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10 years ago, I witnessed this scene on a long-distance bus. That day, I took a bus from Ruili to Xishuangbanna. This kind of long-distance bus, the most common in southern Yunnan, often carries mountain people waving halfway, and stop-and-go can temper people's patience. Fortunately, most people who travel will not have anything urgent, just watch the scenery with the car. At dusk, a dark and thin farmer came over and held his two little sons in his hands. Although the father and son's clothes were patched, they were washed clean. The road is very bumpy, and the two boys standing in the aisle obviously don't often take the bus. They held the armrest of the seat nervously, their faces flushed and they stood straight. After a while, they were even more afraid because their father had an argument with the driver when buying tickets. My father asked the driver timidly but obviously discontentedly, why did the fare rise to five yuan for a short journey? He said that he had seen passengers with children before and paid only two yuan. The driver didn't look back. "I can say as much as I want!" . Father still insists that "you should tell the truth". The driver looked back at him and shouted angrily, "If you don't want to give it, get out!" "The door opened with a bang. Two boys tugged at their father's skirt in fear. The father took the child by the hand to get off, but the door closed again and the car continued to drive. The driver scolded the farmer and urged him to pay five yuan for the ticket, as if he were reprimanding an unruly animal. The two boys were afraid of the humiliation suffered by their father. In a young mind, my father has always been like a mountain, but now he is like a grass that can be pulled up at any time. They don't understand where this power comes from. This is a common scene in long-distance buses on rural mountain roads. Silent passengers often prefer less to more because they are on the road. I have to admit, because the road is still long, so am I, and this kind of thing often ends in the surrender of farmers. But this farmer didn't. He patted the heads of two children, who timidly huddled in his thin arms. Although his eyes showed the pain of a father being humiliated in front of his son, he calmly but firmly told the driver, "I only pay you two yuan fairly." The driver ignored it. Soon, when the father and son got off the bus, the driver stepped on the gas pedal and drove past. The car seemed to turn into a furious bull under his hand. The two boys looked at their father in horror and tears welled up in their eyes. I finally couldn't help it and walked angrily to the cab: "That's enough, you have to stop, he has the child!" " "The car taxied for a long time and stopped. The farmer took out two yuan from his underwear pocket and handed it to the driver. There is no doubt on his face. The driver glanced at him, took the money in a panic and threw it on the bridge. The farmer got off the bus with his children, and his two sons surrounded his father's thin body and walked back with dignity. The faces of the sons are full of pride at the moment, proud of their father's victory. At that moment, my nose was a little astringent because I was moved. I watched with emotion as my father and son strode happily and with dignity on the road in Nanshan District, Yunnan Province, although a storm extended their way home. I believe that in a few years, children will find this a crucial victory in life. Imagine that the most authoritative father in a child's mind is bullied, and his father obeys injustice in humiliation ... Then, the dignity of a father will be completely desecrated, and the dignity of a society will be greatly reduced. That farmer is one of the bravest fathers I have ever seen. There are many timid children in life who make his father sad. When I was in high school, I rebuilt the school building on campus one year. After class, lying in the corridor of the classroom and watching the workers busy building houses became the happiest thing in my boring campus life. Students in the class gradually noticed that a craftsman covered in mud in the engineering team often came from outside the classroom and looked at us intently on the windowsill. Later, he found that his eager eyes seemed to be fixed only on a girl in the front seat. I also found that he quietly stuffed her with two steaming buns. This discovery caused a sensation in the whole class. Everyone asked the girl, who is the craftsman? The girl blushed and said it was her old neighborhood. Then she complained angrily that "this man is really annoying" and claimed to let her already working brother teach him a lesson. Everyone thought it was serious and reported it to the teacher at once, but the news from the teacher was even more surprising. The man covered in mud is her father. Then, another classmate found that her father had a daughter very late. I don't know how happy she was to bring the construction team to the school to build a house this time. Every day when he comes to work, he will send two meat buns for breakfast. He can't bear to eat it himself. It's very cold, and he's worried that the steamed stuffed bun will get cold. He always keeps them in his arms and gives them to her secretly. In order to watch his daughter's class better, he often slides down from the scaffold and looks around the window without being scolded by the leader. But she was worried that it would be too bad if her classmates knew that her father was a construction worker. The construction