How does Cai Kangyong politely refuse a suitor?

1: 15 years old, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. 18 years old, when someone you like asks you to swim, you have to say "I can't". 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later. -Cai Kangyong's "Kang Yong, a kind message to a cruel society"

Don't be too headstrong, because you live for the future. Don't let the future you hate the present you. Kevin Tsai

3. Why should life be like what you see at first sight, but you can't get tired of it. -Cai Kangyong's Sina Weibo

4. Some people stay in memory to remember ourselves at that time-Cai Kangyong's love letters to strange lovers.

5: I don't like anyone. If I like you, I only like you. Kevin Tsai

I kept the message you sent me at that time, because I still need some evidence to prove that even you love me so much. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

7: If you only read books that suit your taste, you will always only know what you already know. Kevin Tsai

8. The other person said, "I don't love you anymore." You are in a hurry and blurt out: "It doesn't matter! We can still be together! Then you suddenly cried, not because you were sad that the other person didn't love you, but because at this moment, you suddenly realized that you had become a beggar of love. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

9. The mementos of love are never the watches and necklaces you gave me, not even sweet messages and photos. The most precious memorial of love is what you left me, just like the river left on the terrain, and the changes you have caused me. Kevin Tsai

10: In the future, you will definitely appreciate yourself now. -Cai Kangyong's goodwill message to cruel society.

1 1: The promise blurted out when you are in love is sincere, as real as the fruit from the treetops when the season comes. It's just that you should know that the fruit begins to expire quickly from the moment it leaves the tree. If you don't eat it in time, the fragrant fruit will become rotten and smelly. Therefore, the promise in love often makes us feel uncomfortable later, not because it was false at the beginning, but because it is true and just expired. Kevin Tsai

12: Sometimes you know this love is predestined, but you are still desperate and try your best to talk all the way to the end, no matter how you hit the wall or the mountain. Why are you doing this? It's not because I'm lucky to be looking forward to the turnaround, but because I vaguely know that if I miss this time, my life will never be completely burned again. . . -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

13: You are in love, but sometimes the person you love doesn't really exist. He may just be an innocent white wall, and you are crazy about it, projecting all your favorite love movies on him. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

14: falling in love with you is like traveling to a distant foreign country. I had a good time along the way, although I knew there was absolutely no chance to settle there. . . . -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

15: You think you miss him to the extreme, and you can't miss him anymore. As a result, at an unexpected moment, you succeeded, and you missed him a little more than you did at the beginning. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

16: Sometimes, long after the romance is over, we gradually realize that we loved that person in the wrong way. Then, we suddenly wanted to get that man back, fall in love again. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

17: You should give him all your future. Is this love? Still lazy? Kevin Tsai

18: Break up if you want. Needless to say, you don't deserve me. We are not cell phones and chargers. Kevin Tsai

19: If he misses you, he will find you. If he wants you, he will say; If he cares about you, he will show his true feelings; If none of this had happened, he would not have bothered you. Kevin Tsai

When I love you one way, I must be the sun, and I rely on my own light to support me. When I was finally loved by you, I rested and became the moon. I rely on your light to confirm my existence. Kevin Tsai

2 1: You are important because you are all you can have. You exist, the whole world exists. You can see the sunshine, and the whole world can see the sunshine. You are out of balance, and the world is out of balance. You disappear, and the world disappears. So you're important. You're all you have. -Cai Kangyong's goodwill message to cruel society.

