"Son, your brother wants to decorate and has no money." I have a home, too. My brother is out of my control. What should I do?

If you are Ma Yun, if you are Liu, yes, this is just a decoration, 300,000, 400,000. You said that you still live an eight-to-five life, get married and have children. How do you manage your brother? Being a man, it is good to have affection between relatives, but it doesn't matter if you don't. After all, we are ordinary people, there is no need to pretend to be so tired like actors!

First, helping my brother is not a requirement of parents, but voluntary! It is said that there are two children at home, and the palms and backs are all meat, but the meat on the palms and backs is not the same thickness. Parents can be biased, but they must have a number in their hearts!

Don't you know what your mother did to you and what your brother did to you?

If your mother and your brother provided you with a living when you were in college, you would naturally help him with some money. Or when you get married, your brother takes money, gives you a banquet and helps you run before and after. But, on the other hand, they didn't give you money when you got married, and your brother asked you to give your brother money when you got married, so you can't do anything.

I have a sister. When my son was born, my sister bought everything for him, including food, drink and use. Then when she got married, she was short of money and had no money to decorate. I don't have to tell my mother to give her money. Why? The relations office is over there.

Second, do what you can, and if you can't refuse directly, your mother is not good either! Your mother must see that your marriage is stable and you still have some money left in your hand. She can't get the money for your brother's wedding decoration. Be careful, and let her brother get married smoothly, which can be regarded as fulfilling her wish. Your mother is so selfish. If it were me, I would rather go out and borrow money than ask my eldest son for money to decorate my younger son's new house.

It is said that being a son is filial, but a son can't listen to everything. You are an adult, have your own thoughts and family, and your son doesn't need to be raised? Don't you have to raise your wife? Don't you have a mortgage or car loan? Don't have to live? If you are really rich, I think you can really help your brother. It's hard for you to live alone. What can you do to help others?

A relative has two brothers. When the eldest got married early, the second child played the role of a nanny, helping his brother's family to look after the children, helping them with their homework and buying things for them. All the money earned over the years has been spent in my brother's house. When he wants to get married, his brother can't get the money, and he has no money. Who do you think wants to be with him?

So do what you can, don't help others before you have hard wings, remember: be yourself first, and then help others when you are strong.

Conclusion: I think I live a selfish life. I will never help anyone for no reason, because he will take my help as due and I owe it to him. I prefer to return. You are good to me, and I am good to you. Parents should not interfere in the affairs between brothers. Does your youngest son know the money you want? Originally, the two brothers were very close, but you are so estranged. Both sides blame you.