he were just ordinary classmates.

When I was admitted to the university, they were not in the same city, so they lost contact.

After graduating from college, Lu Xiao returned to his hometown for development at the request of his parents. I became a teacher in a middle school in my hometown. It was also at that time that she met Abin again.

It turned out that Abin listened to his mother's words, returned to his hometown and was admitted to the civil service.

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The two began to contact intermittently, and then they became familiar with each other. Abin began to pursue Lu Xiao, and finally they got together.

After a period of understanding, the basic situation of the two families is very clear to each other, and the two families can be said to be suitable.

After a year of love, Abin wanted to marry Lu Xiao, and the reason given was: My mother told us to get married quickly. But Xiao Lu didn't care, but she thought she was too young to get married so soon, so she didn't agree.

They stayed together for another year. This year, both parents are urging them. Finally, Lu Xiao saw that her peers around her were also married, so she had to agree.

When getting married, both parties arranged according to local standards, and there was no problem. But Abin told Lu Xiao that his mother might stay for a while after she got married.

When Lu Xiao asked why, Abin faltered and said that his mother didn't trust them, saying that they were still young and afraid that they would not survive, and they would stay for a few days to help guide them.

Lu Xiao wanted to refuse, but looking at Abin's embarrassment, she thought that it was not the case that she just got married and didn't let her mother-in-law into the house, so she reluctantly agreed.

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My mother-in-law just moved in. In fact, the two houses are not far away. It only takes half an hour by bus. Mother-in-law only stays for two or three days a week, which is also the time to catch Abin's rest and go back to her home the rest of the time.

Lu Xiao gets along well with her mother-in-law. She also understands that her mother-in-law may have moved in because she missed her son.

Abin has a regular schedule. He must go to bed before ten o'clock every night and get up at six in the morning. Lu Xiao became regular after he was with him. Sleep like a log every night.

But after a while, Lu Xiao gradually felt that something was wrong with Abin. He became indecisive and had no sense of responsibility.

He can hardly do housework on weekdays, and he won't eat until the food is ready. If you encounter any difficulties, you should find his mother to solve them. Xiao Lu gradually began to whisper in his mind: Is Abin Mambo?

It was that time that Lu Xiao got a positive answer, because Lu Xiao bought an expensive dress and was just beaten by her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law began to scold her for spending money recklessly. Lu Xiao was angry at the moment, and her mother-in-law quarreled.

After Abin heard the news, he yelled at Lu Xiao indiscriminately: "You bitch dare to yell at my mother? You hurry to apologize to my mother! " Xiao Lu dumbfounded at the same time, also understand that Abin is a mother treasure.

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From then on, Lu Xiao felt that her married life was getting worse and worse, probably because she observed more. Her opinion of Abin is not pleasing to the eye, and Abin's behavior also makes her very angry.

My mother-in-law will still come to live here frequently, and Xiao Lu has many complaints about it. And Abin quarreled again because of this matter. Because of his irritability, Lu Xiao often suffered from insomnia in those days.

That night, Lu Xiao vaguely felt someone was by her side. When she opened her eyes, her mother-in-law stood by and was bending over to do something. Suddenly seeing this scene in the middle of the night, Lu Xiao screamed with fear and woke Abin up.

Only after asking did I know that my mother-in-law would sneak into the room every night while they were asleep and cover Abin with a quilt. Because Abin always likes to push the quilt when sleeping, her mother-in-law has been covering him with the quilt at night since childhood.

Xiao Lu felt incredible after hearing this, so she said to her mother-in-law, "We are married, so I will do such a thing." Besides, it's disrespectful of you to come into my room without knocking. Besides, the big night is too scary, so don't do it in the future. "

But instead of listening, her mother-in-law sarcastically said, "You slept like a dead pig. Can you cover my son? " ? What if he catches a cold? What privacy do you have to knock on the door when you enter your son's room? That's ridiculous! "

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The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled again, and Abin stood by her mother and accused Lu Xiao of making a mountain out of a molehill.

Xiao Lu was frightened. Seeing that her mother-in-law and Abin were so wonderful, she roared, "I can't live this life, divorce!"

Lv Xiao really divorced like this, and she felt very relaxed without Ma Bao.

Marriage should be run jointly by husband and wife, but Ma Bao man doesn't have this idea at all. He will turn two people's affairs into three people's affairs. Dragging his mother into his marriage.

Because of this, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Ma Baonan's marriage is bound to be very tense, and the root cause lies in him.

If a woman wants to get a happy marriage, she must stay away from Ma Baonan. Before getting married, she should also observe carefully to make sure that she didn't marry Ma Bao-Nan.

Don't let a widowed marriage happen to you.