Are most divorces impulsive?

In fact, most divorces are impulsive, and few of them think clearly and clearly. For marriage, there are too many constraints, which are not as free as love. Sometimes marriage needs to bear a lot of responsibilities and obligations, and it is really tiring to face various family relationships. If you are a little more sensitive, you will feel that the other person doesn't love yourself, and the other person doesn't care about himself.

We should know that there is a great pressure in this society. Both men and women have taken on too much, and marriage has mostly become a partnership. Whether you have feelings or not is secondary. The most important thing is that you can live better than one person. However, in many cases, you are not free, so you don't want to do whatever you want, and even you need to spend your hard-earned money together, and so on. Especially for some people who don't care about their families, the suspicion of the other half is even heavier, and they often have the idea that two people are not as happy as one, so they choose to divorce.

Some people find their wives less attractive than other people's wives, and they just nag all day. Some women also feel that their husbands don't care about their families, don't know how to cherish the fragrance of jade, and don't make as much money as other husbands. The husbands and wives of other people who often appear from time to time make people feel that they are not happy enough, so they want to live alone, but they don't know that "husband and wife are still good together."

In fact, the above reasons or situations are all about people's minds. Many times people can't know themselves clearly, know each other clearly, and don't know what kind of life they want. Unclear life goals and behavior habits make many people rashly choose divorce, thinking that this is the best way and method to solve the problem, but they don't know that there is more than one way to solve the problem, and divorce may be the worst policy.

It is suggested that divorce should not be approved so quickly in the future. Instead, we should learn from Sichuan Province and issue a "notice of divorce cooling-off period" so that both husband and wife can calm down and wait until they figure it out before making a decision, without regret. Divorce and remarriage, wasting time and energy back and forth, or waiting until you want to cherish it, the other party has already met someone, isn't it a great loss and regret in life?

getting along with each other varies from person to person, but every family has its own troubles and puzzles, otherwise there would be no such thing as "every family has its own problems". Divorce is a kind of lose-lose behavior. The most important thing is that if you have children, it is your own children who will suffer the most, and it will even affect your child's life. Therefore, since I chose my current lover, there must be a reason to choose. At that time, my eyes were not blind and my brain was not short-circuited, so I really wanted to marry and have children with this person for life. So try this to accept his/her imperfections, just like when you first fell in love, tolerate him/her, help him/her, and achieve the most beautiful life for each other.