Why do people always tell the truth?

First, the truth is sometimes unpleasant and easy to hurt others.

The truth is always harsh, especially when it comes to a person's shortcomings. In the eyes of others, your face value is only 3 points, but others say you can score 7 points. Can you be unhappy?

If you tell the truth, it is likely to completely ruin your image in others' minds.

At this time, the man with you may be hated for it. Smart men absolutely don't like a woman who humiliates herself in public. You know, men actually pay more attention to dignity and face.

Especially from the perspective of Chinese psychology, the world is the largest. Telling the truth will lower your IQ and EQ, giving people a bad impression.

Second, the more telling the truth, the lower the emotional intelligence.

Only those who lack wit tell the truth.

Usually, we call people who tell the truth straightforward and rigid. They always have an attitude and don't know how to be flexible. Such people are rare, and it is not easy to stick to yourself for a while. Second, there are very few people who don't try to be smooth.

No matter to ourselves or to those who tell the truth, in today's society, if we want to handle interpersonal relationships well, do a good job easily, and make a living, we must learn to say beautiful words, not necessarily telling lies, but saying that we can choose to avoid the important, change the topic and choose the curve to save the country.

In short, talk less and make fewer mistakes, especially in things that have nothing to do with you. There is no need to tell the truth and entangle with others, but it will also ruin your impression in others' hearts.

Hurt others-people will naturally dislike you.

Sometimes telling the truth really hurts others, because when you speak, you don't consider each other's feelings from their point of view. Even if you are telling the truth, you are in different environments and are likely to hurt each other. So sometimes you tell the truth, but in the end you are rejected by others!

Inappropriate-just not choosing the right occasion.

What kind of words to say on what occasions is very particular. Don't think you are telling the truth, you can say it casually regardless of the occasion. Once you arouse others' antipathy, what you say is meaningless. Therefore, before you speak, you'd better consider the occasion, so as not to tell the truth and finally be rejected!

Not necessarily the truth-others don't think it's the truth.

This kind of self-righteous words, in addition to bringing some comfort to themselves, are difficult to gain recognition from others. Because this is only what you think is true in your own fantasy, and it can't bring practical benefits to the other party, so the more you talk, the more dissatisfied the other party may be. Please make sure that you are telling the truth!

Regardless of the object-it is easy to annoy each other.

Different people should speak in different ways and say different things. Maybe you will have no problem telling the truth to this person, but not necessarily to another person. So you must consider the object before telling the truth, that is, choose the person you should tell the truth. Otherwise, put away your truth and don't bother yourself!

Regardless of the consequences-just thinking about addiction.

You brought this on yourself. Some people are addicted to talking, and they will say everything, even telling the truth they know. But never consider the consequences, so some truth will cause others' dissatisfaction if it is passed on to the parties' ears. I advise you not to say this truth in the workplace, because there are rumors behind it!

The truth will often bring you some troubles or disasters, and not telling the truth is to protect yourself to some extent.

The thief on the bus was blatantly stealing the girl's wallet, and most people on the bus saw it.

But when the girl found her wallet missing and asked the people in the car, people shook their heads?

The reason is simple: I'm afraid of the thief's revenge.

A few dirty words were written on the blackboard. As soon as the teacher came in, his face turned black in an instant. The teacher asked the students one by one, who wrote the words on the blackboard? Although many people know, they still shake their heads and say they don't know.

It's not that I don't want to tell the truth, but I'm afraid of being isolated and being regarded as an informer in my class.

It's not that people don't like telling the truth, but the price of telling the truth is often unbearable.

Only the closest relatives can tell you the truth, so only tell the truth to sincere people. If you are unhappy, there is no need to waste time telling the truth.