"Dad doesn't hurt, mom doesn't love, and she doesn't have any friends" Will you be lonely?

There must be loneliness, but I hope you won't be overwhelmed by this temporary loneliness.

I haven't had a good relationship with my parents since I was a child. Both parents are teachers and pay more attention to academic performance. However, academic performance can not be improved for a while. Besides, I haven't developed good study habits since I was a child. How can I get good grades? Is this requirement too harsh for me? But my brother can, because he grew up with his parents and I was brought up by my grandparents, so the gap is obvious.

When I grew up, especially when I was in high school, my grades were at the bottom, and my brother passed a new college with high scores, and the gap was even bigger. At that time, I really felt that my parents were giving up on me and never gave me a parent-teacher meeting. I guess I'm afraid of embarrassment when I meet an acquaintance. In a word, my relationship with my parents has always been so embarrassing that I pay more attention to my feelings with my friends.

Then I finally got into a university, far from the city where my friend's school is located. When I first arrived at the university, I really felt lonely. It's far from home and I'm a stranger. I often call my parents with nothing to say and no friends, especially at night, and I feel that the whole person has been abandoned by the world.

However, I know that everything is short-lived, just as when I was a child, I knew that my grandparents and I were short-lived. One day I will have my own world. Gradually, I made friends at school. There may not be many friends, but one or two to talk to is enough. Moreover, it is not good to have too many friends, and it may also waste time. Not many friends, but quality.

Gradually, I found that my parents treated me better, cared more about me, helped me to be more free, hated me less than before, and controlled me less than before. Later, I learned from my grandmother that they found that I had grown up and understood, so I didn't worry them. It turns out that I have been doing badly, and I feel that my parents have been against me. In fact, it's all out of concern and confusion. I hope I can be better.

Now I'm with my parents again. I'm not unhappy as before. With close friends, the lonely days have passed. Now think about it, smile gently, that lonely day is just an episode of life.

Therefore, pain is temporary, loneliness is temporary, time will prove everything, you become excellent, whether it is family or friendship, will come to your side.

Just sauce purple.