What if the daughter-in-law doesn't like the dishes cooked by her old mother?

Then you go to cook. You are the only one who can balance the two.

Let me first talk about some problems that will arise when the elderly cook:

Usually frugal, cooking less oil, less ingredients, reluctant to buy big fish and big meat, every meal is relatively simple.

Moreover, when the old man is old, his taste will get worse. Sometimes it feels too weak in her mouth, while young people think the food is salty when they eat it.

Sometimes memory will deteriorate, and you may forget to put salt or other spices.

The chewing function is degraded, and the cooking is unconsciously rotten and soft. This way, especially vegetables, will sacrifice color sense, become soft and lose appetite.

Vision degradation, when choosing vegetables or cleaning food, it is not cleaned, which affects the taste.

I am used to the old kitchen equipment, but I can't use new appliances and equipment. Sometimes not ready, sometimes not at all.

This is normal, as a younger generation to understand. Now do you understand why your daughter-in-law is upset? Can you understand your mother's difficulties?

You need to talk to your daughter-in-law and tell her mother's difficulties. There is an old man at home who can make breakfast for you at work and ready-made dinner after work. You should thank and understand your mother's contribution to this family.

You should also talk to your mother and thank her for handling it. Let her not hold back what she needs, just tell her son that when she is tired, she won't have to cook hard, and she will have to bear more burdens as a junior.

If your daughter-in-law is busy at work, you should also cook more (or learn from your mother). For example, on Saturday and Sunday, you and your wife shoulder the burden of cooking and let your mother rest.

If your daughter-in-law is not good at cooking, train herself to be a cook. Occasionally, you can ask your daughter-in-law to help, wash a bowl and pass on a dish, which can also increase your feelings, right?

In this way, will it be better?

If you still feel overwhelmed, then give some hints.

When a mother-in-law confronts her daughter-in-law, she must keep calm and not take sides. But you have to listen to your daughter-in-law complain about what your mother's focus is (be sure to talk about the substance, sometimes the appearance of quarrel is just a fuse). In the meantime, listen to your mother. In the process of two people quarreling, some conflict points will be exposed.

When the two sides calm down, wait for them in person and make up the meal. Whether you come together or separately, you must not be hungry. If you have a baby at home, you can be a baby and buy a lovely one to ease the atmosphere a little. Daughter-in-law doesn't want to eat out. You can cook something to eat and cook noodles in duplicate. Both the daughter-in-law and the mother are impartial. Whether you can cook the meal well or not, as long as you do, they will leave it alone.

Analyze the conflict in their quarrel calmly in private. When everyone is calm, let's have a good talk and clarify the difficulties of both sides.

Family members have made it clear that there is no overnight enmity, and it is easy to build a car behind closed doors. Only by finishing this balance beam can we avoid becoming cannon fodder in the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.