We are like potatoes and tomatoes, slowly becoming French fries and ketchup.

One

watch a movie, in which the heroine wears a pair of high heels and steps on the floor, making a clattering sound like the sound of nature, which is a beautiful concerto of cello and violin.

that's a kind of confidence and beauty knocked out with high heels.

I can't forget the shoes in the movie screen. When I visited the shoe store, I searched carefully and asked my friends abroad to help me find them, but I didn't find the same or similar styles.

I had to take the photo and go to a shop where shoes were made by hand.

The old shoemaker looked at the photo carefully with reading glasses and said, "Girl, I can make these shoes."

I was so excited: "Great! The style should be the same as the photo, and it should fit the foot. It should fit the foot as soon as it is put on! "

The old shoemaker adjusted his eyes and said slowly, "Once the shoes are put on, they won't fit 1%. Especially high-heeled shoes, you need to run in with your feet first. "

I don't understand. Don't you try on your feet before buying shoes? Buy it if it is the right size. Still need to run in?

He said, "You don't know shoes. I don't care much about shoes, so I don't notice the subtle relationship between shoes and feet. No pair of shoes and feet are made for each other, just like love and marriage, they need to run in. "

The words of the old craftsman, like Feihong's flying across the blue sky, made ripples in my heart.

Second

A friend around me is tall, handsome and humorous, and he can bear hardships very much. He started from scratch. Now he owns two companies and has a three-story single-family villa by the sea.

Compared with these, his marriage is more talked about by people around him.

He is thirty-two, but his wife is seven or eight years older than him. Every time friends have dinner, his wife tells us all kinds of embarrassing things about him in front of us. For example, he was drunk at a relative's wedding and grabbed his daughter-in-law's hand to call his mother. For example, he ate soap as bread after drinking too much.

we were all a little embarrassed when his wife accused him of something wrong. Sometimes he would gently interrupt his wife and try to change the subject, but the more she said, the higher her interest, and she couldn't stop. He didn't lose his temper, but he still ate, drank and laughed with us.

His friends complained for him behind his back: How could she lose face to her man!

he is young and promising. His wife, however, is old and has lost her charm. Everyone agrees that they are not suitable for each other.

A friend once told us about his wife. He said,' If he hadn't met her, maybe he wouldn't have found the direction of life yet. "

When he graduated from college, he submitted N resumes and interviewed N companies, but none of them wanted to take him in. When everyone around her denied him, she believed in his talent and ability. She said, since the job is not easy to find, you should start a business and take the path that suits you best!

But starting a business needs money, but they are poor. She gritted her teeth and had the cheek to borrow the first bucket of gold from relatives and friends. At the beginning, the company's operation was not smooth, and it was in a state of loss for two consecutive years. However, she never gave up and always encouraged and supported him.

He said, "She is my right-hand man in business. "

" I am a good friend to you. But if you really live with me, I have too many flaws, such as being picky about food, not knowing how to take care of others, being careless, loving drinking and so on. It is estimated that only she can tolerate me. "

"No one is perfect, and she also has shortcomings. But she accompanied me when I was poor. Only she understood me and only she tolerated me. Why can't I accept her shortcomings? "

My friend paused and said," I'm used to being together for so many years. Only when I am with her will I feel at home. Her broken thoughts, like soybean milk fritters and steamed bread millet porridge, have become a part of my life. "

You are lamenting that their love is as bitter as the wind, but you don't know how much they like the freezing snow in Wan Li.

You are lamenting that their marriage is like the bleak autumn wind, but you don't know that they have achieved fruitful results.

3

Nan Zhou's violent temper is well known in our circle.

One second, he is as warm as jade. If something goes wrong, then he will fly into a rage.

In contrast, his wife Enron is as obedient as a lamb.

I was shopping with Enron once, and it happened that Nan Zhou called Enron and said that he would leave work early and meet us at the mall. After Nan Zhou came over, we went shopping. It was just a threesome, and the protagonist became the two of them. I accidentally turned into a bright light bulb.

I followed them into a men's clothing store. Enron and considerate to help Nan Zhou choose clothes, she took a fancy to a stand-up T-shirt and said to Nan Zhou, "This dress suits you very well. How about trying it on?"

Nan Zhou shook his head and said, "I don't like this dress. Let's look at the others."

Enron said, "This color suits your complexion. Try it on. If it doesn't, we won't buy it.

But Nan Zhou suddenly flew into a rage, his voice rose and he said, "I told you I don't like it, but I don't like it. It's over!"

it was sunny, and without warning, there was a storm. I was startled by Nan Zhou's voice.

However, Enron was still cheerful and said softly, "If you don't like it, you don't like it. Let's choose other clothes. Don't be angry. "

it was calm in an instant.

I feel wronged for Enron in my heart. I choose clothes for you with good intentions, and I yell if I don't agree with you. As for it!

After coming out of the clothing store, Nan Zhou bought us an iced drink. Enron seemed to see through my mind and whispered to me, "honey, it's not what you see."

Enron said, "Remember the accident I had last year?"

Last year, Enron was driving on the way to work, was rear-ended by another car, and was seriously injured. He stayed in the hospital for two months.

"At that time, it was summer, and the weather was hot. I felt uncomfortable all over, but when I moved, my body was in great pain. Nan Zhou took a two-month holiday from the unit to accompany the bed and took care of me in every possible way. "

"My body is very uncomfortable. I smell disinfectant every day, and my mood is particularly agitated. I often lose my temper with Nan Zhou, and even find fault with my eggs. However, whenever I make trouble unreasonably, he smiles, pats my head, comforts me softly, and tells jokes to make me happy. "

"During my two months in hospital, Nan Zhou never lost his temper with me once. This is the relationship between us. When he is strong, I am easy-going. I am lazy when he is diligent; When I am good, he is docile, which seems to be a habit. "

it dawned on me. I only saw the superficial phenomenon, but I didn't see the essence of their love.

After Nan Zhou came back, he carefully inserted a straw into Enron's iced drink and smiled at her when he handed it to Enron. In that smile, there was guilt, gratitude and deep love.

Suddenly I remembered a passage: "Husband and wife, like potatoes and tomatoes, were not from the same world, but they walked together, because potatoes became French fries and tomatoes became tomato sauce, which made them a perfect match."

On Thursday

In the shoe store that day, I talked a lot with the old shoemaker.

The old shoemaker said that the newly made leather shoes will rub against the skin of the feet, and the temperature of the hair dryer can be used to soften the leather. Actually, leather will naturally soften when walking.

actually, the same is true of love and marriage. No two people are born right. In the emotional world, we need mutual understanding, tolerance and change.

Spring breeze will turn into autumn rain, and the sea will turn into mulberry fields.