My husband is too generous to his guests. How can I persuade him without hurting his face?

Your husband's behavior can only be described as saving face and feeling inferior. You can communicate with him well, don't be impatient. Inviting people to dinner and exchanging feelings is a very common phenomenon in modern society.

If your husband is engaged in sales and wants to invite people to dinner, you can promote the relationship with customers in other ways, such as giving small gifts. The main purpose of sales is to be friends with customers, not to belittle yourself without a bottom line in order to meet customers' needs. Sales can give customers gifts, but they don't have to be expensive. Just give some practical gifts that customers need. For example, if the customer has children, you can send a set of toys; It's summer now, so you can send a summer mat. In fact, it was reported in the news before that there was a client in a lawsuit. He accompanied his clients to major law firms, and finally accompanied them to win the lawsuit and walked out of the trough as a friend. Since then, he has won the trust of customers and developed several lists with them, none of which were obtained by inviting guests to dinner.

In fact, people who are really rich don't treat people all the time, which will only make others think that you love face, which is not good. You might as well think about it, those men with high salaries have ever generously invited guests, they are always stingy. Everyone knows that they have money, so they don't have to put on airs to show their generosity. And those men who know that after the banquet, they will definitely lose money for a while, and they will also be swollen and fat. It's really pitiful, but there are also ridiculous rents.

In short, your husband is still very inferior. The more so, the more you should encourage him, praise him often and help him get rid of this habit. Only people with low self-esteem can disguise themselves and not let others see their true side. At this time, you should communicate with him more, slowly eliminate his inferiority complex through praise and encouragement, give him more time, help him change his thinking, and let him not care too much about other people's opinions. In daily life, he must be a person who is afraid of comments from others. You should encourage him more, help him build up self-confidence and gradually get rid of these bad habits.