Xiaogang Feng scolded Xu Fan in public, but why did he willingly give his adopted daughter a horse to ride?

In the micro-interview variety show "Big Sister", Su Mang invited Xu Fan, a famous actor interviewed many years ago. Xu Fan rarely mentioned how she got along with Husband and Wife directed by Xiaogang Feng. Unexpectedly, gentle Xu Fan was called an strongman by Xiaogang Feng.

As we all know, director Xiaogang Feng is not a good-tempered person, and his tough and fiery character in the film Old Six starring Xiaogang Feng is recognized as "acting in his true colors". How should Xu Fan get along with such a character?

A well-known director on the set, who does he listen to at home? Is Xu Fan Xiaogang Feng's wife in her career?

The director describes the relationship between husband and wife in this book: "xu teacher is not only good at acting, but also good at business. Then, I like to grovel under the rule of an iron man, so as not to pursue the truth painstakingly. "

Xu Fan explained his "iron fist" like this: I insist, this is my iron fist. It turns out that Xu Fan's "Iron Fist" is a kind of loving "gentle persistence".

Xu Fan cited an example to explain how she insisted on making her husband Xiaogang Feng give in. "Sometimes I say you wash your hair, and he says you wash it when you come back at night, and then go to bed. I said you don't have to do it, just keep your head down and I can help you wash it. All kinds of things as long as they achieve their goals. So it is an iron fist. "

In Flowers and Flowers, director Xiaogang Feng tells how Xu Fan insisted on losing his temper. For example, she would say 10 times to make herself drink water, which made people who lost their temper at the beginning unbearable. This gentle persistence is also very effective.

When talking about their careers, Xu Fan said that both of them are relatively independent. Xu Fan will not interfere with Xiaogang Feng's work, and she will arrange herself. "Everything he did was his own choice, and everything I did was my own choice. If he wants to help me choose, I will feel that I can't do it well. I will blame him. I don't think this is a good idea. I don't want to blame anyone. "

Xiao S once asked Xu Fan if he would participate in the casting of the film directed by Xiaogang Feng. Xu Fan said that she never intervened because she was not a director. "Director Feng directed his major, because I didn't understand that field, so I didn't explore it, so our work was very fragmented."

Of course, this does not mean that the couple will not exchange their ideas. "You ask me, I will say. If you don't ask me, I don't have to ask. Whether he succeeds or grows up, I'm sure his mother didn't say I taught him. What right do I have to say that I want to guide you? " She thinks men don't want women to take care of themselves. They will also listen to each other's suggestions, but they will not impose them on others.

Xu Fan said that the person he admires most is his mother. "My mother is a very soft woman, my father is a person with a big temper, and my mother is honest and soft."

Xu Fan said that the mode he chose to get along with his husband and wife also originated from his parents' words and deeds. "My mother is so great, my child has a bad temper, and my husband has a bad temper. My mother is like this, she slowly softens us. "

No wonder Xu Fan described the advantages of women as softness: "Do you want to be together? You don't want to give up the most important one. You are very gentle with him. If you start, he will be more rigid than you. Don't fight like this. I don't think I like fighting. I feel that quarreling is very incompetent, and it is very troublesome for two people to stay together. "

Xu Fan said in "But Listen" that she had a big temper when she was old, while Xiaogang Feng only listened when she lost her temper. If he doesn't listen, Xu Fan won't talk to him. In other words, Xu Fan's temper is not as good as expected, but she chose to tolerate her husband with softness. "Not a day, you can use years to calculate. Cooperate slowly, and you will adapt yourself. He'll get used to it, too I think strong people can feel your softness. "

She described her relationship with her husband as a "legitimate enemy", even saying that sometimes she hates it or not, but they have been sweet and happy since they got married in 1999, which is related to Xu Fan's softness and her care for her calf. When someone said to persuade her husband not to be so hard-driving outside, instead of blaming him, she said, "Why do you want to run on Xiaogang Feng like this? Why don't I do what he does? "

Xu Fan said that's why he likes Xiaogang Feng. "I like Xiaogang Feng's favorite place. He does everything without any rules. I think it makes me feel very interesting. I find it much more fun and boring. Life itself is boring, and it is boring without a little taste. " No wonder she thinks her husband has a good temper.

