My husband passed away, what should I do?

We must face reality, cheer up as soon as possible, take care of ourselves, and start a normal life.

Let’s talk about my cousin’s experience.

My cousin’s family lives in the Tangshan mining area. On the night of the Tangshan Earthquake in 1976, my cousin was pregnant and living with her parents in Tianjin and escaped death. However, my cousin’s husband was buried under the mine and his body was not found.

My cousin cried bitterly for several months. The son she gave birth to developed epilepsy when he was about two years old. He had seizures every now and then and became increasingly dementia. When he grew up, he stopped going to school and wandered on the streets every day. The hospital said that the child had the disease in his mother's womb and it was difficult to cure.

Nowadays, my cousin’s child is over 40 years old. Grandma and grandfather have passed away one after another, and my cousin is over 70 years old. After a hundred years, who will take care of this silly child?

My cousin’s life experience tells us that when the person you love most dies, the living cannot fall into sorrow for a long time and cannot extricate themselves. This will not only hurt themselves, but also harm their loved ones.

Facing the reality, cheering up as soon as possible and getting back into normal life, and taking good care of the elderly and children are the best comfort for the deceased.

You can remarry, but the Chinese have a rule that you have to wait until your husband's grave is dry.

There was a folk legend in the past that if a woman died and her husband wanted to remarry, he had to wait until his grave was dry. The wife couldn't wait any longer, so she brought a lot of hay to burn on the grave. The wife arrived every day. Drying on the grave, using fire to dry the moist soil on the grave, so that the husband's grave can dry out earlier, so that she can remarry earlier and be with her husband. God does not follow people and wants it to rain every day, so the wife goes to cry every day. Cangtian, can you please stop punishing me? I am only in my twenties and I am a widower like this. God, can you bear it?

I have pointed out two ways for you, one is to remarry, and the other is to bring up the child. If your child is under five years old, I suggest you remarry. If the young woman becomes a widow, the person who harasses you will A lot. In the past, it was said that there were many disputes in front of the widow, and you had no way to deal with these people. You accompanied this man, and that man came again. You could only interact with one or two men. What should you do if there are too many men? What can you do? Can you cope with it? You must remarry to find peace.

The second is to raise the child. The child is already 15 years old and will not accept having a stepfather. I can only work hard to raise the child by myself, and let the child finish high school and enter college before thinking about his own life. Things, when the children are older, they can understand the mother's good intentions. The mother really found the person in her heart that day, and the son will accept it happily. It is already amazing that the mother can do this, and she can be called a great person. Mother.

After your husband is dead, your only responsibility is to raise your children to adulthood. You cannot just find a man to make yourself happy. If you abandon your scolded son and hate you, others will look down on you in the future.

My husband passed away. How old are you? Regardless of age, I think it’s best to find someone.

If you have children and have a family, you also need to find a companion. Although there are not many physical needs at this age, you will feel lonely without a companion.

If young children need to find someone, firstly, young people have strong physical desires, and secondly, they are under great pressure. Finding someone can satisfy their physical needs and reduce the pressure on family, finance and other aspects. After all, two people are more powerful than one.

This is a confusing question.

Your husband passed away, what should you do? Based on your own specific situation, I would like to give the following suggestions:

1. If you are not very old, have not worked before, and you have children, I think the top priority is that you should find a job as soon as possible. A more suitable job would be to first solve the problem of feeding you and your children. Of course, this does not apply if your family is rich, or if your parents or parents-in-law are rich and they are willing to provide money for you and your children.

2. If your child is already working and can earn money to support you, it is also a good option for you to help your child with housework instead of working.

3. If you are not too old and you intend to find a husband to get married and start a family, that is also a good thing. Whether you look for it yourself, or you can be introduced by relatives, friends, classmates, and colleagues, the best thing to do is find someone to marry you as soon as possible.

Fourth, consider the situation carefully based on the specific situation of yourself and your family...

For a woman, when her husband passes away, the sky has fallen.

If a relatively fragile woman fails to recover, she is likely to collapse, and may soon follow.

A strong-willed woman may turn grief into strength and hold up half the sky alone.

Most women will choose to remarry because no one wants to stay alone in an empty house.

A few women will choose to be widowed, but their lives will be very difficult!

If your relationship is good, if your husband dies, you will be sad for the rest of your life!

For those who are not in a good relationship, maybe the death of their husband means that it is dawn and they finally have a chance to see the rainbow.

In fact, after my husband passed away, those who are alive still have to live, so let everything take its course.

My husband passed away, what should I do? Regarding this issue, the death of my husband is also a sad and heartbreaking thing. We still need to grieve. Life cannot be resurrected. It is better to get out as soon as possible and find the man you like. Life without a man is really sad, and physiological needs cannot be met. The answer is, a family without a man is unimaginable. Your husband has passed away, but how many people are still in your family? Everyone still has to live. The main issues are how old you are now and how old your children are. These are the key issues. If you are young, you will definitely want to find a man. If you are 50 or 60 years old, you can take your time. In short, women need men, and men cannot live without women. This is how to do it.

Observe the great filial piety for three years and the minor filial piety for thirty years.

Don’t think otherwise.

If you have other ideas, your husband will not let you go.

The years without your husband are just for you to spend the rest of your life missing him.

If you want to find a new father for your children, then you can do whatever you want.

But one thing is that I may not be able to sleep well at night.

Because of your husband, I often remind you in my dreams.

In particular, don’t forget how you expressed your feelings to your husband before he was alive.

If you violate it, you will definitely be punished.

What? Can a woman not live without her husband? You should know that the earth will still turn around without anyone!

If you intend to marry again, then try your best to find one as soon as possible. Otherwise, based on your current situation, be independent, self-reliant, and work hard to live a good, strong, and prosperous life! Let your neighbors, relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues take a look! You are indeed a strong woman who strives for self-improvement!

No matter what kind of setbacks and misfortunes a person will encounter in his lifetime, no matter what difficulties and obstacles he encounters and the unpredictable natural and man-made disasters and misfortunes in life, he should not be overwhelmed by them. Wipe away the tears, wipe away the sadness, hold your chest high and raise your head, stride forward, be strong and brave and step on all the difficulties and hardships under your feet! Because people cannot be resurrected after death, but those who are alive still need to continue walking on the unfinished road of life. Only by turning grief into strength can you live a good life in the future!

I am not comforting you, but motivating you! I don’t know if this is helpful to you, please forgive me!

When my husband passed away, I was both sad and happy. He had been ill for three years, and I had no choice but to make him suffer. My family was very poor, and I had to borrow money every time I was hospitalized. He was young and very kind to me. Alas, he has liver stones and his belly is getting bigger day by day. He is very sad and does not want to lose my mother and daughter. When he died in 1997, he left me with nothing but debt.

If your husband is really dead. You should find a reliable, trustworthy man who you can rely on for the rest of your life and continue on your life path. But the premise is that you cannot compare others with your husband. If you compare your new boyfriend or husband with your previous husband who has passed away. I always feel that the later one is not as good as the first wife. If this happens, my future life will not be happy, and I may not even be able to last long with my later husband. I hope my sister can find another partner she likes as soon as possible.