Based on your life experience, would you like to talk about your understanding of "Young people don't know their parents' wishes, but only when you raise children do you know your parents' kindness"?

“Young people don’t know their parents’ wishes, but only when they raise children do they know their parents’ kindness.” It seems like a simple and straightforward sentence, but it contains a profound meaning and speaks of the hard work of parents in the growth of their children. , full of children’s gratitude to their parents when they grow up.

Combined with my personal experience, let me talk about my understanding of the three levels of meaning contained in these two sentences.

1. When you are young and inexperienced, you thrive in the selfless love and tolerance of your parents.

When you are young, you depend on your parents for everything, including food, clothing, housing, and transportation. It is no exaggeration to say that my parents have supported me.

When you have no money, you ask your parents for money. If you want to buy something, ask your parents for it. If you want to eat, your parents will take it to you. Your parents will do all the logistical work such as washing and cooking. Just study. Okay, don't worry about anything else.

Parents will meet their own requirements even if they bite the bullet. It can be said that they grow up under the protection of their parents' strong arms.

It can be said that this is the most carefree time for me, and it is also the time when my parents give the most.

Our parents gave us the best things and paid a lot for us, but at this time we couldn’t think so much and felt that this was all taken for granted, because almost all the parents around us This is how children are treated.

No one can be frivolous and waste his youth, let alone the rebellious period of youth.

As you grow up, your outlook on life, values, and worldview gradually take shape, you have your own personality, and you have good friends around you. You will lose your temper from time to time, and your parents will not follow their own ideas. Not happy.

There are many cases around us and on the Internet where children are indulgent and willful and lose their temper at their parents. They blame their parents for being nosy, blame their parents for making less money, and some even beat and scold their parents. Of course, there are many reasons for this, such as the parenting style, physiological characteristics of immature mental development during the growth process, personal personality characteristics, etc.

At this time, our parents are more tolerant and tolerant towards us. This is their way of expressing love, but we often ignore this intangible love. .

2. When you become a parent, you have heavy responsibilities on your shoulders, and you deeply understand that parenting is not easy.

Later, when you get married and have children, your life enters a new stage, and you shoulder the heavy responsibilities of seniors and juniors. I have a new understanding of life.

I am a new father and have no experience. I started from the most basic things like how to hold a baby, how to feed, how much milk to feed, how to burp the baby, etc., no matter how small or small, I don’t know how to do it. I can only do it under the guidance of the old man. Under the guidance, I bought various parenting books, followed them, and then sold them. I was afraid that I would wrong my children if I did something wrong. It can be said that I was in a hurry and worked very hard.

As your child grows up, you have to take care of his daily eating, drinking, toileting and sleeping arrangements. You have to make arrangements for transportation to kindergarten and school. You have to take time off to accompany him when he is sick. You have to put a lot of effort into selecting toys, books and paintings. Choose which interest class to sign up for. You have to accompany them to classes during the week and weekends. A large part of your time and energy in life is spent with your children. You can’t delay work. You need to make more money to lay a solid material foundation for your children’s future. .

In short, everything parents do is just for their children to have a happy childhood, receive a good education, and lay a good foundation for their future life. Parents have truly become slaves to their children.

At this time, we can deeply feel that it is not easy to be a parent. Parents have been working silently for the growth of their children. They must make plans and top-level designs for their children's development in their minds, and they must also take actions. Doing all kinds of work, perfectly interpreting the unity of knowledge and action, can be said to be exhausting both physically and mentally.

No matter how hard or tiring it is, parents must straighten their backs and face the sun every day with a strong smile.

3. After experiencing the world, I understand the greatness of my parents better and should be grateful to my parents.

Seeing the children growing up day by day, the parents getting older day by day, we are gradually moving from youth to middle age. , work, family, and life are like three tracks, no one can fall behind, and the pressure is huge.

After nearly half of my life, I have experienced ups and downs, and I can better understand the hardships and greatness of my parents.

At this time, while we are devoting ourselves to raising our children, we must not neglect our love for our parents.

This love is filial piety, gratitude and feedback. It is the precipitation of love after experiencing the world, which is more mellow and intense.

The Japanese Filial Piety Executive Committee compiled a book called "55 Things You Should Do Before Your Parents Die". There is a formula on the cover of the book:

" Suppose your parents are 60 years old now, and their remaining life span is 20 years, and you do not live with your parents, then the number of days you see your parents every year is about 6 days, and the time you spend together is about 11 hours a day. So: "20 years Heartbreaking.

Therefore, filial piety should be fulfilled as early as possible, and do not wait until "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be raised but the relatives do not wait" and then regret it.

People miss their children even more in their old age. When I have time, I often go home and visit. If I have nothing to do, I will call and send a video to chat with my parents to relieve their pain of lovesickness.

Prepare a sumptuous dinner with your parents. The family sits around the table at home, has a wonderful reunion dinner, and enjoys a few drinks with his father. No matter how magnificent the restaurant outside is, it still doesn't have the warm atmosphere of home.

Be a loyal listener. Don’t blame your parents for being nagging. Don’t blame them for their clichés. They are indeed gradually out of touch with the times, but they just want to talk to their children more and recall the bitter or sweet past. Life.

Food and fragrance fill the house, chatting face to face with family and friends, this is the real feeling of home.

4. Conclusion

When people reach middle age, there are seniors and juniors, and "both rain and dew" accompany everyone in the family with high quality, which is the true meaning of life. I have grown up, you are not old yet, I have the ability to make money, you are in good health, the three generations of grandparents and grandchildren are happy, and you can enjoy family happiness. This is the most proud time in life.