A letter to my husband who works in Luqiao

A letter to my husband who works in Luqiao

There is Jurong Guozhuang Station

Guozhuang’s “three in place” measures quickly completed the Nanjing-Hangzhou high-speed railway Land acquisition and demolition work

The Guozhuang section of the newly-built Nanjing-Hangzhou high-speed railway is 7.78 kilometers long. Land acquisition and demolition involves four villages: Chaoyang, Jingdai, Kongtang, and Jiashan. The land acquisition area is 398.6 acres, and 96 households have their houses demolished. In order to promote the construction of the Nanjing-Hangzhou high-speed railway quickly, steadily and orderly, Guozhuang Town successfully completed the land acquisition and demolition of the Guozhuang section of the Nanjing-Hangzhou high-speed railway in just 20 days: First, the organization and leadership were in place. The town *** established the Nanjing-Hangzhou High-Speed ??Railway Land Acquisition and Demolition Headquarters, and dispatched more than 80 government officials to form two working groups to carry out work on the front lines of land acquisition and demolition. The second is to launch publicity in place. A special mobilization meeting for land acquisition and demolition of the Nanjing-Hangzhou High-Speed ??Railway was held, and the significance, policies and requirements of land acquisition and demolition were widely publicized through town cable television, land acquisition and demolition announcements, and a letter to the households affected by land acquisition and demolition. The third is to implement policies in place. On the one hand, we strictly follow the provisions of the municipal headquarters' land acquisition compensation and resettlement measures and house demolition implementation measures, implement them item by item, and provide full compensation in accordance with the law; on the other hand, we insist on humane land acquisition and demolition, patiently and meticulously do mass work, put ourselves in the shoes of the masses, Give the people the greatest benefits and effectively protect the interests of the people.

Due to the implementation of various measures in Guozhuang Town, the land acquisition and demolition tasks were completed ahead of schedule, laying the foundation for the early start of construction of the Nanjing-Hangzhou high-speed railway.

(Guozhuang Land and Resources Institute) A letter to the father who works on the ship

I am just accompanying you in your life - child, who are you studying for?

Child:

As I write this letter, you are asleep. I don't know if you had a sweet dream, but looking at your tired look, I couldn't fall asleep for a long time. Entering the third year of junior high school, I can clearly feel that your academic load has become heavier. Various fragments of your study and life appear in front of my eyes one by one like a movie: you write your homework quickly while saying to me: "so tired"; you yawn while hurriedly getting up and getting dressed to study. The class is in class; you are rubbing your sleepy eyes while standing up with difficulty to do the test paper...

It seems that this is something that often happens in books. Fathers or mothers write a letter to their children, those Letters are often very touching. I'm not sure I can write such touching words, but I think: Whether they are famous writers, illiterate old farmers, or ordinary people like us, parents' love for their children is equally selfless. of. So I turned on the lamp, sat at the table and started writing this letter to you.

Your results in this exam are really not ideal. I wonder how you feel after reading the transcript? Maybe you will say: "In today's society, knowledge cannot determine destiny. For a successful life, habits, thinking and abilities are more important than knowledge." My child, you are right. Dad also believes that direction is more important than hard work, ability is more important than knowledge, health is more important than grades, life is more important than diplomas, and EQ is more important than IQ. Especially today when universities are popularized (essentially the proliferation of universities), academic qualifications are not the most important, but I have to tell you - although many accomplished people have not received a lot of education, it does not mean that they do not study hard. , you will definitely succeed. The knowledge you learn is the weapon you should have. People can start from scratch, but they cannot be unarmed. Without learning, how many chances do you have to develop good habits? What conditions do you have to form your thinking and abilities? Please remember: the real elite is not a genius, but someone who puts in more effort.

Regarding your future, I admit that many times your parents are a little anxious and always feel that you can go further. There is inevitably a bit of bossiness in the tone. In fact, I also hate this tone very much. Dad said to you: I'm sorry, I must correct it. There’s a question I haven’t asked you in a long time – who are you reading for? I don’t know what your answer will be, and I don’t know what I would say if I heard your answer. But I understand that this is a problem we can never avoid.