22: In love, you try your best to pay, and sometimes all you try your best to get is disgust. -Cai Kangyong's "Love Message from Cai Kangyong"

23: In the last love, I devoted myself wholeheartedly and was seriously injured. So I kept it for fear of getting hurt this time. This means that the rotten person who hurt you last time got the most complete you, and this time the developing lover got a very cold you. I know you are protecting yourself, but if this is business, your store will definitely close down. Bad customers who never come back get the best service, and new customers come to the door, but they are left out in the cold. Why didn't this shop close down? Kevin Tsai

24: The souvenir of love is never the watch and necklace you gave me, or even those sweet messages and photos. The most precious memorial of love is what you left me, just like the river left on the terrain, and the changes you brought me. The ultimate goal of love has little to do with getting married and having children. Because of love, I am willing to learn to put myself in the other's shoes, create happiness, understand and understand each other, and seek a balance between myself and the two. Even if the final result is separation, I will seriously learn to give up and move on. The most important thing in love is growth. Kevin Tsai

25: Unless that person can make you live a better life than when you are single, why leave being single for that person? Kevin Tsai

26: Your life is yours. When you feel the wind, it is blowing. The universe only exists in the heart. You may have to bear what others decide for you, what you believe and what you admit, but you can also put it down then. -Cai Kangyong, one day, baby.

Many excellent people stopped going to school a long time ago (they chose, or wanted to go to school but didn't get it), but these people didn't stop learning. They immediately turned to wider social schools and learned from more powerful people. If you have the courage, you can do it. But please don't mistake these people for stopping school early and becoming excellent. It's like thinking that Napoleon was short.

28: Some people have no scenery in their lives because they only flow in the most convenient water pipes built by others. Ignore those water pipes, really flow through one landscape after another, and you become a river. -Cai Kangyong, one day, baby.

When we see other people's children or partners, we inevitably want to compare. Why can't you be like that? Well, I definitely have expectations for my family, but I'd better not compare them. Too many, each other has learned jealousy and resentment, and there is no nourishment. The appearance of other people's homes is a display window, and outsiders don't know how much those things in the window cost. Family members want to live a real life, so why compare with windows? -Cai Kangyong's goodwill message to cruel society.

30: Anger means that others do stupid things, and then we act like idiots instead of them. Kevin Tsai

3 1: If you don't fall in love, you won't die, but if you love, you will come back to life. -Cai Kangyong's love will last forever.

32: Repetitive things must be boring? Sunrise and sunset once a day is indeed a very repetitive thing, but I am still easily moved by sunrise and sunset. Kevin Tsai

33: You suffer for love, even if it is as bitter as a corpse, it is hard to add a little sweetness to each other because of your suffering. If the other person is unhappy because of your suffering, there is no reason to feel indebted to you, and it is hard to have reason to repay you. It's a pity that your suffering is hard to appreciate, and you can only be ignored, avoided and rejected, because no one benefits from you. Therefore, after suffering the necessary amount, let this suffering be buried in the mines of human life. -Cai Kangyong's love message to an unknown lover

34: If I like you, I will laugh when I think of you. As for whether you understand the reason why I laugh, I don't care at all, just like when the wind is comfortable, I laugh when the sun is comfortable, and the wind and the sun are just like you don't understand the reason why I laugh. I will treat you like the wind and the sun. -Cai Kangyong's love will last forever.

35: Isn't the forest cruel? There is a plague to kill, but the animals are still beautiful. Is the universe not cruel? There is no response, but the stars are still beautiful. Society is also cruel, there is life and death parting, there will be no way out, but people are still beautiful. So I can also store kindness in cruelty, such as dew on a spider web and amber under the ground. I know strangers may not be kind, but if I can meet them, I will cherish storage, because there is still a future. -Cai Kangyong's goodwill message to cruel society.

36: When you took that photo, you obviously didn't know me. Why did you show that kind of eyes that you wouldn't love if it wasn't for me? When I took that photo, I obviously didn't know you. Why did you smile in that photo knowing that we would love each other one day? Kevin Tsai

37: You think he only loves you 70 points, so you ask for the missing 30 points. Is this ratio appropriate? Shouldn't you put 70% of your heart into responding to 70% of his love, and then ask for the remaining 30% if you have spare capacity? This is proportional. Will the store send all its employees to attract 30% customers who didn't come to the door, but run away with 70% customers? Love can't be calculated, it must be calculated, so I suggest-Cai Kangyong's love message to unknown lovers.