My children are all in primary school now, and they are a little tired of learning. Now they often pretend to be sick and don't go to school. What should I do?

What if the child pretends to be sick and can't go to school? If you used to love school very much, but now you don't love school, it means that your children are having problems now, so parents and teachers should pay attention. You can't simply blame the children!

? What should I do if my child pretends to be sick and can't go to school (1)?

1. Pressure from schools and teachers. If children encounter insurmountable difficulties in learning, they can't get help from teachers, are constantly criticized by teachers, and lack confidence in learning; There are many more.

2. Obstacles to peer communication. It is difficult for children to solve unspeakable setbacks in interpersonal communication. If you are laughed at and snubbed by your classmates, you will feel isolated; If you are in a weak and passive position when you have conflicts with your classmates, you may even be bullied and unable to solve them.

3. Problems from family. If the family relationship is not harmonious, children will lose their sense of purpose; Or parents are too busy to make their children feel neglected, and claim that illness causes parents to pay attention to and take care of themselves.

4. Seduced by a certain lifestyle. Not going to school is happier than going to school.

5. Really sick, no obvious features. Who knows who is not feeling well? It's time to call a doctor.

(2) What about children who pretend to be sick and don't go to school?

1 first of all, we must understand the reasons why children have this idea. Only by finding out the reason can we prescribe the right medicine and cure the child. Parents can spend more time with their children, chat with them, learn more about their feelings and help them adjust their mentality.

2. Don't criticize, beat and scold. No, as soon as children say they can't go to school, parents start to beat, scold and laugh! Parents' beating and cursing will make children rebellious and make them more tired of learning. Therefore, parents must first maintain a good attitude in order to better enlighten their children.

3. Communicate with teachers more. Keep abreast of children's learning at school and classmates. Only a more comprehensive understanding can open children's hearts and re-establish their interest in learning.

4. Communicate with children more and be their friends. Let the child and his parents be in an equal environment, and he will be willing to communicate with his parents. You can talk about anything, remember to go your own way. Help your children get rid of school boredom!