In fact, mom and dad don’t want to train you according to our wishes, because we know deeply that the road in the future is always your own, and no one else, including mom and dad, can take your place. Just like a pair of shoes, only your feet know whether it fits you or not. , so we are happy to see you make a choice based on your interests, hobbies, talents and abilities. However, to this day, we have not seen what your choice was. At the critical moment, you are still careless and hesitant, with no clear way forward. This cannot help but make us deeply worried, and this is also the crux of our real worry.

I once read an article in which a teacher told his students a story "Where Are the Groundhogs?" I would like to listen to it again with you today:

< p> A long time ago, there were three hunting dogs chasing a woodchuck, and the woodchuck got into a tree hole. This tree hole has only one exit, but after a while, a little pig actually came out of the tree hole. The little pig ran forward quickly and climbed up another big tree. The hunting dogs rushed over in a hurry, but the piglet hid in the tree. In his haste, he lost his balance and fell down, knocking out the three hunting dogs who were looking up. Finally, the piglet escaped. The hunting dogs were busy all day, but found nothing.

After finishing the story, the teacher asked: "Is there any problem with this story?"

The student said: "The piglet can't climb the tree; also, it is impossible for a piglet to climb a tree." Knock out three hunting dogs at the same time. Besides, how can the pig outrun the hunting dogs?”

“What else?” the teacher continued to ask.

It wasn’t until the students could find no more questions that the teacher said: "Students, there is another question that none of you have mentioned - where did the groundhog go?" Yes, the groundhog Where did it go? The teacher's words suddenly drew the students' thoughts to the target pursued by the hounds - the groundhog.

Child, what did you discover from this story? Where did the groundhog go? Because of the sudden appearance of the piglet, the attention of the students and the hunting dog was unknowingly distracted, and the groundhog disappeared from their minds. In the process of pursuing goals, we are often distracted by the minutiae, inexplicable temptations and some meaningless trivial matters that appear on the way. We may even give up on the goals we originally pursued in panic, resulting in nothing being accomplished in the end. In the journey of life, never forget to remind yourself: Where did the groundhog go? Where has the goal in your heart gone? To a blind ship, all winds are headwind. Everyone is inert, and only ambitious goals can expel as much of this inertia from our bodies and unleash our potential. Children, have you ever thought about what your own goals are?

However, I must remind you that setting goals is just the beginning. We need to have lofty ideals, but we must also act within our capabilities, otherwise goals that are too high will only become a mirage, and truly lofty ideals cannot be achieved overnight. We found that many people were touched after reading celebrity biographies or inspirational books, and felt that they could not live a mediocre life, and determined to make a difference, to become writers, medical scientists, etc. In the first few days, I felt enthusiastic and high-spirited, but after working hard for a while, I felt that the tiger was eating the sky and had no way to eat, and the ideal was still elusive. Then I gradually felt tired, and even began to doubt my ability: Am I that piece of material? The mentality of laziness followed, and I felt that the classmates around me were not paying attention in class. After class, they talked about TV and celebrities. The days were ordinary, but it was very nourishing. Why did I have to live so tiredly? As a result, ideals and goals are abandoned behind the mind, and we indulge in a state of muddling through. Sometimes when I see other people's grades improving by leaps and bounds and trying to get the best of them, I can't help but feel a little sour in my heart, but then I laugh at myself: "I'm not that material..." I don't want you to be one of them, and I know you don't want it either.

Let’s calm down and think about it. These people do not lack lofty ideals and goals, and they have also worked hard for lofty ideals and goals. But in the end they fell into mediocrity and failed. What's the problem? In fact, the reason is very simple. They have not formulated their own steps towards their ideals. If the big goal is broken down into specific small goals and achieved one by one in stages, we can taste the joy of achieving great things, and then generate greater motivation to achieve the goals of the next stage. A building is made of bricks and tiles, and each brick and tile itself is not very important.

But without them, how can tall buildings be built?

Do you often hear voices like this in school: "This question is too difficult. It is impossible for me to solve it." "So-and-so won the first-class scholarship again. He is really a genius. . My brain... Haha, forget it. We are not that material, so it is useless to think about it." In fact, what they really mean is: "I am not that kind of person, so I don't have to work so hard." These people are not strong-willed enough and lack confidence in themselves. What is even more disappointing is that they are still looking for excuses for their cowardice in exchange for peace of mind, which ultimately leads to soul numbness. They believe that some people have always been the darlings of fate and are invincible in life, career, and studies. And I am not this kind of person, so I am destined not to succeed, so why should I look for trouble?

