Will divorced men regret the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law (six divorced men tell the truth)

I'm from the xi Pavilion in Donglin. If you have a story, come to me.

Cherish marriage, you can't just talk but don't practice, you can't just stay at the cognitive level, you can really cherish it with actions, and you can really cherish it by maintaining marriage through cherish.

Some men never understand this truth, and some men only understand this truth after divorce. It's really sad.

There are not a few men who regret after divorce, and there are not a few who are refused to find their ex-wife after divorce. Such men are doomed to live in regret, because divorce is a lifelong loss for them.

The following six men are men who regret after divorce. Let's listen to their voices:

"My ex-wife is happier than me, only to know that I am wrong!" Divorce taught me that I am not as good as I thought.

I don't know how to cherish my ex-wife around. I have always disliked her and lost my temper with her, thinking that she is not worthy of me. As a result, after my betrayal led to divorce, all the facts proved me wrong.

A woman outside marriage is inferior to her ex-wife. They are not the same identity at all, and there is no comparability at all. My wife is in charge of my marriage, and that woman is just playing along with me, but I foolishly think that a woman outside marriage is more suitable for me.

I thought I could stay with that woman forever after the divorce. I thought I would be better off than my ex-wife, but the opposite is true. After the divorce, that woman fell in love with someone else and left me cruelly. In the end, I became useless.

My ex-wife and I divorced and remarried. After remarriage, she lived happily, and I realized that I was wrong. If I don't divorce her, I should be the one who enjoys happiness with her. I hate myself.

"Losing my ex-wife is the loss of my life!" Many people know that couples in trouble should cherish it, but I am an exception.

When my ex-wife and I were in trouble, I was very grateful to her. She is very enterprising, strong and strong, and always manages our marriage with all her strength. It can be said that she took me to make life better.

I should have cherished such a good wife, but when our life got better, I got carried away and completely forgot how we came all the way. I think if I have money, I should enjoy it and squander it.

I have picked up many bad habits. My ex-wife is still trying to make money, but I spend money without restraint. As a result, we, who had a good life, fell into a trough because of my indiscretion.

I personally destroyed everything my ex-wife created. She was disappointed in me and left me. I'm sorry that we share weal and woe. We were supposed to be happy all the time, and I ruined everything. Losing my ex-wife is the loss of my life!

"Although I have a house and a car, I am not married and have no wife!" A man who puts his career first and always puts his career before his wife is not suitable for marriage, otherwise he will ignore his wife and divorce sooner or later.

I am a living example. I think I value my career and am a model of successful men. As a result, I am always busy after marriage and have no time to accompany my wife.

She wanted me to accompany her, even begged me, but I perfunctory her, saying that I would take time, but I was still as busy as before.

Finally, she divorced me, and I realized I shouldn't be so busy. Actually, I'm not that busy. I can make time for her. I just flaunt myself too much and think that being busy is what men should do.

I'm sorry that she is a good wife. If I wasn't so busy and ignored her, we would be very happy. But now, everything is too late to remedy, she has become someone else's wife. Although I have a house and a car, I am not married and have no wife!

"If a man doesn't cherish his wife, he will be as miserable as me!" Before I married my ex-wife, I never attached importance to marriage, and I never took it seriously. My condition is not good, and it is my own problem that I have never been able to marry a wife. But I never admit it, and I think it doesn't matter if I don't get married.

My ex-wife is the only woman I have ever dated who wants to marry me. I should cherish her. However, after marriage, I still don't take marriage seriously. I feel that marriage is so much. I never wanted to be a good husband and turn a blind eye to her efforts.

I don't cherish losing my marriage and wife. What I took for granted when she was by my side, it was not until after our divorce that I found that I couldn't adapt to life without her, and then I deeply realized how much she had paid for me.

When I realized my problem and went to find her to remarry, she turned me down. She said that she was too disappointed in me and would never have anything to do with me again. If a man doesn't cherish his wife, he will be as miserable as me. Now I regret it.

"My remarried wife can't compare with my ex-wife!" For me, my ex-wife is the best person to be a wife, because she can recognize my shortcomings and know how to guide me to change.

Sadly, I don't appreciate it. I always think she wants to hurt me. I always thought she was looking for trouble. In fact, she wants to change my present situation and our marriage. But I am content with the status quo, unwilling to change and refusing to change.

The more she asks me, the angrier I get. I didn't think we were suitable, so I asked her for a divorce. At that time, I was very optimistic, thinking that my remarried wife would be 1000 times and 10000 times better than her.

It turns out that I was wrong. Without her, I would never have married such a good wife.

Before I married my present wife, I went on blind dates many times and I was not satisfied. When dating your current wife, you can only say that it is better. I married her because I don't want to go on blind dates anymore.

I thought it would be nice to marry my present wife, but it was obviously much worse than my ex-wife after marriage. She has no ex-wife responsibility and doesn't value me. I really regret divorcing my ex-wife.

"I shouldn't have let my mother interfere in our marriage!" Only after the divorce did I know that if a man ignores his wife's feelings when dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if he always favors his mother, it will disappoint his wife and lead to divorce, as my ex-wife and I did.

My ex-wife is a good wife, but I am not a good husband. Before we got married, I promised to protect her, not to allow anyone to bully her, and vowed to be a good husband, but after we got married, I broke my word.

Because I always think about my mother, always accuse her of disrespecting her, always let my mother get involved in our marriage, and my mother bullied her and didn't help her, which eventually led to her being isolated and impatient to divorce me.

When I got divorced, I thought she was unreasonable. But I soon realized that it wasn't her problem. Everything is my problem. This is my mother's problem. I forced her to divorce in disguise.

I don't know where she went after the divorce. I can't reach her. I didn't have a chance to apologize to her, let alone ask her to remarry. I regret it. I shouldn't have let my mother get involved in our marriage. I shouldn't break my promise. I feel sorry for my ex-wife.

? It's not just these six men who regret after divorce. Although the six of them have different reasons for divorce, they all feel the same after divorce. They all regret their divorce and miss their ex-wives.

Judging from the sound they express, it is worthy of sympathy. But considering the reasons for their divorce and what they did to their ex-wife, it is not so sympathetic. After all, it was their own problems that led to the divorce. Of course, they have to taste the consequences themselves.

Other men should take a warning:

If your marriage is still alive, I hope you can learn from the above six cases and don't follow their old path, otherwise it will be too late for you to regret it.

Every man should undertake the obligation of being a "good husband" after marriage, and should demand himself with this goal. Don't indulge your mistakes, don't hurt your wife, don't force your wife to divorce, let yourself be a person who cherishes marriage, so as to firmly grasp your marriage and not regret it after divorce. (Text/Donglin xi Pavilion, if you have a story, come to me)