What do you think of "the bride price is 300 thousand, and the dowry of the daughter-in-law is so small, which is a big loss"

Two people with different family backgrounds can be together, but they can't always enter his family, because this has long been a deep-rooted concept of boyfriend and mother. No matter how I behave, no matter how hard I try, I am always looked down upon by my mother-in-law. As I have no position at home, I really can't stand such a mother-in-law

My family has never been very good, and my mother has always been ill. Although my father has been trying to earn money, after all, the pressure is too great to change the living environment of our family. Boyfriend's family condition is very good, both parents are in business, and he can be regarded as a successful person with some achievements.

My boyfriend and I can be together, and others think it's a highs. I have always been self-disciplined, and I feel unworthy of my boyfriend. I am afraid that one day my boyfriend will break up with me because of my family background. But my boyfriend didn't. Instead, it has been comforting me, relaxing me and getting better and better for me.

However, my boyfriend's mother is a very realistic person. She has always believed that her son should marry a girl with the same conditions around him, so as to be worthy of the conditions of their family. Moreover, she felt that her son's being with me was not good for their family at all, but she felt ashamed.

So I have been persuading my boyfriend to break up with me, bluntly saying that he doesn't like me. When my boyfriend took me to his house, he also showed me a dislike attitude and thought I was the kind of person who loves vanity.

Seeing his son is actually seeing their money. I am very wronged and don't know what to do. At this time, my boyfriend stood up for me and told him firmly that my mother would definitely marry me.

When we got married, at the request of my boyfriend, their family gave 300 thousand bride price, but my family's conditions were limited and there was too little dowry to take out. I got it all. Give me 50,000 yuan. I know it's not easy for my family to come up with this 50 thousand yuan After all, our family's situation is quite special, and our financial resources are too thin.

I also know that I paid less, so all the 300 thousand of the bride price was used to buy a house. My parents worked hard to support me all my life. Although I am not very rich, I didn't leave a penny. I know they are also worried that our family has paid too little. After I get married, I will definitely have no family status or even the right to speak.

Moreover, I also volunteered to ask the new house not to write my name. I wanted to show my sincerity and let my mother-in-law know that my boyfriend and I really love each other. I'm not here to take their assets.

Because of the dowry, my mother-in-law who has problems with me looks down on me even more. Inadvertently, I heard my mother-in-law complain to her husband: "The bride price is 300,000, and the dowry of the daughter-in-law is so small. The loss is big! "

My husband knows that I have tried my best, and I have done everything first. I should feel wronged at all, so he spoke for me and told my mother-in-law that I didn't want the name of the house, which was already my retrogression.

But my mother-in-law still doesn't understand, and she feels that her family has suffered a big loss. I don't know why my mother-in-law has been haggling over her son's marriage. Although our family is poor, my parents still try their best to pay so much for our marriage, and my mother-in-law is actually thinking about how to take advantage and maximize benefits.