What should I say when my girlfriend's mother visits me when she is sick?

Visiting patients is a science. Besides, it is the first time for you to meet. The following suggestions are for reference only. I hope they can help you. Good luck!

1. When visiting patients, you should first choose an appropriate time to avoid the rest and medical time of patients. Because the patient's diet and sleep are more important than ordinary people, it is not appropriate to visit in the morning, noon, late at night and during the patient's meal or rest time. If you are visiting hospitalized patients, you should also go within the time specified by the hospital. If the patient is resting, he should not be disturbed, but can tell him later or leave a message. Dress neatly and don't wear irritating clothes. Walk lightly and don't disturb the rest of other patients.

2. Gifts: Many people like to give flowers and fruits to patients, but it should be noted that some patients or people in the same ward may be allergic to flowers or suffer from respiratory diseases, and it is not suitable for breathing air with pollen. In addition, if you are hospitalized, everyone will send flowers when visiting the sick, which will easily affect other patients in the small ward. It is particularly important to note that some diabetics and gastrointestinal patients can't eat fruits. Choose according to the patient's condition. For example, when visiting patients with myocardial infarction, you should bring some bananas, oranges and watermelons to the patients to keep the stool unobstructed to alleviate the condition; Visiting patients with hypertension and coronary heart disease should bring hawthorn food, which is rich in acids and vitamin C and can soften blood vessels. When visiting patients with pneumonia and tuberculosis, you can bring pears and nutrients beneficial to the treatment of diseases. In addition, many people send flowers to patients to make them feel happy, but be careful not to send pure white flowers.

third, look: when visiting patients, look relaxed and concerned, don't look too worried, and don't look surprised when you see needles, skin tubes and other medical devices used by patients to avoid bringing pressure to patients.

words and deeds: due to the special psychological state, people are quite sensitive during illness. When talking with a patient, you should generally ask the patient's physical condition and treatment effect first. When the patient tells his illness, he should listen carefully, don't be absent-minded, look around. In the content of the conversation, we should say more relaxed and comforting words about the patient's anxiety, or dispel doubts and enlighten, or persuade and comfort, so as to help the patient restore a calm and stable mood. Don't introduce hearsay remedies and secret recipes to patients, and don't recommend drugs that have not been clinically tested. We should also say more words of care and encouragement to make patients feel happy.

5. Generally speaking, visiting the sick should be done as follows:

① Pay attention to the patient's taboos: the conversation should not touch the most uncomfortable symptoms of the patient. For example, you can ask, "Are you feeling better recently?" When you find that the patient's face is haggard, you can't ask, "Why is your face so ugly?" Instead, say, "The medical conditions here are good, and your illness will definitely get better soon."

② Talk more about outdoor news: ask about the illness briefly, and talk more about lively and interesting news or things outside, so as to make patients happy and help them recover.

(3) Say something beneficial to the recovery of the disease: introduce yourself or your acquaintances' experience in curing the disease, and introduce the determination and confidence in fighting the disease published in newspapers and periodicals. Talk more about the patient's family harmony and good work conditions, relieve the patient's worries and concentrate on his illness.

④ euphemistic tone, cordial tone and sincere: in order to take care of the patients, the time for talking and staying should be short, and attention should be paid to avoiding talking about topics that may stimulate the other party or related taboos. When saying goodbye, you should generally refuse the patient to see him off, and ask if the patient has something to trust, and wish her an early recovery.