However, any successful person has to walk an uneven road. It is impossible for people to always be in good times. Sometimes when we are studying, we may have bad days, weeks, or even years. People without perseverance are dejected; but a person with ambition will pursue his ideals unswervingly, no matter whether the front is a gloomy swamp or a dark forest. Because he knew that this was the only way. Perseverance does not mean sticking to one thing forever, but doing the thing in front of you wholeheartedly and gradually getting closer to your ideal. Ask about hard work first, then ask about harvest. Start with trivial things, get up earlier than others every day, do more questions than others, and always look for ways to improve efficiency. Geniuses may not necessarily succeed, and the smartest people may not always be happy. But only those who study diligently and persevere, are unswerving in the face of difficulties, and do not relax in the face of good times can become the final winner.

Dad likes this metaphor very much: life is like being on a circular track. Sometimes you are in front of others, and sometimes others are in front of you. Momentary sequence, success or failure, winning or losing are not that important. As long as you stay on this track, no one knows what the final result will be. Boy, wait a little longer when you're desperate.

I also want to share a story with you:

An old woman planted a large field of corn behind the house. Autumn is here, and the cornfields are golden. A corn with full kernels said: "On the day of harvest, the old lady must pick me first, because I am the corn that grows best this year!"

But on the day of harvest, the old lady did not pick it away.

"Tomorrow, tomorrow she will pick me off!" The plump corn comforted itself.

The next day, the old woman collected other corns, but she did not pick this corn.

"Tomorrow, the old lady will definitely pick me off!" It still comforted itself.

But from then on, the old lady never came again.

Until one day, the corn was in despair, and the originally plump kernels became shriveled and hard.

But just then, the old woman came and picked it and said, "This is the best corn this year. If you use it as seeds, you will definitely be able to grow better corn next year!"

Child, I don’t know how you will feel after reading this story. The law of the arena is that whoever is brave and who can persist to the end is the winner. Success is not easy to come by. We will inevitably fail, but don't be discouraged. Success is often hiding around the corner. It only requires you to persist for a while - when others give up, you still persevere.

We can often hear voices like this around us: "If I had studied hard when I was in the first year of junior high school, I would have been among the top few by now. But now I am already in the third year of junior high school, and I only have one semester to take exams. , No matter how hard you try, it’s useless. Forget it..." It’s a pity that a good ambition has been dissipated like this. Although action may not necessarily bring about satisfactory results, if action is not taken, there will definitely be no satisfactory results at all. As the saying goes, "it's not too late to make up for it before it's too late." When you realize your shortcomings and want to make up for it, or you have a brilliant idea, never say it's too late. The key is to act immediately and implement your idea. .

A man who was 40 years old said to a friend one day: "I want to study medicine, but after I finish studying, I will be 44 years old."

The friend said: "But what if If you don’t learn, you will still be 44 years old in 4 years.

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Yes, even if you don’t act, time will still pass by ruthlessly and will not stop for a moment. So, why not work hard and make achievements during this time? Because no matter how good the idea is , Unless you practice it, you will never gain anything. For an ambitious person, procrastination is the most destructive and dangerous habit. It will make people lose their motivation to exercise. But in the morning, I lay in a warm bed and refused to get up. A humorist once said: "The biggest difficulty every day is to leave the bed and walk to the cold streets. "He said it right. When you lie in bed and think that getting up is an unpleasant thing, then it really becomes a difficult thing. Procrastination will also bring about a problem, that is, once you procrastinate, you will It is easy to procrastinate again until it becomes a deep-rooted bad habit. The homework that needs to be completed today is not completed before get out of class is over, so I tell myself that it is not too late to do it tomorrow, but there are still unfinished homeworks tomorrow. More and more, people eventually lose interest and lose the courage to complete. The result is to delay again, which creates a vicious circle. The only way to solve this problem is to act immediately. How many homeworks have been piled up now? Complete them one by one. Children, you must understand that it is not because we dare not do things, but because we dare not do them.