period is still going on. One day, while the students were playing in the corridor, the craftsman suddenly ran over and shouted his daughter's name. The female classmate was livid at once and turned to run. The craftsman ran after him, and she stopped and stamped her foot at him: "Go away!" " "The craftsman stayed where he was, like being struck by lightning, and two lines of tears fell from his cement-gray face. After a while, he raised his hand, and we thought there would be a loud slap in the face from the girl. However, the loud voice came from his father's face, and he slapped himself with his hand. The teacher happened to pass by the corridor and was stunned by this scene. When she held the craftsman who had stumbled, the craftsman cried, "I am ashamed in front of everyone." I am ashamed because I gave birth to such a daughter! " The girl didn't attend class that day and went home with her father. Father came to tell her that her mother was suddenly ill. I don't know why, it took a long time to transform the campus. The craftsman never appeared on campus again, and neither did the girl. She dropped out of school before she finished a semester. Once, I happened to meet a craftsman in the street. He is still helping others build houses, but he looks very old. Although he didn't carry a brick on his back, his waist was hunched, as if carrying a concrete building. The child's harm to his father is the heaviest and most thorough, which can make a person as strong as a mountain suddenly fall to the ground. Similarly, children's love and respect can make a father who treats him like dirt stand tall. The following story is what I learned when I interviewed my colleagues who have been engaged in media work: when freshmen entered school, the newspaper office on a university campus was crowded with freshmen who were surrounded by relatives and friends to report, and the car to see them off was crowded with parking lots. At first glance, it seems that an automobile exposition is being held. Although the school security guards have been accustomed to this posture in recent years, they are still very vigilant and dare not make any mistakes. At this time, a rugged middle-aged man with a black snakeskin bag and rags appeared in the security guard's field of vision. The man walked out of the crowd and looked suspicious. Just as he stared at the empty beverage bottle on the ground, the security guard rushed up and grabbed his collar, which was worn out and almost pulled down. "Didn't you see what day it is today? If you want to pick up junk, you should come back another day. Don't destroy the image of our university! " The man who was caught is actually very timid. It was his first time to come to Yichang, and it was his first time to walk into the university gate. When the majestic security guard caught him, he was embarrassed rather than afraid, because he was speechless in front of so many students and parents. At this moment, a girl rushed out of the crack. She held the man's dark and thin arm tightly and said loudly, "He is my father and sent me to report from the countryside!" " "The security guard's hand loosened, and his face was surprised: a farmer dressed as a scavenger actually trained a college student! Yes, this farmer comes from a remote mountainous area in Hubei, and his daughter is the first college student in their village. He can't read himself. He went to Guangzhou to work with others more than ten years ago. Because I didn't understand the labor contract, I only got a sentence that my boss owed him 800 yuan a year later. I had no money to buy a ticket, so I had to walk back to my home in the mountainous area of western Hubei from Guangzhou for two months! On the way, sad, he secretly vowed that all three children should go to school and go to college. Daughter is the eldest, the first to go to primary school. In order to help her family collect tuition fees, she went up the mountain to cut firewood alone at the age of eight. At that time, each load of firewood could sell for 50 cents. After entering middle school, she lived on campus. In order to save money, she didn't eat breakfast for six years, and only ate bran cakes for every meal, and so on for six years. In order to save money on books, she copied textbooks for six years ... She finally realized her father's wish and was admitted to the university. My father sold five goats at home, borrowed money from relatives and friends, and finally collected half the tuition. The father insisted on sending his daughter to report to the university. Once I pleaded with the school for my daughter, and once I saw the campus of the university with my own eyes. When he left, he couldn't find a bag that could only hold luggage, so he had to pick up the commonly used fertilizer bag from the corner. He never imagined that he would be picked up like a chicken on the most solemn occasion in his mind. When the daughter proudly called her father, holding his fertilizer bag and walking arm in arm through the crowd, she held her head high, which was the pride of a father and a person. After the registration, some parents have booked rooms in hotels near the college and will accompany their children for the first time after leaving home. But he can't. He dare not even think about it. He dare not delay his return trip for a day, and his road is farther than others, because he has to walk back to the small mountain village. However, this time on foot, he will be happier than any time in his life. He knew that the day was near when he could afford a hard seat ticket. ...