In what aspects should college students cultivate their own temperament?

First of all, you must be confident and "beautify" yourself on the basis of accepting yourself. That is to say, you must first be satisfied with yourself, appreciate yourself, care for yourself with love, love every part of your body, and love your own style. When you accept and love yourself, your body will bloom with a kind of beauty from deep inside, which will make you calm, generous, decent, free and confident no matter what occasion you are in or how many people you face, and of course be loved by others. Acceptance and liking will also invisibly increase your temperament and charm!

Secondly, read more and improve your inner cultivation. Some people have proposed three realms in life: "reading thousands of books" means reading books with words. The first realm is reading philosophical books, which can cultivate your atmosphere; reading professional books, you can cultivate your talent; reading leisure books, you can cultivate your aura. "Traveling thousands of miles" means reading the wordless heavenly book. The second realm is also - traveling on the road of travel can expand your horizons; traveling on the road of exploration can expand the world; traveling on the road of helping others can expand your horizons. "Listening to thousands of people's words" means reading people's books, which is the third realm - listening to words of suffering can sharpen your will; listening to words of humor can sharpen your emotions; listening to words of praise and criticism can sharpen your will. Apply these three realms to daily life and social interactions, so that your temperament and cultivation will be naturally expressed. For example, get closer to people with good temperaments and make friends with them; participate in more group entertainment and physical exercise activities; consciously create some environments for yourself that cultivate your elegance, lightness of step, and joy... These all belong to the category of reading.

Third, accept your own appearance and love and care for others. Everyone has unique temperament and advantages in personality or appearance, which are also attractive to others, so we must understand the advantages of our own personality and appearance, and use and develop them, so that we can show our unique charm; A person's inner beauty comes from the love deep in the soul - loving everything and everyone around him, and we will get the same reward. Loving and caring for others is one of the most attractive qualities. If you show love and concern for others, others will be impressed by this temperament. For the specific content of love, you can go to my blog to read "The Law of Love - Love Begins in People's Thoughts", "The Law of Love - Start by Respecting Yourself", "The Law of Love - If you want to get love, you must first Give love" "The law of love - to find a true love, you must create true friendship" "The law of love - abandon prejudice and give freedom" "The law of love - sincere communication" "The law of love - passion "Ignite Love" and "The Law of Love - Trust is the Basic Element of Love", I believe you will have some insights after reading it!

Fourth, show your true emotions and maintain a sense of humor. A person's true self-expression is easy for others to accept and accept, so no matter what kind of joy, anger, sorrow, tenderness and sweetness should be expressed appropriately in a timely manner, a woman who often suppresses and hides her emotions will be regarded as cold and heartless by others. , imagine that no one would like to associate with an iceberg? Haha! At the same time, you must learn to have a humorous and optimistic temperament, and know how to smile or laugh at the appropriate occasions and at the appropriate time, so that you will be welcomed by others.