Xu Fan said that he is a boring person, and his work and life always go on at the same time. He can't even travel, and he doesn't know the way out. Xiaogang Feng took advantage of Xu Fan's story: "She is not very good at star stuff. In life, I think she is a professional actress immersed in life like a normal person and has a short family. On the stage, you think she is a very glorious one. "

In fact, even Xu Fan's husband is in charge of what he eats at home, so he has developed a good cooking skill. Xu Fan, who lived in a collective life since childhood, did not do housework before getting married. I taught myself by Xiaogang Feng, and then I stopped cooking.

Xu Fan said that she didn't go to jiaozi on purpose, because if she knew, she would be on her own, and she still wanted to leave some space for herself.

Xiaogang Feng and Xu Fan got to know each other because of the movie "A Big Slap in the Face". As a screenwriter, Xiaogang Feng met the heroine Xu Fan. At first, Xiaogang Feng didn't like Xu Fan's ugliness, but after falling in love, he started a crazy pursuit process. Whether Wang Shuo agrees or not, he will directly drive with Xu Fan and drag her to have a bitter meal.

He will also "buy and sell" when Xu Fan doesn't agree to associate with himself, telling everyone that this is his girlfriend. At that time, the Golden Rooster Awards Ceremony was chartered for all actors to go, and Xu Fan and Xiaogang Feng were on the invitation list. Before boarding the plane, Xiaogang Feng said that Xu Fan was his girlfriend. After boarding the plane, the person next to Xu Fan offered his seat to Xiaogang Feng and let him sit next to his girlfriend.

From 65438 to 0994, two people in love collaborated on the first work "Never Lose My Love", and then successively collaborated on "A, B and C" and "Be there or be square", which also established Xu Fan's position in the film industry. Someone once asked if this was a mom-and-pop shop, and Xiaogang Feng replied that Xu Fan was a professional. In that case, why can't it be "after all"? In fact, he said that Xu Fan had never asked for a role, and he also adhered to the principle of discretion.

Xu Fan looks nothing like an actress. She is not anxious about her age because she never played a girl when she entered the business. She doesn't even know the famous brand, and she doesn't care about her clothes. All the expensive clothes were arranged by her husband. She has her own plans for her husband's dress. "I am a man in our family and a woman in our family."

What impressed Xu Fan the most was his first time to attend an activity. Before leaving, Xiaogang Feng and Xu Fan confirmed that they had brought all the documents. Results at the airport, Xu Fan found that I didn't bring all. If you go back at this time, you will miss your flight, which will definitely affect today's trip. Looking around with Xu Fan, Xiaogang Feng was so angry that he pointed to Xu Fan and cursed: "You are a pig!" Finally came a sentence: "Go away, change the ticket yourself, I don't care about you."

Xu Fan said that if she was betrayed by her husband, she would leave without hesitation. "Home care requires two people to take care of each other. If the other party ignores me, I will say hurry up and don't stay. "

Xu Fan said that her husband is right about himself and his relationship. "Because there are many difficulties between husband and wife, he (Xiaogang Feng) will drag you down." She thanked her husband for his contribution to the family: "I feel like an abandoned baby. He adopted my heart, and he is my life's benefactor. "

Xiaogang Feng and Xu Fan were married for many years without children until they adopted Duo Duo, which enriched their family life. I didn't expect Feng Dao to be an old urchin in front of children. Xu Fan said that her husband had no temper in front of her daughter, but she became a tiger mother.

A well-known director with such a position outside would be willing to lie on the ground and ride a horse for his daughter. On one occasion, my daughter called her father to come home quickly. Xiaogang Feng immediately put down his work and rushed back to her daughter.

Conclusion Xiaogang Feng said that Xu Fan was the best actress, while Xu Fan said that marrying Xiaogang Feng made him happy. He not only praised Xiaogang Feng for his irregular work, which added a lot of fun to his boring life. Even if Xiaogang Feng is angry with himself, he won't be angry.

Xu Fan said that she could do nothing but be an actress, nor would she be a director or producer. She won't stare at the scene except trusting and supporting her husband's work. Xu Fan's remarks once made many people feel that Xu Fan put himself too low. For example, she doesn't care about the waves that pounce on her husband, because he is a man who doesn't suffer, and even says, "You let him take advantage." This is also an obvious mentality of protecting calves.