Divorced, but my ex-husband comes home every day, what should I do?

now that you're divorced, don't be together again, otherwise why divorce? Tossing the civil affairs bureau?

in your question, you said that the divorced husband came home every night and left during the day. I wonder, don't you lock the door? How did he get in? Now that you're divorced and the house belongs to you, why don't you change the lock? Also, I knew that it was my ex-husband outside the door. Why did you open the door? Every business owner's security door has a cat's eye. Won't you have a look? If you found out it was your ex-husband, why did you let him in? In other words, you let him in, okay?

It can also be seen from the question that your ex-husband is a scoundrel, love rat. Not to mention cheating, but still here. The whole mangy dog attribute. To deal with such love rat, you should either stay away or be more ruthless than him. Change the lock on your house, and don't open the door. I don't believe this. He will be squatting in front of your house like a dog, right? If that's the case, then contact someone to sell the house and move quietly. We can't afford to hide.

In other words, you can forgive your husband if he makes mistakes occasionally. If you let your ex-husband in, the end result will be your remarriage. If you are willing to remarry, then let him in. Honey. I have seen such an example, because the man in my family cheated, the woman divorced in a rage. The man got married with the cheating partner in a rage. As a result, the woman has never remarried, saying that she regrets it.

it's up to you whether you should be tough or not!

You have lived with him in this house for many years, and we have been talking about spoons in the same pot for many years. We are familiar with each other's every move. Without him around, you may toss and turn, and you can't sleep. Suddenly, because of something, you won't give way to each other, and no one will be weak. Both of them have a divorce certificate. When it comes to dinner, the man feels that there is no landing, and the woman goes to set the bowl and shouts. Unfolding the quilt, I remembered that the guy didn't know where he had gone. A man can stay in a hotel for two days a day, but he can stay in a hotel for a long time. It's always not a problem. This divorce has to be prepared ideologically and materially before it can be separated. Besides, even if it is separated, a man thinks it is a divorce, and this house has to be half of mine. How can he leave in a daze? As a result, the man's meal came, just as the woman left the man's heart, and the meal was not fragrant. The man ate it, and he was so flustered that he washed the pot and the rice. Poor thing, he spent almost all his money, and only his eyelids collapsed and he didn't leave. It was useless for the woman to pretend to mix it out. In fact, the man had to let him. So a week passed, and the woman remembered the divorce, and it was boiling in Yangyang, and the neighbors didn't say anything. The man didn't mention it in black and white, and as usual, he didn't divorce. The woman wanted the man to check it out and make a guarantee, but the man played dumb and wanted the woman to say RuanHua first.

As a result, women turned to netizens for help, and everyone offered suggestions. Some said that since they were divorced, women should not continue to bear the obligations of their wives in law. Others said that if he didn't leave, you didn't go out, so just acquiesce.

I think since the two sides don't mean to be apart, no one can live without each other. We still want the other side to admit their mistakes. Why don't we have a meeting and talk about our mistakes together? Men are men after all, and they are thicker-skinned, or kneel down to show their attitude and pay a guarantee. Whoever calls us men still looks taller than women, laughs, and has no hatred. Take the divorce certificate and change it at the civil affairs office. Exactly, it rains in the sky and flows on the ground, and the young couple don't hold grudges when fighting. A pot of rice during the day and a pillow at night. Make a joke with one punch and one foot, and laugh at it. I reply to your questions in "A Breeze in the Dust" ...

I generally don't reply to the convenient question of divorce, because in my mind, there are people who are serious about life, spiritual realm and cleanliness ...

Elder sister, your life is so complicated ...

Today I will give you an analysis, and your situation is ...

First. Small three small four, give them an account ...

I'm afraid they'll rob you of your family business ...

Second, your lover is treading on more than two boats, and he understands that there is a boat under his feet to tread on, so why not tread on ...

Third, both of you are not very responsible and take marriage as a joke. You can't lift your head, you have no face, your fellow villagers, brothers and sisters ... < P > There are also injuries to poor innocent children ... < P > You and your lover, this life, are doomed to be unhappy, no matter what you start over, a relationship ... < P > You are thoughtless and impulsive about your actions. In order to meet your own expected results, you will divorce at all costs to complete you. Sometimes, all beings in the universe will find a balance, just like laws and regulations ...

