I am eight months pregnant and have been taking care of myself. No one has ever been to my husband’s house. Is there anything similar?

After reading a lot of comments, let me tell you what I think!

First of all, why do you want to have a baby?

If you feel that you have wronged yourself by giving life to others, then you don’t have to give birth.

Secondly, whose child are you giving birth to?

If you are a surrogate mother, the child you give birth to is not your own. It's just to earn money to support your husband's family, I hope you refuse.

Finally, I want to say: Because someone likes you, you feel that that person owes you, and everything is as it should be. This is called "arrogance based on favor". Eventually no one likes you anymore and no one wants to help you.

Children are your own offspring and the joy and hope of your life. That child calls you "Mom", and you are the person he or she loves the most and is grateful for.

In a similar situation, I worked all the time when I was pregnant until I started taking leave half a month before giving birth. I was alone for more than 6 months. My husband and I didn’t work in the same place. At that time, his job was still I was very busy. I had a very severe reaction during the first trimester of pregnancy. It was like suffering from anorexia. The whole pregnancy process was quite difficult. I lost 15 pounds in less than a month. I was so thin that I couldn’t even walk with my back straight. I was pregnant during pregnancy. I have stage 1 diabetes and need to control my diet and take more walks. These are all done by myself because my husband lives in the Northeast. Considering that my mother-in-law is here and I am not familiar with her place of birth and I am still working, he may not be used to it, so I didn’t let her I came here, and it wasn’t until my skin suddenly developed pityriasis rosea and the Spring Festival was approaching that I asked my mother-in-law to come over and take care of me. Personally, I feel that before becoming a mother, you must first make yourself mentally strong. Pregnancy is just the beginning of life. After the baby is born, raising a baby requires energy and a strong heart. Only when you realize that the most important thing is to be strong can you cope with all kinds of things. Unplanned uncontrollable factors, now I am back to raising my baby alone, which feels pretty good, because no matter what the external environment is, the mother will always be the strongest support and the warmest harbor for the child. As a mother, you must always Pass on positive energy to your children. I hope that all mothers who are not fighting alone can be stronger and think about raising their children independently, so that they can provide her with the highest quality companionship and a parent-child relationship that cannot be replaced by others.

Answer: It’s completely normal!

1. Not to mention pregnancy, giving birth, taking children to work, and running forward are all self-reliance.

2. I was in pain all night, so I insisted on attending two classes and waiting for the substitute teacher.

3. The educated youth had no money, and the baby was born in the canteen of the production team. Soon, I got up to do personal hygiene.

4. Forty-five days later, I took my child to school. I put the baby in the dormitory. After class, I sprinted 100 meters. When I saw the baby, he turned to breast milk and his face was completely white.

5. My husband is in another middle school, five miles away, and comes on "duty" every Wednesday night. My dear, I can tell from your tone that you seem a little dissatisfied. In fact, eight months is not the time when you have to take care of me. Everything has its pros and cons. Let me analyze it for you:

1. Pregnancy care depends on the specific situation. Basically, you have the money to pay and the ability to contribute, but in the end it still needs to be negotiated and resolved by the couple, because both parents have their own circumstances and understand each other. Based on my actual experience, my mother-in-law came within a week of the expected delivery.

Second, see if you really can’t come to your mother-in-law’s house or if you don’t want to come. It would be best if you can come. If you don’t come, we can take care of ourselves for the time being. The couple will be more harmonious together and have a calm mind.

Third, it is best to let your mother come during postpartum confinement. First, your mother understands your appetite better. Second, you are prone to depression after delivery. Your mother will be in a good mood and it will be easier to communicate.

Fourth, considering that you are now eight months old, I would like to give you some suggestions:

1. Remember to go for physical examinations on time. After 8 months, you will have physical examinations every two weeks;

2. The weight will increase rapidly. Pay attention to good nutrition and do not deliberately overeat, especially foods containing high sugar. Eat less or no food. It will be troublesome if the sugar cannot be filtered out.