As your child grows older, you will find many problems that your parents don’t understand. The images of your parents are not as tall and omnipotent as they were in your eyes when you were a child. I think I will feel disappointed about this, but at the same time I You will also be very happy, because you have grown up, and growth is an irreversible process. My child, the sun shines brightly because of its own inner passion, rather than reflecting external light, and we are just accompanying you in your life. Your life is only in your own hands. We will forget what we hear, and we will not remember what we see. Only what you do is your own - you will become the person you want to be. , unless you don’t want to. How to write a letter to your husband in prison

Hello, husband!

Say more comforting words, and then tell him how you have been. How about it? Let him take care of himself in there, and I’ll go see him when I’m free to visit the prison...

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Judging from your question, you have a lot of reluctance in your heart, so you can express all the reluctance in your heart and let him know that you will care about him and miss him. He can write some of your beautiful days, and you can also write some thoughts about looking forward to a better future, so that he will think of you and be full of motivation when he is working hard outside.

I wish you a happy life. A letter from my troublemaking husband

Let me give you a real example. My brother is now 37 years old. He has been drinking since childhood. Now he is suffering from alcoholism. Every time he drinks, he is the biggest victim. It’s my sister-in-law. She keeps making troubles after drinking. She not only throws things, but also gets angry and beats people. She often beats my sister-in-law. But what can a woman do? The child is so old. She also considers the whole family, so she can only keep suffering. , for more than 10 years. . . The Spring Festival is the most eventful time every year. . . well. . . You should think about it carefully. . . He had sex after drinking, I hope he can change it. . . A letter to my husband who is currently ill

Dear Husband:

We are together not because of compromise, not because of the body, not because of money. We are together for a very simple reason: we love each other and want to spend days and nights together.

Marry you and be your wife. Even if you are not a rich man, in my eyes, by marrying you, I will be the richest bride in the world. Because you gave me love that no one else can replace. And after getting married, in my eyes, I am still the richest woman in the world.

Even if you only give me a small house with one bedroom and one living room, or rent a house, being able to stay with you, watching TV and whispering, can allow me to lie in your arms when I am sleepy, with someone there. It feels like a resting haven is enough. As long as you are there, it won’t be a problem anywhere.

When I wake up every morning, the first thing I see is you. After a brief intimacy, I get up, wash up, make breakfast, and run to the outside world with a good mood. After work, you may wander outside casually, or buy groceries and go home, cook some side dishes, turn on the warm lights, finish your meal, go for a walk, chat about your worries, and relieve the stress of the day's work. Then read a book, watch TV, surf the Internet, or listen to music. A plain yet exciting life.

Just go and do your job, and I will do my best to support you and take on my share of the housework. I will occasionally ask you to go to the kitchen, do laundry, etc.

I would never ask the question "Who would you save if your mother and I fell into the water at the same time?" I will treat your parents like my own parents, because I know that without them, I would not have you, nor would I be as happy as I am today. I will be very, very good to ***. Even if she is an unreasonable old man, I will try my best to accommodate her, because I know that you will sympathize with my grievances. But I also hope that you can often accompany me home to see my parents, so that they can feel at ease about my life!

I hope that we have the same friends and have our own independent circle of friends. . I won't completely disrupt your life circle. There is no need for you to turn down all unnecessary entertainment and go home early. Although I will be lonely at home, I know that you will be even more lonely if you turn down all appointments and stay with me at home. I will give you freedom, because falling in love with you means accepting everything about you. If you take me into your circle, I promise you that I will not act like a tigress in front of your friends. In front of your friends, I will give you enough face! Let you become the happiest man!

You can be chauvinistic, because I am not a feminist. In some aspects, I do not believe and do not want equality between men and women. Men should still act like men. But the premise is mutual respect. You can be weak and childish from time to time, but I will cherish you and love you. Men also have a vulnerable side, which I understand and accept.

You don’t need to be so tall and powerful, and your arms don’t need to be so strong, you can hold me in your arms when I wake up from my dream in the middle of the night. When I am sad, you will hug me silently and let me cry in your arms. You don't need to have a huge income, and I won't put any financial pressure on you. I will hold on to this piece of my life, and I am willing to fight with you for our future happiness.

