Why is 35 years old a hurdle in life?

There are many stages in life, such as naive childhood, ignorant teenager, passionate youth, middle-aged crisis and loneliness of the elderly. At every stage, you will encounter success or happiness in life, and you will also encounter some setbacks or troubles. This article is written for us who are about to or have turned 35.

Standing at 30, not confused at 40. 35 years old is an important hurdle in life. If we cross it, we can be more decent and elegant.

35 years old is a phenomenon in the workplace. Regardless of the enterprise or the system, the age limit of 35 can be seen everywhere. At this age, most people are still ordinary and still need a job to support their families. They are also people of this age group, and they are the easiest to be laid off.

35 years old is the peak of human physiological function. Health is the capital of revolution. People over the age of 35 will gradually feel that their physical strength and spirit are not as good as before, and they are more vulnerable to external interference. Some things will be unable to concentrate at first, which will make you more prone to anxiety, insomnia and physical discomfort.

The world is in a panic, but the picture is broken. It happened that this broken silver can solve all kinds of panic in the world. 35 years old often means more responsibility for life. People of this age, both a father and a son, have gradually become the reliance of more people, and they should shoulder more responsibilities with their shoulders.

After 80s, parents are old and children are still young, and there are "cave theory", "sandwich layer" and "sandwich layer". ...

Coordinate Shenzhen, age 34+, a large factory optimizes employees. There is a suite in Shenzhen, with high mortgage, parents need to be filial and children need to be raised. Unemployment means "bankruptcy" in life. He also worked overtime for work, sweating profusely, and devoted himself to his best years, but in reality he had to go on.

Coordinate Beijing, age 36+, technical operation and maintenance personnel of a company. No matter his hobby or his job, he smokes and drinks. He worked overtime together and stayed up all night. The diagnosis of terminal cancer in 2020 proves that we have to start to maintain the strongest will and the best mentality, prepare for the worst and make the most comprehensive plans.

Coordinate Qingdao, aged 32+, manager of a startup company. Put aside the stable work within the system and hope to make a difference at the age of struggle. Full of ideals and reality. In 2020, when the epidemic broke out, the barely maintained company was teetering, and the next choices were few and far between.

Work is for a better life. On the basis of doing a good job, make full use of spare time to develop a second career, which can be PS, PPT, Flash, photography, video production and so on. The second career will not have a result at first, but it will definitely be fruitful if you stick to it.

The Internet age is changing rapidly. Keep thinking, pay attention to the forefront, study hard, and your vision will eventually be different.

Excellence is to do one thing to the extreme, irreplaceable. If you have gone deep into an industry or field, please keep pace with the times, continue to deepen, become an expert and become a leader; If not, it is not too late to decide on an industry or field.

Principle 28, excellent theory of relativity ... 35 years old, if you are still at a loss, can't find a second job, can't continue to study, can't become an expert, please stay upright and keep a clear head, even if you work and live in a dimension-reducing space, we will eventually walk gracefully.