3. Maintaining a happy mood and exercising appropriately can help prevent dystocia.

4. Start preparing the items in the maternity and childbirth bag. By the way, ask if the hospital where you are expecting to give birth has any. Try to buy the ones from the hospital. First, it is safe and hygienic, and more importantly, it will be nice to you when you give birth.

5. Do a good job of prenatal self-monitoring, observe the baby's heartbeat and other conditions at any time, and begin to understand the signs of labor, so as to avoid temporary premeditation.

Finally, I wish my dear to have a healthy and happy baby!

I am Xiao Qingzi’s hot mother, welcome to you all!

Having a child is a matter between husband and wife. As long as your parents-in-law take care of it, you still need them to get money and serve three meals a day. I think you regard having a child as a great career. Having children is a human instinct, not a special skill. Do it on your own, don’t give up if you don’t have the ability to do it independently. You will scold me when you are born, and your parents-in-law did not raise the child with you. Now the parents-in-law are sinners. When he was young, he was criticized by his mother-in-law, and when he was old, he was scolded and condemned by his daughter-in-law. Everyone will grow old, and the parents-in-law also have children independently. The topic is not personal, but discusses the weird conditions of today's society.

My parents-in-law have never taken care of my two children. From birth to raising, we have taken care of it ourselves. Now that we don’t need them, it’s best not to take care of them forever. It’s not bad to be a distant relative [cover face][cover face][ Face covering]

If I don’t live with my parents-in-law, do I need my mother-in-law to come when I’m pregnant? Let the mother-in-law abandon her husband and home to take care of her pregnant daughter-in-law? Do I need someone to take care of me during pregnancy? Can't you take care of yourself yet?

Don’t say such things, strengthen yourself and love yourself! It seems that my husband's family owes you. Yes, I ran around before and after my wife gave birth, as if it was Yina! She also takes care of herself, life is like a glass of wine, with all the ups and downs, put yourself in her shoes!

What’s wrong with modern young people? Isn't it normal to be pregnant and have a baby? Why are you so pretentious as if you are disabled? Could it be that the baby was born to your in-laws? If you are older, it is the reproduction of human beings, if you are younger, it is the crystallization of love. If your health is not good enough, the elders of both parties can negotiate and whoever is more convenient can take care of it. If you are in good health, you can take care of yourself. I really feel that similar problems I'm mentally retarded

That's what I am

I worked until I was nine months pregnant, and my husband and I rented a house in the city. In the last month, I went back to my parents' home because my parents divorced. The hospital is relatively close, but my husband's house is too remote.

In the first nine months, I basically didn’t eat anything to replenish my body. I ate an egg, a glass of milk, and a corn for breakfast every day, which was very nutritious. Occasionally, my husband would make soup on weekends or go out to eat delicious food. . I live on the eighth floor and there is no elevator, so it’s a bit hard to go up and down the stairs every day. Then I take the subway two stops to the company every day. In order to avoid the morning rush hour, I usually go out early and get on the subway before eight o’clock. seat.

I have to eat breakfast before I go out to work on the subway. Because I went out on an empty stomach when I was four months pregnant. As a result, the air circulation on the subway was not good, and I encountered hypoglycemia. I felt light-headed and fainted. From now on, my husband will take the subway with me to take me to the company and then go to work.

Our company has a cafeteria that serves breakfast, lunch and dinner. I already had breakfast at home, so I only ate lunch and dinner in the cafeteria. In the first three months, I felt sick whenever I smelled violations in the cafeteria. So I basically cook at home and take it to the company to eat. I don’t know much about cooking. I cook some multi-grain rice and red bean soup every day. I ask my colleagues to pack some meat and vegetables in the canteen and eat them in the conference room. The first three thoughts Month is the hardest.

After seven months, my belly was getting bigger and bigger. In order to control my weight, I went to the sports park for a walk every night after work. I walked about three kilometers. Then I went home to do prenatal care, listen to music and read books.

Pregnancy has also gone through this. Looking back, it is very hard, but what can I do? You have to be responsible for yourself and cannot expect others. Just live your own life and don’t expect too much.

The other thing is to give full play to the role of your husband, and don’t do things yourself that your husband can do. After all, she is a princess for these 10 months.