My girlfriend always finds an excuse to borrow money from me. Should I give up this broken relationship?

A weakness of human nature is that love takes advantage of small things, which is a fatal flaw that makes a person's pattern smaller and smaller. His eyes became more and more fixed on sesame seeds and he would not pay attention to watermelon, and then the road of life became narrower and narrower. Even if you get married, a material girlfriend like you will definitely not be good to your parents. Your money will be closely watched by her. If you spend money on your parents, it will inevitably lead to family conflicts. Since you ask such a question, it shows that you are a little tired of your girlfriend often borrowing money, which puts you in a dilemma. At this rate, it may be a bottomless pit, or even a pit. Maybe you are always psychologically insecure.

It stands to reason that it is not surprising that a girlfriend needs to borrow some money occasionally, but it is not normal for a girlfriend to borrow money repeatedly. If your girlfriend doesn't get along with you that day, how can you get the money she borrowed back? Is there any evidence?

Under normal circumstances, it is normal for boys and girls to spend money on their own initiative. It is necessary for boys to buy some gifts and invite them to a movie for dinner. It's unnatural not to need girls to pay the bill.

But your girlfriend, always looking for an excuse to borrow money from you, seems irrational, reserved and does not pay attention to her image. Personally, I think it may be that you lived together and had a close relationship, so your girlfriend asked you for money in the name of borrowing money. For her, you two had sex, which is different.

So you feel embarrassed. If you don't lend her money in the future, you may break up and lend it to her, even if it is a pit of dissatisfaction.

In short, you should make up your mind whether a girlfriend like you is worth loving. Can you control your finances after you get married? Will there be economic conflicts between husband and wife? The details of the two of you are unknown to outsiders, and it is not good to make up your mind for you. I have to think about it myself.

The above are personal analysis opinions, please forgive me if there is anything wrong!