Understanding sentence: the potato pulling the cart is not as good as the night pearl.

Don't feel sorry for small grievances, life is doomed to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. Make your life extremely colorful, don't care too much about grievances, and don't let grievances tighten your heart and disturb your life. You should learn to laugh it off, stay out of it and learn to transform potential energy. The wise know how to forbear, forgive the people around us, and make us stronger through tolerance.

1, sometimes people are so strange that they don't say a word when they are wronged by heaven and cry when they hear comfort.

Some people will take it for granted that you have always been good to him, and suddenly your attitude towards him will change immediately. It is an obligation to help you in this kind of thing, and it is also an obligation not to help you. Nobody owes you anything. I only know that people who ask for it don't deserve real friends.

3, friendship, playing well is a small age, playing well is a biography. People, with a dream of red mansions, live in the water margin world. They want to make friends with the Taoyuan brothers in the Three Kingdoms, but they always meet monsters in the Journey to the West. Don't say how many people you know, first look at how many people know you when you are in trouble. Eating and drinking together every day may not help you, my friend. What matters is quality, not quantity. Potatoes are not as good as night pearls.

4. Every age has different troubles at every age. Don't try to escape, pretend to be young or pretend to be old. These troubles are the gifts of life. Only when you have experienced and faced it can you leave a aftertaste and accumulation.

Kindness is an advantage, but it can't be your weakness. People in this world are willing to approach a good person who can help them without any reason, just by saying thank you. If you are more kind, you will become weak. If they thank you more, it will be a matter of course. Once one day you know to refuse, they will be disappointed. To be a man, you should have your own temper and a proper high profile. The so-called tenderness depends on who you use it on.

6. It doesn't matter how many resources you have. If you don't know how to use them, it will never be enough.

7. A person's face tells more interesting things than a person's mouth, because the mouth only tells people's thoughts, while the face tells the essence of thoughts.

8. The real letting go is probably: you won't delete his chat record, and you won't blacklist him. You let him lie in the address book and never bother to open it again. He is like the pen you dropped on the bed, and the water you spilled in the subway station. If you decide not to do this, you will never think of it again. The traces he left are like the dust sewn on the sofa at home and the stains on the range hood. You don't specialize in cleaning either, so you can clean it when you are in a good mood.

9. The most traveled road is definitely the safest, but don't expect to meet many prey on this road. Sometimes life is not easy, it depends on which way you choose to take!

10, you must enjoy your company. The advantage is that you don't have to distort yourself to obey others or please others.

1 1. At that time, when I was young, someone said that they loved you and blushed, as if they didn't hear me. Later, when you grow up, when someone says they love you, you will be a joke. Later, I met more and more people, and the lovers around me changed again and again. Love has become a mantra. Can't say it's not important, but it seems to be like that. It suddenly occurred to me that I was flushed in the past, too, and I realized that love should be like this.

12. If you really don't know what to do in the future, then do the immediate thing first. As long as today is better than yesterday, it is progress. In the long run, time will naturally give you an unexpected future.

13, everyone is actually working hard, but the number of good luck places is limited.

14, I avoid too warm friendship when I have nothing to do, which makes me less burdened and committed. I don't talk much about unnecessary gossip, which makes me feel relaxed. I try not to recall the past, because there is no turning back when I come. I love others carefully, because it won't flood. I can cry if I like, smile happily, as long as it all comes from nature. Not deep, but simple.

15, living a lifetime is often, in the most interesting time, boring, in the most boring time, trying to have an interesting result is no longer boring.

16, never think that we can escape, our every step determines the final outcome, and our feet are moving towards our chosen destination.

17, give each trouble a period of time, try your best to solve it within a limited time, and please return the rest to yourself.

18, you are an adult, you should be sensible, and you can't have a cold war with your relatives, friends and lovers just because your fart is big and small. No matter whose fault it is, you should take the initiative to put on a soothing attitude and stop calling me such a person. I can't change my character! Narrowness and bad temper can't be packaged and spread like this. You have to believe that you can be the one who takes the initiative to dissolve the ice, and your actions will make yourself and each other get rid of embarrassment and get warm.

