How should an adopted daughter from a poor original family face her future life?

One: Keep studying

The worse the family of origin is, the more you must insist on studying. There is an old saying: One is fate, two is luck, three is feng shui, four is accumulation of yin virtue, and five is reading. If your skills are not good when you are reincarnated, you are not cast into a good family, you have a bad fate, and you lack luck. There is no smoke coming out of your ancestral graves, and your parents have no karmic virtues. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, the fastest way is to study.

Principal Zhang Guimei said: "Studying is 100% important for girls in impoverished mountainous areas. Only by studying can they get out."

Lise· Murray was born in poverty, his parents were drug addicts, and he lived in the dirtiest and messiest environment. She persisted in studying hard and completed the four-year high school course in two years. She successfully won a high scholarship from the New York Times and was able to successfully enter Harvard University for further study and get rid of the life in the gutter.

It is not our fault that our original family is not good. We do not need to apologize as human beings. After all, it is not our choice. But we can change our living environment and status through our own efforts and welcome A new life.

So, you must read more. Reading can make you unwilling to be at the bottom and make you determined.

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Two: Adhere to Independence

For a long time, influenced by the decadent thought of favoring sons over daughters, many families have this concept. They believe that Girls don’t need to be trained. They can live a good life when they get married in the future. After all, when you get married, you belong to someone else's family. Why should you lose money to teach? Why not train your own son well so that you can provide for yourself in the future.

Because of this kind of thinking, many girls have formed the concept of placing their hopes and happiness on men.

They cannot think independently, cannot live independently, and are not independent mentally. They think that they can’t survive without men, they can’t live.

The love they cannot get in their original families prays to be found in other men.

The movie "The Life of the Disliked Matsuko" is the best example. As the eldest daughter in the family, Songzi did not have a happy childhood.

Her sister Jiumei was born with a disease and was bedridden for a long time, unable to live like a normal person.

The father is worried that his little daughter does not know how long she will live, and is often depressed and embarrassed. Whenever Songzi thought that the gift her father brought home was for herself, she was disappointed. It was from her father to her sister.

Whenever Songzi wanted to get her father's attention and love, her father refused to look at her and hurriedly went to take care of her sister.