But you must have a broad mind and be able to tolerate me, because I can be willful occasionally, I am also immature, and sometimes I can act unreasonably like a child.

But you must be dedicated and loyal. You can only have me in your heart, because there is no room for sand in my eyes.

If one day, you no longer have sex and want to find another new sky for yourself, please tell me and I will accept it. Even if there are tears in my eyes, I will still look after you. It drips after passing by. Even if you are extremely reluctant to give up, if you are not happy with me, I will not be happy either. So I would rather bear the pain alone than suffer together.

I know that I am just an ordinary woman in this world. What I am looking forward to is a simple and beautiful love. I am looking forward to someone who can make me completely trust me and let me give myself completely. I believe that I can live this life well without you. But only your company can make my life complete and perfect!

The Buddha said: Looking back five hundred times in the past life is the only way to pass it by in this life. I don’t know that in the previous life, I or you prayed to the Buddha for thousands of years in exchange for the encounter, acquaintance, mutual understanding and love in this life, so I will cherish everything between us. Hold your hand and grow old together!

Husband:

Slowly, my thoughts start to wander. I don’t know why? It seems that I have become so confused recently, as if I was lost in a white fog! Lost my sense of security! My heart is filled with uncertainty. I always stare out the window for a long time, thinking about something! Even I don't know. Why do people always have so many emotions? Why do I have to have so many emotions? Have I become too sensitive? Are you so sensitive that you shut down everything around you? Or are you becoming more sentimental? I really don't know anymore.

The salty liquid flows into the mouth, coming from the eyes, and tastes like desert.

According to legend, there is a kind of footless bird that flies through the forest. Because it has no feet, it has to fly constantly. When it is tired, it can only rest in the wind. A bird without legs can only land once in its life, and that's when it dies. Human love is like a bird without legs. Although you can love many times, there is only one person you can love the most and hurt you the most.

I try my best to blend into your life so that you can feel my breath. I never have the heart to refuse your request, although you never ask me to change anything for you. .

I am used to falling asleep thinking of you, and I also hope that the first person I think of when I wake up in the morning is you. I hope I stay asleep and don’t wake up. It is very heartbreaking to wake up and miss you. We are not in the same city, but it feels like we have not seen each other for one day, and I am worried about you. Although I once promised you not to think too much, in fact, this is just self-comfort. How could I not care? It may be too early to say marriage, but I really want to be with you for the rest of my life. I love you and care for you with all my heart. I don’t know what else I can do.

I have always wanted you in my heart to smile and be happy every day. Everything about you is deeply loaded into my life. I want to treasure the deepest and softest place in my heart. lifetime. I know that when you leave, I will lose the ability to love, and all the pain and joy related to love in the years to come will be memories of being with you. Maybe, only the memory is left. During the time we have been together, I have come to realize more and more deeply that I love you so much that it exceeds the load of my life. Although you never said "I love you" to me and didn't send me roses, I wouldn't mind. What I want most is your care for me and your sincerity.

For you, I have learned how to be a good future wife. I also understand how to change my bad shortcomings.

During the Spring Festival, I was wandering in the painful "Should I leave you quietly?" Every time I wanted to say: my heart hurts so much. Why? Why can't I feel your love and care for me all this time? Why can't I feel it at all? Am I asking too much, or am I asking too much? When my love for you is too deep, when I can't feel that you care about me, I choose to give up. I know that leaving you will make my heart hurt, and I will use time to heal myself. Maybe you will understand in the near future, when you find her whom you love very much, when you treat her well, I believe you will understand everything I want.

Husband, I love you, I really love you, but I’m tired. I’m sorry. By the time you understand, my heart has been closed and numb for you. . . . . .

Husband, you should work hard, eat on time, go to bed on time after get off work, smoke less, eat less barbecue (don’t drink Coke when eating) ``` ``No matter where I am, I will pray for you silently, and I will remember you deeply, and those of us who prayed for our love in the temple.

You must get well soon,

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This is what you said to your husband, not what we said to your husband. If we tell your husband for you, then what's the point? It's better not to say it. So we can only provide you with some suggestions, such as: write down your thoughts and feelings about your husband. Write out your thoughts from within, don't hide them, and there should be no secrets between husband and wife.