19, cherish and always understand, after regret, regret will never go before understanding and cherishing.

20. I have been worried for a long time and my heart is empty.

2 1, life is like this: in the same position, some people cry, some people laugh and some people are silent.

22. It seems that there will always be explosive growth, explosive understanding and explosive knowledge of a certain truth in a certain year, which makes the originally meaningless time scale become a dividing line.

23. Others think you are impatient, aggressive, impulsive, pushy, smart and have a rigid relationship with some people. True friends think that this is nothing more than frankness, positivity, boldness, sense of honor, high IQ and hatred. True friends are not blinded by friendship, but because they can see the scenery from your point of view and the world through your eyes.

24. The hardest thing in life is not to work hard or struggle, but to make the right choice.

25, don't be confused, don't fall in love. Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past. Okay, then. Deep thinking, deep friendship, deep understanding of meaning, deep understanding of details, has been, quiet and comfortable. Kindness and generosity, kindness and kindness, kindness and generosity, professionalism is the best. Be worthy of heaven, land, people and ghosts. This is life.

26. Don't give up, go on step by step, don't let the opportunity slip away from your eyes, and eventually you will get where you want to go.

27. Rich people like to say? Money is not everything? Beautiful people like to say? Actually, looks are not the most important thing, okay? Thin people like to say? Actually, it's better to be fat, healthy? Hard-working people like to say? Hard work is not the decisive factor? . They just pay lip service, but you take it seriously.

28. Don't be nervous. Take a deep breath. Hold on. Take it.

29. Loneliness is because you deserve better. Everyone is lonely sometimes, long or short, which is an inevitable process. Lonely people do not always feel that life is empty. God always wants you to empty your hands so that you can better grasp everything.

30, don't make noise, silently guard the years; Don't complain, don't regret, despise yourself.

3 1, there are at least two things in this world that you can't laugh at, one is your birth and the other is your dream. When a person carefully shares his dreams with you, in fact, he is completely unprepared for you. Dreams are big or small. All dreams are like starlight in the dark night, peach blossoms fly away, brilliant and arrogant.

32, life is not simple, try to be simple. Time is a good medicine. If you master it, it is the antidote. If you waste it, it is poison.

33. My parents raised you for more than ten or twenty years. How many monsters have you run and how many valleys and mountains have you walked before you become such a unique person, but you have to humble yourself to the dust in front of love and say that you won't hang from a tree, but you will turn around and lean on a tree voluntarily. Those who didn't love in those years and didn't know how to cherish letting go in advance are actually reminding you that you deserve better.

34. If you have no joy when you get it, no worries when you lose it, and a peaceful mind, then happiness will always be there; Success is not arrogant, failure is not impetuous, mentality is harmonious, and happiness is always there.

35. I often use it? That's what people do all their lives? This sentence is used to warn yourself and persuade friends. These seven words are easy to say, simple to sound, but profound to think about; It can make me brave when I am weak, modest when I am proud, positive when I am decadent, happy when I am in pain, and I can bear anything, so I call it? Beaten? 、? Seven-word motto? .

36. Some roads look very close, but in fact they go very far. People who are impatient will never reach the finish line. Life is half a reality and half a dream.

37. I believe there must be your lover in the world. Whether you are surrounded by light and overwhelmed by applause at the moment, or you are walking alone in a cold street and getting wet by heavy rain, whether it is in the morning with light snow or in the evening scorched by heat wave, he will definitely walk past them and walk towards you one by one through the turbulent crowd in the world. He will find you. You must wait.

38. If life is a journey, then no matter whether it is prosperous or lonely, it is a passing sight, leaving behind the mood of watching the scenery.

39. Life is to stay at home, go out and go home. All our emotional, rational and will pursuits or attempts are nothing but homesickness in the soul. Want to find a person, a thing, a position, let our body and mind have a stable home in this vast world. ? Qian Zhongshu

Please be kind, no matter how cold the world is.