Dear readers who ask questions and interactive friends, remember: happiness will not follow: anyone who plays with feelings ...

Harmony between husband and wife and children is the most beautiful way in life ...

Divorced ex-husband comes every night and leaves during the day. This question is a bit strange. I want to ask, your ex-husband left home quietly. Did you divorce through the Civil Affairs Bureau? Or did the two parties agree to divorce? It is not difficult to see from your question that it is an agreed divorce! Maybe you can't remember clearly, maybe it is written in the agreement: divorce will not leave home, ex-husband will go out to work to earn money during the day and must go home for the night. In order not to break the contract, he has to come with you every night. Otherwise, he doesn't have the guts. If you don't agree with him to go to bed after divorce, how dare he come every night? You don't agree that he will come into the house again? You don't agree. He's not afraid of you calling the police? You don't agree. He's not afraid of you accusing him of rape? So this question. You'd better find out your divorce agreement and have a good look at the terms.

I got divorced, but my ex-husband came home every day, which should not have happened. You divorced because of the disagreement between husband and wife, so there was no relationship between them since then. But your ex-husband came back every night and left during the day, which is not entirely your fault, and you are also responsible.

After divorce, you live your life. Your ex-husband really shouldn't come every night. What's the point of coming back after divorce? If you can't let go, why divorce?

It's your fault that your ex-husband comes every night. Didn't the lock of your house change after the divorce? How did he get in? Can he come in if you don't agree? Why didn't you call the police if he forced his way in? This also shows that what you say is different from what you think, and you still want him to come every night.

It is often said that women punish men. It is rare for men to correct women. With all due respect, your ex-husband is not a man of class.

Your ex-husband comes home every day for two reasons: one is that you "let him come", and the other is that you don't let him come and he comes by force.

first analyze the first situation-you "let him come".

why did you tell him to come? According to your background description, you are not the kind of situation to your ex-husband. You see, my ex-husband is divorced and still comes back to sleep every night. How can he come? If you don't agree with him, can he come? If you don't want him to come, children can figure it out. You don't give him illusions, you don't give him hope, he will come? When he comes home every day, it must be your attitude towards him that gives him sweetness, happiness and security, and your behavior gives him hope.

Dear subject, you "let him come!"

If you have an ambivalent attitude towards his coming home every night, some don't want him to come, some sympathize with him, and sometimes you even want him to come back in your heart, and sometimes you can't tell yourself clearly, then your feelings for him are still there.

if so, you can remarry! According to your background analysis, anyway, your ex-husband wants to remarry, otherwise, he won't come home every day.

remarry, don't torment yourself.

analyze the second situation again-you don't want him to come home. He forced him to come back.

This is a possibility. Your ex-husband is a scum and even has extreme behavior. When he comes home after divorce, he forcibly corrects you. You absolutely want to get rid of his correction but feel helpless.

there are solutions to this problem. Mainly depends on you, dear subject.

first, you should be firm and not weak towards your ex-husband. According to the analysis of your background materials, your ex-husband is also an incompetent rogue with no great skills. What can a man do to correct a woman who doesn't love him? Don't be fooled by him. This kind of person is strong if you are weak, and weak if you are strong. Don't be afraid, don't give in, and resolutely and decisively shut him out.

second, with this attitude and thinking, there are many ways. For example, the simplest way-change the lock.

third, move. Sell the house and move to another place. As far away as conditions permit. Thirty-six plans, walking is the best plan.

Fourth, the best way-remarriage. Dear subject, remarry! According to my analysis, it is not difficult for you to find a better man than your ex-husband. When you remarry, you will naturally be protected and your ex-husband will be desperate, and the problem will naturally be solved. This is the best and wisest choice. If your ex-husband persists, he just wants to remarry. As long as you don't remarry, your ex-husband will have fantasies and hopes, and you can't get rid of him for a day.

