My daughter is too obedient to talk about it.

If your daughter is "too good", it will ruin her! Many parents are committed to training their daughters to be quiet, introverted, obedient, obedient and know how to read and speak.

There is nothing wrong with "good girl" itself! However, the characteristics of "good girls" make them easy to enter the society and face many unexpected and irresistible difficulties during their growth.

1. Excessive obedience, no opinion.

When I was a child, I used to listen to my parents' arrangements. When children grow up, they will always be influenced by others. I seldom have my own ideas. I can't express my needs. I dare not fight for what I like. I am afraid of causing trouble to others. Although I was depressed, I chose to accept it. Such children will lose many opportunities for upward mobility, and it will be difficult for them to be happy.

It's hard to refuse if you are used to please.

I have been used to watching my parents' words and deeds since I was a child. When I grow up, I will be considerate of my friends and partners, and I will be careful when I get along with others. They are afraid of conflict with others. Therefore, others dare not refuse their own demands, or even do things that harm their own interests in order to satisfy others. This "sacrificial" bottomless compromise will make them exhausted.

3. I am very concerned about the evaluation of the outside world

Parents who are committed to training their daughters to be "good girls" are usually very strict with their children. This causes children to be particularly afraid of being criticized and denied. The disapproval of others will cause her great anxiety. She may live in the eyes of others all her life, and it is difficult to live her life peacefully by constantly changing this and that.

4. Extremely simple, easy to get hurt

Some parents refuse to let their children touch the dark side and let them be as simple and kind as white paper. But excessive simplicity is stupidity, and unguarded kindness can easily be used by others. A "good girl" is most likely to be the object of PUA, and she is more likely to meet love rat and a man with domestic violence.