In fact, too much attention is paid to men's attachment and pity. When a man breaks up for whatever reason, he can see how much he loves his wife and goes home every day. That is his guardian for his wife, and he is afraid that his wife will be hurt by others, because he knows that no one in the world loves this woman more than himself.

in a marriage, it is inevitable that there will be clues of mistakes, and the heart can't be separated. Who really loves himself? Watching a divorced man go home silently, is he really trying to have no place to live? Because there is a man who cares about you at home, don't you see a man's attachment to home? Come back quietly at night and leave quietly in the morning. Such a man, what reason do you have to go all over the world to find happiness?

A man loves his woman and hurts you when he is careless. He wants to prove his love for you with a thousand carefulness. Can't he forgive a man who loves him deeply? He can give you the house and the car. Even if he lives this life, he wants nothing but to spend the rest of his life with you. Nothing can be more important to him than you. Watching the silent man come and go in front of you, should you ask, have you eaten?

You can get a divorce. His heart can't leave you, and he can't leave home, because you are home. A man has no explanation, only his heart. This man is a responsible man and should be your harbor for life. He thinks of him when you are tired, and he is waiting for his wife in his heart. No matter how he makes you break your heart, his heart is bleeding, and it is for you.

you have the heart to abandon such a man? Such a home? Come back, the front is your happiness, why haggle over the past? Divorce is a test, which is more beautiful than marriage. In divorce, you will find how much men love you. Divorce is the best measure, which will make you hold hands more tightly and never leave you for life. Divorce is not the end, but the sublimation of love. I hope that everyone should treat their family calmly and treat the family who loved each other.

hello, going home every day is not the key to the problem, what is important is to see if you have been disloyal to him. Please plan his cheating for the time being, and then calmly review, examine and summarize: * * * has lived with him for half a life, and you should know him like the back of your hand. Once in trouble with * * *, whether he is sincere to you, you also know that. His contribution to his family can't be completely erased because of his fault. Please be honest, if all the time except his affair are warm and beautiful memories, if he just stumbled accidentally in front of temptation, then why not give him a chance to turn over a new leaf? Why do you have to hand him over to the hateful mistress? Why do you want to fulfill Xiaosan and let Xiaosan succeed in order not to swallow one breath? In addition, your husband's coming home every day may be difficult for you, otherwise he would have flown with Xiaosan. No place to live may be just an excuse, so hate will make love desperate, and forgiveness will bring love back to life. Can you try to give love another chance? Please think twice.

On the contrary, if in the years when * * * lived together, he showed no love for you, and he left you with more injuries than good ones, and you were disheartened with him. Besides, your child should have grown up, and the divorce of his parents would do less harm to his child. So, don't be hard on yourself, don't grieve yourself, get together, cut the gordian knot and start a new life completely. The netizen in front has given many ways. It is feasible to change locks, rent a house or sell a house. Please consider it yourself. Finally, whether you are second time around or completely separated, as long as you are happy and comfortable, I sincerely wish you all the best. My humble opinion is for reference only.

You are the last thing that all divorced couples want to happen. Although you are divorced, you are still entangled and can't lead a normal life.

there are two problems to be solved in your present situation.

First, your husband's accommodation. Although he is divorced, he has no place to live now. No matter as a friend or nostalgia, you can't kick him out. If you kick him out by force, you will look inhuman.

second, your husband doesn't approve of your remarriage. Although he can't stop you from remarrying, it will definitely interfere with your life. Such a problem may have something to do with the reasons for your divorce, or maybe you initiated the divorce. This problem needs to be discussed with your husband, and it will take some time for the pain of divorce to slowly pass. Maybe after a while, he won't stop it, but you can't get married now.

now it is mainly to solve the above two problems.

first question, just divorced, you can temporarily let your husband live at home. If you want him to move away, you can't force it. It will only be self-defeating and it is likely to make the other party hate. You can talk to your husband with someone else, either your mother-in-law or your parents, or you can be tactful. If your husband wants you to live a better life in the future, give him some time and he will move away.

second question, as long as your husband has moved away, you two have less and less contact, and slowly start your own lives. Now that you are divorced, I don't think he will interfere with your remarriage. It's probably still in the sadness or anger of divorce. It's just a temporary angry remark, which can only be solved by time.

that's my suggestion. I hope you can properly solve the current problems.